If a guy was raped by a girl, does that mean he was defiled forever?
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Guys, if you had a friend who was raped by a girl, would you mock him, or support him? Would you feel defiled if you were raped by a girl? Girls, would you date a guy who was raped by a girl?
Yes, he is defiled forever in any case
Vote A
No, because most guys would like to be sexually harassed by a girl in any way possible
Vote B
He is defiled only if she assaulted him with a strap-on, but not vaginally
Vote C
No, he was not defiled and I would support him as a friend
Vote D
No, he was not defiled and I would date him (if I liked him)
Vote E
Maybe he was defiled but only if the attacker was another male
Vote F
Girls can't rape guys unless in a movie, tv show, or when role playing in bedroom
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BerethorMaster
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The guy lost his virginity if the girl has forced a vaginal sex on him, the guy is defiled forever if he was assfucked, whatever it was with a girl or a guy, and whatever it was with forcefully or willingly, but at the same time he is also a technical virgin if he didn't had a vaginal sex. A girl can rape a guy even though it's unlikely, it's just that girls virginity is more valuable than guys virginity, that's why a guy is unlikely to feel defiled if a girl forced a hetrosexual sex on him, the guy might be traumatized but the lose of purity is less meaningful than in girl's case.
That's a very detailed answer. In your opinion, why do people think that girl's virginity is more valuable than guys virginity? Yeah, I suppose a guy would be traumatized if he was raped by an ugly or fat girl, but he probably wouldn't mind if the attacker was some very attractive girl, right? Okay, so vaginal sex takes virginity, anal sex is defiling, what about oral sex, what if she pointed a gun in his head, and forced him to orally satisfy her?
Berethor
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Glad to hear that, looks like I have much knowledge about those issues. Girls virginity considered more valuable than guys virginity because girls can get pregnant from sex, and it's also why girls expected to be more choose. Girls would also probably wouldn't mind as much if the attacker was some very attractive guy, girls are just less likely to admit it, especially if they feminists, but you saw how popular is fifty shades of grey book among girls, and the book has actual rape, though the move is thankfully lighter and softer. The point is that I think that it's almost impossible for a guy to feel defiled by hetrosexual sex, I consider assfucked guy defilement because of how much gay it makes a guy look, and a of course a strap-on is not an actual part of a girl's body, so it still means that the girls was unable to defile a guy with her own natural body, without the help of any artificial tools. As for giving a girl oral, I consider it humiliating, but nowhere near the level of a guy being assfucked. A guy would likely feel more used by a girl who force him to give her oral than if a girl virginity rape him.
That's true, I'm sure that most girls wouldn't admit it, even if the attacker was some hot guy. But why do you think that girls who were raped are considered as defiled if they weren't anally raped? Vagina is a sex organ, ass is not, so why the double standards? I see, yeah, it would be humiliating for the guy if he would have to kneel and lick her vagina, but he probably wouldn't feel as bad as in case of losing virginity, or anal defilement.
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VanillaSalt
+1 y
Men love this attention. That’s why it’s unlikely to be an issue. Also women if getting pregnant is the difference... and I like the double standards that have women as weaker needing men to protect them. It gives men purpose. These days everyone wants everyone to be the same and I’m so tired of this shit.
Asker
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@VanillaSalt So double standards are just because of possible pregnancy? But even if a girl was not raped, she might have had a few boyfriends before, so why would she be defiled, she could have get pregnant with any of her previous sex partners voluntarily. Yeah, but sometimes a tomboyish girl can protect a nerdy guy from bullies.
VanillaSalt
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But your question was specifically about rape... and again women are something precious and fragile that a man needs to protect giving him a new meaning aside from the selfish life he lives prior. A man makes himself to be amazing and life is all about him then after he attracts a woman she becomes his priority. She acknowledges his accomplishments in life the man he built himself to be and both receive satisfaction from this life. Woman gets her attention she usually wants and man gets acknowledgement we so desperately desire... that’s the double standards and the beauty of 2 parts completing each other. Not that this means anything anymore sadly. But in my opinion no a guy can’t easily get raped and what women consider rape is to a guy just hard sex...
Asker
+1 y
@VanillaSalt That's kinda old-fashioned view on sex. But even in the antique times, some women were dominant. Okay, hard sex, so you think that guys actually like to be "raped" by a girl?
Berethor
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@Asker Girls usually won't admit it in public, but if it was a hot guy then they much less likely to report on him, it's works almost the same with so called harassment. Feminists claim that the only reason that girls don't report on rape is because they afraid that they would get more humiliated when the story gets out, but girls who was raped by a hot guy and don't report on him likely don't do it for other reasons as well, it's easier for them to forgive him because he is a hot guy, or they even glad that they was raped by a hot guy. You saw the link about defiled forever? there is considerable connection between how much purity is valued in society and how evil rape is seen in society, many feminists think that they can have the cake and eat it too, on one hand say that sex is meaningless, and on the other hand say that rape AKA forced sex is the worse violent act on earth, even worse than murder, and note while girls get raped more than guys, guys are get murdered more than girls, but who care about guys right? Many gender double standards comes from the fact that guys and girls are different, and not just because society thinks so, but also because sexual dimorphism is actually a thing, even though feminists don't like to admit it. Dominant girls are an exception, but even dominant girls can't fully defy their biology.
Berethor
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@Asker There is obviously a lower bar for girls defilement than for guys defilement, and it connected to how girls virginity AKA purity is valued more than guys purity, there is more girls who wait until marriage than guys who wait until marriage, girls are more likely to value their own virginity, while guys are more likely to look for having sex as soon as possible, a guy is more likely to be seen as pervert by default, sometimes even if he is still a virgin, while it's takes much more work for a girl to be seen as pervert, and even if a girl prove that she is a pervert then many people are going to doubt if she truly a pervert, while much less people are going to doubt if a guy is truly a pervert, it's also one of the reasons for why much less people are going to believe a that a guy feel bad and not good about a girl virginity raping him. Just like said in the link about defiled forever, the term is used for all kinds of extramarital sex, whatever it was voluntarily or not, it's because a girl was part of something nasty and not pure anymore, and therefore defiled, it's make sense for people who see extramarital sex as a very bad thing, to also see rape as a very bad thing, especially a rape of a virgin girl, but if a girl has already had a lot of penises in her vagina, one more, one less it didn't matters that much at that point, or in other words, she was already defiled, it's also why a girl that has no problem jumping from one penis to another is much more likely to cheat, that why guys usually don't see girls like that as a wife material.
