Any advice before losing my virginity?

I just got into a friends with benefits relationship with this girl, we met not too long ago (hours ago lol) for the sole purpose of hooking up and losing our virginities sometime soon. She just found a hotel room for us, and i'm just anxious rn i guess. We aren't meeting up for another week but i'm just nervous. Any advice for me? We already established that we were gonna take things slow and not rush into it. She has freedom to stop me, or tell me to slow down as i with her. She agreed to teach me how to do certain things the right way but i just wanna make sure i'm prepared. I really wanna hear from guys and girls!! And ofc i will be wearing a condom
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  • Since it's gonna be your first time, then you both should exchange your preferences and your thoughts on sex. In that way, you both know each other's ideas and preferences and stuff. Be more open to each other. And try to talk to each other, so that the awkwardness doesn't come. When you are about to have sex, start with kiss obviously. But kiss her slowly, don't go to Or else it will make you look desperate. A kiss on the neck will go very far, because girls love that. Good luck on losing your virginity.

    • FINALLY A GOOD COMMENT THANK YOU

    • Be gentle, and be yourself

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  • Well do you look at this like you wanna date this girl too? Or you just wanna keep her as a friend? Or just have sex and be done? It all really comes down to how vulnerable and free you're gonna let yourself be going into this and your body lol but it's your choice but just make sure you are clear to her about what you want out of this and sexual preferences and stuff. Good luck. I dont know much because im still a virgin myself but i I've learned quite a bit about sex.

    • Thank you! And her and i are trying to just have a casual sex thing atm, depending on how this goes ofc

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Don't take too long to cum because women get bored

  • My advice is don’t lose it.

    • Ummm.. why?

    • Save it for the man of your life not just some dude that you’ll never see later on in your life.

    • Im hooking up with a girl.. also i dont believe in waiting till marriage 😅

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  • Do it if that what you want our is not as valued as a female

    • Lol ofc i want too, i just mean how do i make sure i make the most of it.. also why are girl's virginities even valuable? Thats weird...

  • be gentle... realll gentle