Here's the thing... sexual urges and lust are such powerful human desires that if you continue to feed them they grow... but if you suppress them they become manageable and can be controlled. I recommend that if you want to maintain your virginity the discipline to control your desires would be necessary. Distract yourself, engage in other passions, seek counsel from a trustworthy professional and constantly remind yourself of the personal convictions or religious reasons why maintaining your virginity is important to you. Trust me I've been there and I've learned the hard way. That's my opinion good luck
This is a smart woman. You get very good advice @tauriel01
It depends on what definition of "Losing Your Virginity" that you use.
There are a ton of ways to have super erotic encounters and earth shaking orgasms, with a guy, or another girl, without any vaginal penetration.
So if that meets your definition... have at it and have fun!
I mean, there are always the loopholes. If you don't mind being fingered a bit, I can attest to the success of getting virgin girls off with my fingers while also giving her the proxy feeling of getting stretched and filled through anal sex. It definitely works, but only if you want it to.
Don't try if you have even the smallest doubt. And if that is the case, perhaps a 69? Learning the trick to sucking a dick can be done in a matter of minutes. Concentrate on it and try to ignore what he's doing to you. Let the orgasm sneak up on you. Fun times..
Sexting can be a good alternative, just whatever u do don’t have sex with the wrong person just cause ur horny that would b a big mistake
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That's not helpful
@triff I think that's for her to say.
She's asking for help not how to throw away her virginity
You could try trolling better but don't know if that will really help you any.
First thing send me a private message let's work on this together lol. No I'm not sure because I'm in the same boat if you learn any good ways once again sent me a message
That's really tough you will have to be strong willed and remember why you want to wait and use that to motivate yourself to wait there really is not much else you can do but get married unfortunately so I hope you are with a potential partner to marry already as you dont want to go all through your youthful years without sex as they are the years you crave it the most and will want to have it the most
There is no replacement for the real thing
Keep doing what you do already until you get married, and unlike what some people told you, don't use dildo, as it would torn your hymen, the actual proof for your virginity.
That must be so frustrating for you Are you doing anything with a guy other than full sex Masturbation can also damage the hyem But I do have respect for you and admire your challenge No one should have to have sex to please it should be a natural joint mutual discussion
Find more satisfying ways to enjoy yourself? Other toys or test the waters with some crazy things.
You need some good oral with a tongue swirling around your clit hood.
Get married and pounce on your husband.
Keep masturbating. Perhaps get a dildo a use it. Have sex with someone only when you're ready.
Invest in a good silky smooth plastic friend
Setting and virtual sex should help
sexy picture and well timed pic lol... have you tried toys like a dildo?
Well thats something good tbh n u should enjoy n have fun
Get looking for ur mans
buy some fake penises (dildo or vibrator) and use them.
Accept yourself for how and who you are and go with the flow.
Why wait until you're married? Do you think you'll be able to find someone else who has also waited and do you think they'll actually care?
I come from a very very sexual family (not with each other obviously, ewe) and my sister had sex with hundreds of men before marriage. I'm gay and I think you'd fall over dead if I said how many I've been with.
Sex isn't gross and bad and wrong unless you make it that way in your own head.
Accept yourself.
If you don't want to lose her virginity. Why don't you do oral and anal. That way you won't lose your virginity.
Use a dildo and pretend it's a penis
I say get on birth control use condoms and go do it with someone that you love because that curiousity is going to kill you lol
by the way insertion in sex is the worst pain ever
I agree...
@Wild_princess with insertion?
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