Berethor
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@Asker Even if rape is bad in general, obviously a rape of a virgin is the most sinister, it's defiling something that was pure, not something that was already unpure AKA defiled, the papa maybe factor is the reason why guys usually prefer a girl with a cleaner past, the more penises she been with, the more nasty is her past, also it usually easy for girls to find sex, so there is not much of a achievement for a girl, the achievement of a girl is opposite, that's why there is saying that women are like locks, and by the way guys are usually also less okay with dating single moms, while girls tend to be more accepting of that, girls tend to be more accepting of guys sexual past in general, and there is biological reasons for those things. Guys don't only tend to be naturally stronger than girls, guys also tend to be naturally more sexual than girls, nymphomaniac girls are an exception similarly to dominant girls, it's considered a masculine traits for a reason. Note a strap-on is not the only artificial thing, most birth control methods are also artificial, with a possible exception of pull out method, so with no birth control what a girl virginity raping a guy gonna do? pointed a gun in his head and tell him that she gonna shot if he cum? you see how hard it's for a girl to rape a guy without many artificial tools? and really even if she have a gun or knife the guy might still break free, so a girl might also need to bind a guy to be able to rape him, while a guy usually don't need none of those things to be able to dominate and/or rape a girl. No matter how many artificial things people has created, most people are instinctively and logically going to consider the natural state as more important and more valuable, for a similar reason most guys refuse to date an trans girls.
Berethor
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@Asker I already mention that pregnancy is the main reason for why a girl's chastity seen as more important than guy's chastity. If a guy raped a girl then he might not only forced her to satisfy him, but he might also forced her have his child, especially if the girl don't believe in abortions, even in case of rape, and on a lesser note girls also tend to have a hymen while guys don't, that means that girls virginity is both physical and mental, while guys state of virginity is mostly mental. It's also harder for people to take seriously a girl saying that she fucked a guy as opposed to a guy saying that he fucked a girl, it's because girls tend to be passive in sex, but it's also because of the shape of the sexual organs themselves, many people use the term penetration for sex, though you can use the term PIV instead, and a girls can claim that she devoured the guy's penis, I actually heard one girl that make that claim but it's rare to hear that claim, in fact there is dominant girls who avoid PIV because they see it as inherently submissive act for girls, though maybe some of them avoid it also because they too lazy to be on top, needless to say most guys find that form of female domination lame and pointless.
Berethor
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@Asker Don't get me wrong a girl get defiled by anal as well, even though some technical virgin girls might believe otherwise, many people see girls who allow a guy to put his penis in their ass more slutty than girls who only agree for PIV, and in fact there is porn stars who refuse to do anal, and it shows that even porn stars can have standards, and have more respect for girls who don't do anal, at least in that aspect, but as I said it's mostly because the bar for girls defilement is lower than the the bar for guys defilement, plus girls can't get pregnant from anal while guys can't get pregnant from anything, so even though most girls don't like being assfucked and prefer to have normal sex AKA PIV, anal has one benefit for girls and that they can't get pregnant from it, while being assfucked has almost zero benefit for guys, at least for true straight guys, being assfucked is very humiliating for both genders, but it's much more humiliating for guys than girls, because while it makes girls look slutty, it make guys look gay, and for most guys to look totally gay is much worse than for girls to look more slutty.
Berethor
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@Asker So most guys would feel much more violated by anal defilement than anything else, we agree on that, but the level of humiliation for a guy from licking a vagina while he is on his kneels is more controversial, and oral rape was not even part of the original question. You think that for a guy to lose his virginity for girl that virginity raped him would be worse than if a girl forced him to lick her vagina and didn't even lick his penis in return? I doubt that, because he might be able to enjoy the PIV even if it was forced on him, but licking a vagina of a strange girl is something that he is much likely to enjoy, but that said it would allow him to stay a technical virgin, but as I say most guys don't value their virginity as much as girls tend to value their virginity, so a guy is more likely to feel more humiliated by being forced to lick a vagina than by being forced to lose his precious virginity. As for what @VanillaSalt said, he right that most guys would probably don't mind being raped by a girl, many girls only care about getting a pussy, and most other factors are irrelevant, maybe with possible exception of girl's looks, but even that don't matter that much if the guy is drunk, as russians says "there is no such thing as ugly women, there's just not enough vodka."
Asker
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Okay, I agree that lots of girls don't report them because it's easier for a girl to forgive if he is a hot guy. Yes, I saw the link, but don't you think that purity is just a phrase invented by some religious leader in the distant past? Femi-nazis are more obsessed with rape than genuine feminists, but the thing is - Femi-nazis are mostly ugly girls, old hags, and fat women, no man would even try to rape them because he wouldn't be able to get an erection by looking at them. That's why they always claim that rape is worse than murder, because they actually envy attractive girls, who always get attention from men. True, guys get murdered more than girls, but that's because patriarchal society is teaching men to be aggressive and making them go to war. On the other hand, they are raising girls to be passive & submissive, and to avoid conflicts. So, whos fault it that? It's quite obvious - Religion. I know that sexual dimorphism is a thing, but it's more visible in animals. Humans are more evolved and they differ from animals because they have higher level of consciousness, enebling them to think more individually, and to decide not to follow gender stereotypes. Dominant girls are not the only exception, you forgot about submissive guys. Ok, all true, but some guys are monogamous too, and they want to find a special girl to marry, you can't think of them as perverts. Yeah, I know it's rare, but I know some girls who are total perverts, much worse than any guy I've ever met. Alright, but what if a guy had his penis in many vaginas, is he a husband material? Sure, he is experienced, but he could also be infected by some sexually transmitted disease. Correct, it's usually easy for girls to find sex, even for uglier girls, but that's just because lots of guys either have low standards, or are more desperate for sex, or they get drunk and end up with some unattractive girl.
Asker
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Girls are naturally sexual too, but they are less likely to admit it, because then they would look easy or slutty. Yeah, guys love nymphomaniac girls. Tough girl can rape a wimpy guy, a nerd or a sissy, without a gun or any other artificial thing. Strap-on is just a fetish of some guys who are not completely straight. In real life, strap-on is rarely used by female rapists, because it's not a part of their body, and it gives them no pleasure. Exactly, I think that any guy with a common sense would never date a trans-woman, becuase it's not a natural woman. Well, that's another problem caused by religion, most girls who are against abortions are religious. Girls can get pregnant against their will by rape, but a guy can also get STD if lost his virginity by getting raped by a girl who carries a disease, so both sexes have certain risks. Hmm, dominant girls are not passive in sex, they usually say they fucked a guy, yeah, it's usually described as enveloping or devouring a penis with their vagina. In general, dominant girl is on top, she puts the guy's penis inside herself, and she controls the penetration. But yeah, I agree, girls who are too lazy to be on top are lame and not genuinely dominant, they are just bossy submissive girls.
