Guys, How would you dominate a woman you were really into?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

I'm a dominant guy, so dominance is a natural thing for me, but what exactly I do is strongly going to depend on what the girl wants and likes - and there's a HUGE range there, and every woman has different boundaries.

• Some women like bondage, and some would freak out.
• Some women are into impact play (paddles, whips, canes), and others hate it.
• Some women are big into humiliation, and some women get turned off by it.
• Some women love roleplaying and costumes, and others are uncomfortable or awkward doing it.
• Some women want to be treated like a slave, some like a whore, and some like an object.
• Some women are into the guy being animalistic, and some into quiet, contained control.

I've done all of those things with women, probably some better than others, but my personal specialty is deep mental control - to build trust and get deep into her head and figure out what makes her tick and to unleash the part of her sexuality that she keeps hidden from the world, and to bend it to my will. To figure out how to mentally make her turned on and willing whenever she's around me, or whenever she thinks about me. And I'm good at it.

Yes, I also enjoy bare-handed spanking, and holding her down and using her like a fuck-toy, and giving her multiple orgasms until she's a disheveled, zoned-out mess with jello for legs who can't remember her own name - but that deep mental connection is really the key for me.

[TrustOfWorthington]

Umm sexually speaking? Have her kneel down in front of me (but on a pillow) and kiss my pants and just have her embrace my crotch with whatever it smells like for an hour or such while grabbing her by her leather choker and petting her head softly and calmly. But I would love to receive the same treatment... so..

[JackSmy]

I NEVER dominate, or try to control her! Why should I? I consider her a companion, a partner, and an EQUAL!!! Why should she expect to be dominated?

[Adam1978]

I wouldn't because that's not what I want. If you get dominated by me I don't like you and I am putting you in place. Don't expect a happy ending...

[Asker]

What kinda fucked up thinking is that?

[Adam1978]

I would say the same if you expect to be dominated by someone that likes you. Makes more sense that you become the bitch if you piss me of then the otber way around. It's called payback. Not normally something I do but it's the only case I would dominate someone.

[Asker]

Why is it so bad for a woman to have kinks and want to try things in bed but if she's asks she's a slut, or then allowed to be disrespected and all sorts of other sexist bullshit

[Adam1978]

It's not wrong it's just not for me because that turns me off. I don't like that kind of kink, neither as a giver or taker. I am perfectly fine with that she knows what she wants but I need to want to give it to her and I don't. Because it goes against my nature.

[Nephilim000]

I really want an equal to partner. I had. Girlfriend who wanted me to tie her up. It weirded me out. But when you love someone

[mich15smith]

nervously, assuming you are talking about sex. I wouldn't dominate a woman in a non kinky way

[Feelicks]

Definitely with silk rope shibari!

[GreenGold1992]

Still a virgin, so I'm not sure

[Valnac]

I wouldn’t, I like a girl to be on the same level as me.
Of course just being a man usually is what turns girls on

[NortyRich]

Definitely depends

[Asker]

Could you elaborate more?

[NortyRich]

Pm me please

[Asker]

No thanks

[Siavash_1990]

If I’m really into her , I’ll pull out first.

[vasilias]

Hold her up the wall while holding her hair is one way