Asker
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Exactly, girls can't get pregnant from anal, so why would they be considered as defiled in the case of anal rape? I understand why guys are defiled like that, because it's not heterosexual act in a biologically natural way. I know, even some porn actresses avoid anal sex because it's dirty. Anus is not a sex organ, its normal biological function is an exit only (for body waste). Surprisingly, some guys in here think that sucking a penis is a dominant act, I disagree with that, it's an active form of submission, I know that a girl can bite his penis off, but it's still risky if he has a gun. That's why I asked you about situation when a girl forces a guy to lick her vagina on his knees, at a gun point. I guess a guy would feel humiliated, but it could also be very unpleasant for him if her vagina was hairy, or smelly. Yeah, that's what he said, but would you care if your rapist was a very ugly and muscular girl, or a fat woman, or some other unattractive bitch?
Berethor
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Your asking if a girl can defile a guy and then you ask if purity is a thing? if you don't believe in purity then you should also don't believe in defilement, it's two sides of the same coin. Purity is a similar concept to honor, can a honorless person understand the concept of honor? and you can't kill what's already dead right? yes I believe in girl's purity and I value it, but it does not means that I would be talking about it in questions that are irrelevant to it, if there is question about purity and sluttness then I support the purity side, but I am not looking to preach about it in questions that irrelevant to that topic, like some religious people do, that why didn't saw me talk about in questions that are focused on BDSM. Yes the seeing marriage as an important thing is something that seem to come from religion, but girls promiscuous lifestyle having more consequences, and guys being more territorial than girls and less forgiving to girls sexual past, those things are based on biology, because girls are the ones who get pregnant, so their is higher risk for girls if they get pregnant from a wrong guy, while for a guy their is higher risk to have a serious relationship with a promiscuous girl, because then "his" children are likely to not be his, that's one of the main bases for why girls chastity is valued more, while girls slutiness is likely to be seen as a bad thing, not to say that slutty girls are necessarily totally useless, guys might have casual sex with them, but they are not wife material.
It's true that religion is one of the main pillars of tradition, but you really believe that religion is the only reason that guys tend to be masculine and girls tend to be feminine? it's scientifically proven that testosterone is one of the main reasons for why guys tend be more violent and sexual than girls, and testosterone is also the reason for many other masculine behaviors, so those stereotypes are based on truth, it's just that there is exceptions. That said there is appeal to inherent nature in play here, and it true that humans have the ability to not always act based on their instincts, but the claim that masculine and feminine instincts don't matter is not true, it's connected to the nature vs nurture dilemma, and the truth is that both have an effect on human behavior. It's true that some guys are monogamous too, and they might even wait until marriage, but guys who don't act like perverts are also exceptions, especially nowadays, and in that case the lack of religion only makes that matter worse. It's true that a guy who had his penis in many vaginas might also not be a husband material, and it's okay for girls to turn down a guy based on that, and some girls do, but the fact is that girls tend to care about it much less than guys, and it's because biology I believe. Notice that you choose to call him experienced instead of calling him predator, but a guy is more likely to see a promiscuous girl as a slut than as a experienced girl.
Berethor
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Yes you right about sexually transmitted diseases, but it's not like girls are immune to sexually transmitted diseases, so promiscuous girls are at risk of getting a sexually transmitted diseases and at risk of getting pregnant from a guy that they barely know, also it looks girls tend to be more worried about pregnancy than about sexually transmitted diseases, even though in most cases getting a sexually transmitted disease is worse. Yes the fact that guys usually have low standards than girls is one of the main reasons for why it's usually easy for girls to find sex, even for ugly girls, unless they super ugly or the guy is super drunk, but guys having low standards is because there is less consequences for a guys for having sex with a wrong girl, guys are not the ones who carry a baby for nine month, "but what with child support?", there was no child support in the wild, just like there was no birth control in the wild, and humans tend to follow their instinct from a natural state, and many of them are still relevant even if it's to a lesser degree than in the past. That said guys tend to be less choosy when it comes to casual relationship, when it comes to casual relationship guys sometimes might be more choosy than girls, especially in terms of their partner looks and sexual past, but as I said it makes sense, because guys take a much higher risk by seriously dating a slutty girl, a girl don't need to worry about "her" child not being hers, sexual dimorphism.
Berethor
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Girls can be sexual in usually girls tend to be less sexual than guys, and it makes sense, because it's harder for a very sexual girl AKA nymphomaniac girl to avoid being slutty. Guys love nymphomaniac girls? yes and no, nymphomaniac girls are a mixed bag, on one hand guys usually like the opportunity for having more sex, but on the other hand it's harder to trust a nymphomaniac girl not to cheat, and as I said before guys are more vulnerable to cheating, especially "their" girl get pregnant from it, plus guys also get more humiliated by that. Yes most girls who are against abortions are religious, and I also think that it stupid if a girl is against having an abortion even in case of rape, because that pregnancy was forced on her and and it's like she is giving the rapest a prize, she was not only used for sex by the rapist, she is also used for having the rapist baby. Poland is a very religious country where abortions are illegal in most cases, but they make an exception for rape, I think that the current polish law makes sense, but there is religious extremists in poland who want to outlaw abortions even in case of rape.
Yes a guy can get STDs from being raped if the girl who raped him have STDs, but as I said girls are not immune to getting STDs, so it still a double risk for girls. Yes a guy could also lose his virginity from rape, but as I said girls usually value their virginity more than guys. Yea personally I would care if the rapist girl was ugly, but there is many guys who don't seems to care, as long as she don't force them to also marry her. Yes fat women tend to be unattractive, but why you consider a muscular girl unattractive? didn't you all about a girl being physically strong? though you right that if a girl is extremely muscular it looks weird, it's also likely that this girls is taking male hormones, so he might be halfway from becoming a trans-man, which is obviously a turn-off for most men.
I agree that any man with a common sense would never date a trans-woman, natural women are the best women, I think that it's also fairly gay for a guy to date a girl who was born as a guy, it's makes sense that it's a huge turn-off for most guys. Yes a tough girl might be able to rape a wimpy guy, a nerd or a sissy, without a gun or any other artificial thing, but it's extremely rare to hear about a girl who was able to rape a guy without a gun or any other artificial thing. Yea strap-on is just a fetish of some guys who are not completely straight, same thing is usually also apply to guys who are into dating trans-girls. Guys can't get pregnant from anal as well, pregnancy is not a factor in anal defilement, your claim is that it might be less bad for a girl because she can't get pregnant from anal rape, while she can get pregnant from vaginal rape, or your claim is that because she used to having penises inside her then she would not feel as defiled by being assfucked on the same level that a guy would feel defiled by being assfucked? obviously it more humiliating for a guy than for a girl to be on a receiving end of anal, because it makes a guy look gay, it don't make a girl look gay, in fact liking being on the giving side of anal can also make a guy look gay, while being on a receiving side make a guy look more gay.
Berethor
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Yes anus is not a sex organ, it's normal biological function is an exit only, and one of the best ways to convince a guy who want anal to give up on that is to tell him that he should also try it from the other side. The point is that similar to the double risk for a girl who have a willing on unwilling sex with a stranger, in the form of possible pregnancy and STDs, there is also twice as much defilement forms for a girl, she might be anally defiled and vaginally defiled, conclusion sex tend to be riskier for girls in general, because of sexual dimorphism. Yes I also call giving oral an active form of submission, and it can be little confusing because submissive people tend to be mostly passive in sex. A girl sucking guy's penis totally showcase her dominance over him, poor guy, sarcasm mode, but maybe it shows that she not totally passive after all, even if she never being on top in the main event, it's a way for girls to be more active while staying 100% submissive.
Berethor
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The guys who are telling dominant girls that sucking a penis is a dominant act are likely just trying to fool dominant girls into sucking guys dicks, but maybe there is some "dominant girls" who are sucking penises similar to how there is "dominant girls" who are too lazy and/or unskilled to be on top. By the way as a very dominant girl, which experience consider less bad, a dominant girl being on bottom during vaginal sex or a dominant girl sucking a penis? yes the guy would likely feel humiliated by being orally raped while he on his knees and the guy would likely not enjoy it, and if the girl that orally raped raped the guy has a hairy and/or smelly vagina then the licking her vagina would likely be physically unpleasant for him. If the girl is unattractive looking then she likely also have a hairy and/or smelly vagina.
Berethor
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Oral rape seem to be the most uncommon type of rape, likely because it put the rapist in a vulnerable position, but you have point about if the rapist has a gun, also even with a gun it still a vulnerable position, and there is some people who are very brave to a point of suicidal, or just suicidal, though most people don't. Yes looks like femi-nazis tend to be jealous of attractive girls, most of them are not able to get sex anyway, despite the fact that it's usually easy for girls to get sex, so femi-nazis want to ruin the enjoyment from sexual things for everyone, an "taking you with me" to the while world, how femi-nazis see guys being attracted to girls as objectification is the best proof of that, good thing that not guy would objectify them, they objectification proof. By the why did you saw a post of a radfem, a femi-nazi? that claim that all PIV is rape? if no then you doing to love reading that. :)
I mean to say that "guys tend to be less choosy when it comes to casual relationship, when it comes to serious relationship guys sometimes might be more choosy than girls, especially in terms of their partner looks and sexual past, but as I said it makes sense, because guys take a much higher risk by seriously dating a slutty girl, a girl don't need to worry about "her" child not being hers, sexual dimorphism."
Asker
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I see, your concept of purity is not based on religion, but on honor, I appreciate that... in fact, I share your view on the subject. Well, marriage existed even in pagan societies, and it countinued existing in secular societies. I get it, guys are afraid that children won't be theirs, however, the other guys who were having sex with their wifes or girlfriends obviously didn't care about the honor and purity, all they wanted is casual sex with someone elses girl. Cheating has two sides too. Yes, I think that religion had lots of influence on behavior of both men and women. Sure, but as I said, testosterone effects vary from ethnicity to ethnicity. Some ethnic groups have men who behave more passive, while their women are more aggressive. Different nations and different races also have differences related to testosterone effects. Exactly, nurture or upbringing is more related issue because it teaches people to be conservative and closed-minded. So, if an individual (male of female) uses his/her head for thinking for himself/herself, they won't let some backward tradition to influence their sexual behavior. Unlike most animals, we evolved beyond instinct, we can rely on our intelect. Why would lack of religion make things worse? I know guys who are moral and atheist. On the other hand, some religious guys are perverts. In my opinion, being a moral atheist is more worthy, because an atheist is moral because he or she knows what's right or wrong, without being afraid of some supernatural creature to punish them, and without some desire to get a divine reward for being good. Yeah, I know, but there are exceptions, as always, some guys don't want a virgin girl, they don't want that kind of responsobility, that's why they like experienced girls. Naturally, guys who are monogamous definitely don't want slutty girls. The same goes for women, not all of us want a guy who is a male slut.
Asker
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I agree, getting a sexually transmitted disease is worse than pregnancy, but guys can't get pregnant so they worry a bit more about STDs than women do. Yup, child support can be a big financial problem, which can occur if there is no birth control available. Oh, that's so true, girls always know that a child is theirs, it doesn't matter who is the father, recently I found out that a woman can give a birth to twins with two different fathers. Hmm, I know, have you ever met a nymphomaniac who is not slutty? She can be selective, but still, she acts like "one of the guys", she has casual sex, and lots of it. Yes, I know, guys are humiliated by that very much, I knew a guy whos wife was a nymphomaniac, he worked at military, and she cheated on him with an entire platoon of his military companions. I completely agree, rape is a valid reason for abortion, even some religious people know that. Yes, I know that girls are not immune to getting STDs, but considering guys don't have to fear pregnancy, they usually worry more about STDs than girls do. I guess it's because STDs have more painful effect on men, especially when an urologist has to examine their bladder and prostate with a cystoscope. Male sex organ is much narrower inside, and the examination can be quite painful. Yes, I like being physically strong, but I know that guys don't like girls who look like the Incredible Hulk. Too muscular women are usually unattractive for most guys. True, especially if she is taking hormones, she might look like a intersexual, or even transexual person.
Asker
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Exactly, natural women are the real women, trans "women" are just guys who think they were born in a "wrong body". On the other hand, intersexuals are naturally born human hermaphrodites, but they are infertile, and they usually choose to take a sex surgery and decide what gender they want to be. Yes, it's extremely rare to hear about a girl who was able to rape a guy without a gun or any other tool, but it happens sometimes. Yup, those guys are sick, I can't understand their infatuation with strap-on. I see your point, people usually make humiliating jokes about guys who like to be anally penetrated. Still, it doesn't apply to girls, even though, I think anal sex is repulsive. Ok, we agree on oral, a girl can do it actively, but she can also hurt him. Agreed, once again, in the case of oral rape, the rapist is in a vulnerable position, so a brave, depressed, or a suicidal person could hurt them very badly. Well, that's true, but they can't fool me, I know that giving oral is not a dominant act. I don't know, I've never been on bottom, and I was only receiving oral. Exactly, he would feel unpleasant if she had hairy and smelly vagina, that would probably disgust him.
Asker
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Oh yeah, femi-nazis totally hate us, I've experienced that, whenever they see a hot girl, they always give us an "evil eye" and a hateful comment... pure jealousy. True, they want to ruin the enjoyment from sexual things for attractive girls, just like incels are trying to ruin it for attractive men. I know, but still, I'm usually very choosy, so it's not just men.
Berethor
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It's not mutually exclusive, many people have a honor that is based both on religion and on personal sense of honor, and personally I don't care much if a girl is pure/honorable/good because of religion or because of personal choices. I am not a religious person, though I have some conservative believes, and you too actually, despite being a tomboy. I obviously value purity and honor not just because of religion, as I said there is biological reasons for why girls purity is valued by guys, while girls impurity make a girl less valuable to guys, when it comes to serious relationship, we see that happening among many animal species too, when a male don't trust a female that her offsprings is also his, so the female is raising the offsprings alone, while in other species where the male more or less knows that the offspring is also his then he stayed with female, males tend to be more territorial than females, cucks are exception. A male need to make sure that the offsprings are his, otherwise he is likely to leave, what humans call casual relationship. Yes cheating has two sides, and in some societies both the wife and the lover was punished, though in some societies only the wife was punished. Girls tend to be naturally more choosy and less sexual than guys, so there is higher expectations from girls to not let a inappropriate se to happen, girls are commonly seen as the main gatekeepers of sex, while it's expected if a guys jump at any opportunity to get a pussy, so a girl is expected to be the one who stop the guy, unless she was raped, and even in case of rape some people might say that she didn't done enough to try to prevent it.
Berethor
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Why should a guy or girl not follow a tradition when the tradition makes sense? I am not challenging tradition just to try to look special, but I am conservative/traditional about everything, as you likely already notice. I rely on my intellect, but I can also rely on my instincts and on tradition when it fits me, just like I might let a girl be dominant when it fits me, but when it not fit me then I would rather follow my masculine instinct and natural abilities and take control. The intellect is there to decide when it right to follow the instinct and when not, there is many cases when following the instincts and tradition is right, but it's not always right. You are influenced by instincts and tradition to some level whatever you admit it or not, it's only a question of degree. Yea being a moral atheist might be more of a feat, or not even necessarily an atheist, being a moral secular is quite a feat, not being worried about religion and tradition and still choosing to be moral is more noteworthy, but moral secular girls are rare from what I seen, especially when it comes to sexual mortals, religious girls are much more likely to be good girls, but you right that there is religious people who are hypocrites, religious technical virgin girls by choice are an good example of that, they not truly pure, also there is some religious flows who are not very moral, to say the least. A guy who truly prefer a slutty girl over a virgin girl likely have a cuck tendencies and/or was brainwashed by feminist nonsense, biologically and logically guys tend to prefer good girls for a serious relationship, because slutty girls tend to be untrustworthy, also a guy who said that he prefer a 'experienced girl' is likely lying and/or looking for a casual relationship, that not to say that all guys are able to get a virgin girl, and sometimes guys compromise, but guys tend to prefer virgin girl over a slutty girl.
Berethor
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Yes some girls also look for a noble guy over a bad boy, but it's much more rare for girls to place as much emphasis on purity as guys do. The main qualities that guys are usually looking for in girl is beauty and purity, others things tend to be secondary as best, though you can say that beauty is more universal, and by your pregnancy and STDs logic, guys that seemingly don't concern about a girl's purity are likely even more concern about a girl's beauty or lack of. Yes guys seems to be worried about STDs more than girls, while girls tend to worry more about pregnancy. Nope never met a nymphomaniac girl who is not slutty in real life, so it mostly theoretical, but there is one girl on GAG who claim to be nymphomaniac, and she married, and said that she don't cheat on her husband, even though she frequently don't feel satisfied, because she want more sex than her husband is providing her with, she also has a strong maternal instinct which also seems uncommon for nymphomaniac girls, likely because nymphomaniac girls tend to be hedonists, and she has two children already and after some years has pasts she want a third child. She also got marred at young age, so she might not had a slutty past before she met her husband.
Berethor
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A girl's sluttiness is measured by the amount of guys that she having sex with, not by the amount of sex that she had with a same guy, so a girl that had sex with ten guys is more slutty than a girl that had sex thousands times with the same guy, even if the girl that had sex with ten guys did it with each guy "only" once. So if a guy manage to keep up with a nymphomaniac girl, somehow, without dying from execution, then she might had sex with him all day, and not felt the need to look for penises on the side. I guy who don't know better would excited about finding a girl who is so eager, but he likely don't know the downsides, that high likelihood of that she would cheat on him and/or exhaust him to death. That explain why girls tend to be less sexual than guys and why nature prefer it so. It's usually easier for girls to be in a relationship with a guy who is much more sexual than them than the other way around, high enthusiasm and stamina are more important for guys than for girls, a girl can 'lie back and think of england', while the guy is usually most of the work in sex, and guys also need to keep an erection, while girls don't. Nymphomaniac girls can be quite scary, a libido of a guy or more, without the limitations of a guy, it's also harder to be choosy as a nymphomaniac girl, and girls are expected to be choosy, because girls are the ones who can get pregnant. Those factors explain why nature prefer for girl to be less sexual than guys, and that's why girls tend to be less sexual than guys, with some exceptions. Yes, it's extremely rare to hear about a girl who was able to rape a guy without a gun or any other tool, but maybe it happen sometimes, beside statutory rape. People sometime call girls that have penises in their asses 'analwhores', but I agree that it's more humiliating for a guy to be anally penetrated, as it does not only makes him look pathetic, but it's also totally emasculating.
Asker
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I know, I totally agree, I'm not a religious person either, and you're right, I also have some conservative believes, despite being a tomboy. Of course, but some animals have larger females, so males have no opportunity to worry about being the father of the offspring, for example hyenas - all of their males are natural cucks :P Exactly, cheating has two sides, a woman can't cheat if there are no willing men around, plus the fact - men are more likely to initiate cheating, because most women are passive, due to patriarchal upbringing. A woman can refuse cheating, if she is loyal, or conservative, or very religious. Though, she can accept cheating if her husband treats her badly, or if she is immoral, or if she is nymphomaniac, or if she has weak will and can't say no (if she is extremely submissive to any male). Yes, unfortunately, in some extremely patriarchal societies (e. g Saudi Arabia) only the wife gets punished, despite the fact a man is probably the one who persuaded her to cheat on her husband. Well, I'm both choosy and very sexual, but I'm also loyal when I'm in a serious relationship. Animals have instincts, but they don't follow any kind of tradition, so why would you? Intellectuals follow logic, they realize that tradition is just a social construct. I'm loyal in a relationship, but not because of tradition, but because cheating is not fair. Besides, I can always see things from a different perspective, I wouldn't like if my boyfriend was cheating on me, so why would I do that to him? I agree with Confucius: "Do not do to others what you would not want them to do to you".
Asker
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Exactly, secular moral worths more. Lots of religious girls cheat, especially if they believe that a prayer will convince "god" to forgive them. True, guys who like slutty girls are either cucks, or maybe too desperate to find a decent girl, because they think that every girl would reject them except the slutty type of girls.
Oh, but a guy who is looking for experienced girl might be a virgin, he doesn't know what to do, that could be a valid reason. Also, even some experienced guys don't want virgins because they are afraid of responsibility of taking her virginity - they think that she will desperately fall in love, or they think the sex would be too painful for her, or they want more perverted sex, something that would be too traumatic for a virgin.
Yeah, a noble guy is like a prince on a white horse, mostly just an illusion for most girls. That's why so many girls end up with bad boys, at least once in a lifetime. Really? A nymphomaniac with strong maternal instinct? You're right, that's very strange and unusual.
Ok, but what if she was in a relationship with those guys, not at the same time, but one at the time? I know, nymphomaniacs can be very exhausting for most guys. I have a very high sex drive and I'm sure that lots of guys wouldn't be able to keep up with me, but even I have limits, I'm not a nympho, even though, some guys think so. I had four long-term relationships before my current boyfriend, and it was not easy for my ex boyfriends to endure all-night long sex, despite me doing all the work.
In the nature, lots of animals have multiple partners, especially mammals. Birds are one of the rare species who are loyal to their partners for a lifetime. Yes, it's extremely rare to hear about a girl who was able to rape a guy without a gun or any other tool, but it happens: metro.co.uk/.../ https://www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-15876968
Berethor
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Didn't read about those female on male rape stories before, the story with the robber was funny, the story with the ritual was sad, his wife left him, even though they have three children, because she don't believe that a rape of female on male is possible or because she consider his defiled forever. Those stories still shows that it hard for a girl to rape a guy, in one story their is whole group of girls on one guy and in the second she needed to tie him up before she raped him, beating up the guy was still not enough to keep him under control during sex. Do not do to others what you would not want them to do to you? well that's an interesting to hear from a girl who never let a guy be on top, but yea cheating is bad, and it's good to hear that you not abuse your power over your boyfriend to cheat on him, "with great power comes great responsibility". Animals do follow traditions, some things that animals do, they learn, not everything that animals is inborn, you can also claim that why a predator learn to hunt that it's a social construct, but the training is there to improve on a natural instinct, similar thing happen with humans, masculinity and femininity are natural instincts, tradition was mostly following natural instincts and improving on them, helping males be more masculine and females be more feminine, if anything it's feminism that pushing females to act in a opposite manner to their biology and instincts, and many women end up unhappy because of that. Some girls might born with masculine behavior, similar to how some girls born with attraction to other girls, but those girls are exception, I fully believe that it's natural for female human to act in a feminine manner, and that's why most girls are feminine, and not only in traditional societies.
Berethor
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Yes I heard the claim that humans are not monogamous by nature, especially that guys are not monogamous by nature, spread the seed and all that, and there might be some truth in that, though monogamous mammals exist, wolves, though nowadays many people are acting more like dogs than wolves. There is also lions and gorilla, while not monogamous in general, the females in those species are monogamous or more accurately loyal, and the male in those species is stronger than the females, I believe that those species are similar to humans in their natural gender dynamics. humans can act like wolves or like lions, human male cucks are just weirdos, and exceptions, and unlike some species, a human female usually can get pregnant only once in nine months and usually with only one child, so there is not much benefit in non-monogamy for a girl, unless she is in a relationship with a impotent, while a guy impregnate multiple girls in a single day, and like in most most mammals species a male would usually not be helping a female to raise the offspring unless he is in a serious relationship with her, and unless he is mostly sure that her offsprings are also his.
Berethor
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So clearly in a natural state a monogamy tend to be more beneficial to girls, in a casual relationship a girl is more likely to be on the losing side, in marriage a guy is more likely to be on losing side, mainly if he married a slut that cheated on him, the guy already limited how many children he would have by being in a monogamous relationship to a girl's proportion, and if his wife cheat on him then he might end up without any children of his own, but with all the responsibility as if the children is his, so the guy end up as a huge sucker. I believe that patriarchy didn't appear out of thin air, patriarchy has appeared because human males tend to be naturally stronger and dominant, while human females tend to be naturally weaker and submissive. Serial monogamy is not true monogamy, and yes a guy is considered more slutty the more guys she had sex with, even if she never been with more than one guy at the same time, a virgin girl is the most pure, a girl that had sex with only one guy is second only to a virgin girl, and it going down from there, a girl that had sex with 10 guys have a more slutty record than a girl that had sex with 5 guys, everything is relative. Cheating is different measure for sluttness, and a girl that cheated likely get extra sluttness points, and a cheater tag, but if a girl is jumping from one penis to another a lot of times it's slutty, even if she didn't technically cheat on any of those guys, but she did leave a lot of guys, so she not exactly the a very trustworthy type, even if she don't cheat.
Berethor
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Yea guys who like slutty girls are usually either cucks or very desperate, and it's not only about finding and getting a decent girl being a harder task, but also because there might be no single decent girl anywhere close, so his choice might be between compromising on a slutty girl or staying alone, then add the fact that guys tend to be more sexual than girls, and that guys tend to value their decency less than girls, though many girls nowadays are also far from decent. Yea I heard that argument in favor of experienced girls, but most girls whatever they virgin or experienced are still expecting the guy to do everything, yes some guys might be worried about seeing a girl in pain if she is a virgin, though it also serve as a proof for a girl being a virgin. As for the responsibility of taking a girl's virginity and the "risk" of her getting more attached, well I already said that guys tend to prefer a virgin girl for a serious relationship, if a guy looking for a casual relationship then yea a non-virgin is usually better suited for that, and a most serious relationship is a relationship that include marriage and children, if a guy looking for a temporary "serious relationship" that relationship is not trule all that serious, virgin girls tend to be wife material.
Berethor
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You say that lots of religious girls cheat, but you also said that a conservative and/or very religious girl tend to can refuse cheating, I am fairly sure that secular girls are more likely to cheat than religious girls, and secular girls also tend to have shorter relationships than religious girls, and as I said serial monogamy is not true monogamy. Secular moral worth more? well not exactly, well not exactly, the secular society as whole clearly tend to be more licentiousness, it's more of a feat to be a good person in a secular society because a secular society is a crapsack world, especially in term of sexual morals, and being good is much harder in a secular society, with all the bad influence around, also a good secular girl is mostly a theoretical concept, good secular girls are very rare, among religious girls it's less rare, though it's true that some religious girls are hypocrites and/or that it's okay to sin, and that a prayer will fix everything, but many secular girls believe that being a slut is totally okay, that why secular girls are much more likely to be sluts. Yes a girl being too submissive might backfire, as a girl might submit to cheating, but slutty girls tend to be confident type, not shy type. Shy and submissive girls tend to be good girls, that's why a guy tend to be instinctively suspicious of a girl that chase him, while guys tend to have more protective feelings for ingenue type of girls, with exception of villainous guys.
In the original law in religion both the wife and the man she cheated deserve punishment, some extremely patriarchal societies only the wife get punished, but it more to do with tradition than religion. Yes a men are more likely to initiate cheating, but for a woman it usually easier to resist the cheating, because women tend be naturally less sexual and more selective than men, and in general unless the woman was raped, when sex don't happen it usually because a woman said no, and not because a man said no, as the saying goes "a woman is like a lock", so it make sense to have higher expectations from a woman, and with higher expectations comes a higher responsibility. A man tend to take part in cheating because of instinct, a woman tend to take part in cheating because of choice, for a man to not take part in cheating means to resist his dark nature, for a woman to take part in cheating means to do a dark deed despite the fact that it contradict her nature, and slutty woman can be seen more evil because of that, because woman is slutty by choice, while a man is slutty because he was not able to control of himself.
A noble guy is mostly just an illusion for most girls and many girls end up with bad boys, at least once in a lifetime because of the crapsack world state of secular society, and it's not like many girls deserve anything else, many girls nowadays are also bad and/or they choose a bad boy on purpose, if they was more careful and/or if they waited until marriage then it would likely not happened, but now it's too late, they was corrupted to begin with your they become corrupted, it's not matters much at that point. If even good girls are rare nowadays, then of course good guys are going to be rare, there is higher expectations from girls to be good, if anything, and if a good guy date a bad girl then he likely to become a cuck, so a guy should know better.
Berethor
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So what happen to your 4 previous boyfriends? they died of exhaustion? or they got upset that you never allow them to be on top? you was riding your ex boyfriends all-night long and you say that you not a nympho? well you sounds pretty nympho to me, and looks like that supergirl costume is very fitting for you after all. :)
Yes nymphomaniac with strong maternal instinct is unusual, but a secular girl who is not slutty is fairly unusual too, and her husband somewhat neglect her, by watching porn and masturbating too much as a expense of having sex with her more often, even when they working on a third child, he is lucky that he married a wife with undying loyalty, despite her being a nymphomaniac, she was first pregnant when she was 17 years old, so she didn't seems to have a slutty past, it's likely why she so loyal to her husband even though she is nymphomaniac, here a link to one of her questions.
Men can obtain and sustain an erection even when they are scared, angry, terrified. Erections are psychological responses to stimuli.
-Men are often ashamed to report forced penetration experiences - they may report domestic abuse without mentioning the sexual abuse -The mental health impact can be severe, including PTSD, thoughts of suicide and sexual dysfunction -Some men report being repeatedly victimised - some experienced childhood sexual abuse, some had endured varying types of sexual violence from different perpetrators, including men -Many had overwhelmingly negative perceptions of the police, criminal justice system, and the law
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Asker
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I know, it can be very traumatic.
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PulcinellaXper 5
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Right, when a guy is raped by a girl, he is a used goods, completely defiled 😜
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Asker
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LOL :D
HelgaVanHornXper 5
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Lol, as far as I know, guys would like to be "raped by a girl" 😏
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Asker
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Yeah, lots of guys wold like it but probably not all of them.
What kind of sick, heartless monster turns their back on someone they call a friend just because they've been attacked? Male or female, my reaction'd be the same: comfort and support them, find out who was responsible, suppress my urge to force-feed them their own intestines, and discuss with my friend what to do next.
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Asker
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Exactly, you're an example of a true friend.
Sam_The_SavageYoda
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I get raped by girl... I nioyed. Lol
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Asker
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Really, how did it happen to you?
Sam_The_Savage
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Lol it happened when I was 14 and my tution teacher she at 26 it happened and I am I was like wtf is gng on I didn't know but than as time goes we did sex together. Even now when she get married. We still do.
Asker
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Lol, ok, at least it wasn't traumatic for you :)
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Sam_The_Savage
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Do you like to raped guys?
Asker
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Hahaha, yeah, my boyfriend likes it when I do that 😜
Sam_The_Savage
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please raped me too. 😂
Asker
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😂😂😂
Sam_The_Savage
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please please I beg you raped me 😂😂
mich15smithXper 7
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rape doesn't "ruin" a person
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Asker
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True, but sometimes it can be very traumatic, right?
panorpanXper 2
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"Technically" speaking, a girl can not rape a guy, because if the guy does not participate in all this by any mean, or he does not enjoy it, he will not be erected, he will not cum. So where's the rape? If he get erected, if he cum, he participated, he enjoy this "situation", so it's not rape.
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Asker
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But what if he is erected because of fear or surprise? Besides, even a woman can cum if she was raped, so why do you think that a man wouldn't be able to cum by force?
xspencerrdx
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Just because your erect doesn't mean you want it just in the same way if a girl gets wet in the situation doesn't mean she wants it their is disconnect between your brain and bodies involuntary reactions to what's going on just like random boners for guys they dont want it but body makes it happen personally to me what u said makes no sense anyone can rape or sexually assault anyone
Asker
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@xspencerrdx Yes, that's what I said, getting wet (women) or erected (men) doesn't mean they want to be sexually assaulted, these are just involuntary body reactions.
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xspencerrdx
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Exactly human primal function is to provide offspring so this is the body's involuntary reaction but we were also blessed with intelligence and to think and make our own opinions not just primal instinct
panorpan
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No, I insist. A man cannot get erected because of fear or surprise. A man can get erected only if he's horny, if he enjoys the whole situation. If he's feared or surprised in a bad way or stressed, he cannot get erected, he cannot cum. Of course if he is surprised in a good way, like he enters in his house and founds a sexy lady, hungry for sex, well, this would be a good surprise!
Asker
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There are some guys who can get erected out of fear or surprise, at least that's what they told the police when they were reporting rape.
KatanaSliceXper 5
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No he's not defiled and of course I would support him.
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VanillaSalt
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I couldn’t empathize with him so ide be the last to be effective support...
Jamie05rhsMaster
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That could never happen to me. I don't drink alcohol.
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Asker
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What if you were drugged?
Jamie05rhs
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How could I possibly be drugged?
Asker
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She could put something in your juice or soda.
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Jamie05rhs
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Oh, sh*t.
Jamie05rhs
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I better watch out for that.
Asker
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Yeah, you should.
RingOfFireYoda
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How the fuck can a guy be raped by a girl. If the girl is ugly he won't be able to get it up. If she's hot he would love it.
I think raping a guy is some kind of girl's fantasy.
It's impossible for a guy to be raped by a girl.
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pocketman
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I agree with you 100%. however, there are instances where drugs get involved and the guy is not in control of himself and girls can strangle him and sexually harm him. Its extremely rare I suppose.
Asker
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What if she drugs him and puts viagra in his drink, so he would get erection?
RingOfFire
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@Asker LMAO... right! What if martians land on the White House and take over the country. :)
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Asker
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Oh nooo, you were right, quickly, we must run and hide 🙀🙀🙀https://im5. ezgif. com/tmp/ezgif-5-eab955cf8bf5. gif
Asker
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RingOfFire
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... :)
pierre7i
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Viagra if 'powdered' has a quite bitter taste, there's no way it could be added to a drink without a distinctive taste being immediately noticeable And besides, even viagra doesn't work unless there is sensual sexual stimulation !
pierre7i
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Anyway, if the girl was attractive I would simply let her have her sexual way with me, I'd just lay back and enjoy -- so that'd make it conensual, right?
pierre7i
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*enjoy it
Asker
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@pierre7i What if it's not a powdered but liquid viagra with neutral taste? :D
RingOfFire
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Got a better idea... just put a pic of a hot girl on the bottom of the glass so when he finishes he sees it and WHAMO! HELPPPPPP!!! RAAAAAAAAAPE!
pierre7i
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Is there such a thing?
Asker
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Great idea 😂😂😂
RingOfFire
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Am I really having this conversation? :O
Asker
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Yeah, you are :P
RingOfFire
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There IS no God!
Asker
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Yup, that's true :)
RingOfFire
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I'm here having a conversation with some anonymous 25 year old girl about whether or not men can be raped? Proof that the Internet is the Wild West of the 21st century.
pierre7i
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Follow me @Asker, can chat some more
Asker
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Yeah, totally like wild west ;)
Asker
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@pierre7i I'm already following you :)
RingOfFire
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Oh sure... I do all the work and he gets the glory! ;)
Asker
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😂😂😂
TrustOfWorthingtonXper 6
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Wtf? Who wants to be raped? Pretty model girls don't rape hetero guys.
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ModernVikingXper 5
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Sincerely, I wouldn't try to defend myself if the girl who attacks me is hot.
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Asker
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Go figure...
ValnacGuru
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If a girl wants to fuck that bad, she takes control, that’s hot!
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Asker
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Right, I can see that lots of guys like a girl in control ;)
Valnac
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Not so much control, she knows what she wants and gets it. I know what she likes and make sure she gets it. It’s mutual.
Asker
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True, it's a mutual pleasure.
allenwants2Xper 5
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No but I would ask for her address wouldn't that be the right thing to do
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TstrbrainerGuru
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I'll support him, I'll understand his pain, I'll also ask about the woman and try to hook up with her
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Asker
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That's a cunning tactics to get a date ;)
Tstrbrainer
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Yeah😅
Tstrbrainer
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It's often surprising, how people behave
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Asker
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Yeah, I agree :D
Tstrbrainer
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I have one question, your question was about a serious issue that exists, even though it sounds unreal. Then why go anonymous? 🤔
Asker
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Because some people might start trolling on my inbox, it happened before, several times.
Tstrbrainer
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I have seen posts related to this topic before, were those from you? Why are you so concerned about this topic, have you witnessed the difficulties faced by anyone who went through this?
Asker
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My posts were on different but similar subject, but not recently, I posted them last year. Nope, but I was reading about it.
Tstrbrainer
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Okay ☺☺☺
MrFurkanXper 2
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never. This idea teribble, very disgusting
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Asker
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I agree.
MrFurkan
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And I think experienced girl better, in every sense
MrFurkan
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Sex or anything, always better
Anonymous
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Can guys really be raped by womens? I mean I don't see myself in such position most likely I would enjoy every second of a woman taking the lead.
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Anonymous
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I can’t imagine being sexually harassed by a woman, it’s usually a guy’s fantasy, men are raped by other men
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Asker
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What if you were attacked by some big and ugly woman? Surely you wouldn't have a fantasy about some huge and very unattractive woman raping you?
VanillaSalt
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Well ya but men are typically stronger... even if he is raped rape is just sex... even without attraction it’s a good feeling. I struggle to understand how rape is bad. Not that it’s not. It’s just women have tons of fantasy’s about being raped... women give themselves out to men all the time so hows this really that different? Besides consent... It’s basically the equivalent to being forced to eating an apple at gunpoint... after I’ve eaten the apple it’s like ok I wanted an orange but I’m full now anyway so whatever. Only weaker or more sensitive men would make a big deal out of it. The real big deal they would have is oh you drugged me or you recorded yourself pegging me and then posted it online making me look bad.
Opinion Owner
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@VanillaSalt Yeah and something about being forced to do something you like doesn’t work in their mind because it wasn’t their decision so it becomes a different thing and crime at times
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Opinion Owner
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Yeah true but then I wouldn’t get hard so she isn’t going to get penetrated by me no matter what, so unless she injected me with drugs or something it won’t happen unless she is into pegging
Asker
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@VanillaSalt Oh, you are comparing it with eating an apple at gunpoint? Okay, what if that apple is sour, smells like sweat and has worms in it? You know that most rapists aren't attractive, and the problem is not just the possibility of pregnancy, but also danger of potential sexually transmitted disease.
VanillaSalt
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Sounds like a hell of a kink... Men don’t mind sleeping down so just short of it being a 3 it prob wouldn’t be much of an issue. I can’t imagine it honestly. It just don’t happen enough but women are especially touchy about looks way more than men. A woman will never sleep down but a man will date 2-3 levels below him.
Asker
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@VanillaSalt Yeah, if a guy is drunk, or desperate for sex, or influenced by drugs, he wouldn't mind having sex with an ugly, old or fat woman, but what if you're completely sober? Would you lick a pussy of an ugly girl? Especially if her pussy is hairy or smells bad?
VanillaSalt
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If I had serious doubts no but at the same time you really think it’s the ugly guys raping? It’s the pretty boy billionaires that do the better part of rape... they just don’t get caught... cough Epstein... like I said she’s have to be real trash for Me to downright say no... I don’t usually judge by ugly but some things are a hard pass.
Asker
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@VanillaSalt Epstein is not an attractive guy. When did you see a rapist who is really attractive except in a movie or a tv show?
Asker
+1 y
You don't judge by ugly? So you have no standards, you would date even some ugly femi-nazi bitch? :P
VanillaSalt
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I’ve dated ugly people that were fun to be around. Didn’t work out cause of many times including lack of physical attraction. And Epstein was the guy that made it happen... I wouldn’t call people like bill clinton ugly. I’m sure he has many many really rich “friends”. And To be clear we talking fish ugly or just average cause that makes a difference. I don’t date feminists. The balance of power and special treatment was fine then Femi-nazis came out in force and broke women...
Anonymous
+1 y
Sorry but a female made that man her bitch, that means he is a wimp, thus, he is defiled forever.
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Anonymous
+1 y
Raped by a girl? Sry, bro, you're out!
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Anonymous
+1 y
Hey, I wouldn't mind if some hot girl would rape me :P
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Asker
+1 y
Haha, yeah, I bet you would like it :D
Anonymous
+1 y
I don't think so, most men would like it, but only if the girl was very attractive. If not, then they would probably keep quiet about it.
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Asker
+1 y
Hmm, I suppose you're right.
Anonymous
+1 y
As for me, I'm fantasizing about being raped by a woman :-) (In real life, if a women comes across as too aggressive, I tend to mentally flee.)
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Asker
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Unless you're attracted to her, right? ;)
Opinion Owner
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It depends (1) Whether you want to have sex with her -- not every woman I'm attracted to , I'd want to have sex with (not for standoffish reasons, but there are very real ones) (2) what your relationship status, ethical/religious viewpoints etc are at that point of time. I know it sounds complex, but it is...
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