Why are most white guys #vanilla or #submissive in bed?

[Imuglyandiknowit]

i know some of them are dominant in bed, but it’s usually the ugly or old ones

[Lionman95]

because they are unexperienced or fear that you might report them for abuse if they are too hard. Because how should a guy know that you want him to be dominant if you don´t tell him? I´d say I´m more vanilla or gentle because all my life I´ve been told and taught that sex is something both partners have together so they should both be happy havening it. I´ve also been told females want to be cared about and be treated with love and kindness. For me being told women want kindness and gentleness and fearing to be reported of sexual abuse are the main reason why I´m not dominant.

[Reaperbot666]

• the feminist movement as been going on since the 1850's. over the generations boys have been indoctrinated by public schools, collages and media. to believe that most or all traditional male behavior is toxic.
• often including being the dominant one in the bedroom and/or relationship.
• with modern cancel culture going around they can have their lives ruined. if a woman even claims a man did bad things to her. without her needing to have any real proof to backup her claims in court or online.

[UncleJessieRabbit]

The last one sounds awful like the ultimate matriarchial-totalitarian nightmare.

[HelgaVanHorn]

Vanilla doesn't mean submissive, passive guys are submissive.
Vanilla guys and girls can be dominant too, as well as switch, or equal.

[AustinMan]

Sounds like you'd love a hot, hard bare bottom spanking.

[DrippingHoney]

That hasn't been my experience

[Sevenpointfive]

i've never slept with a white guy that way. tell me more from your experiences

[mich15smith]

I don't know maybe they are just unconfident. i know i am

[NorthwestRider]

Nothing wrong being submissive but vanilla is boing

[Worshop]

Don't get the question, are you insinuating that people of other races are more likely to be Dom?

[In_Trance]

This is most people regardless of color.

[Valnac]

I like to be somewhat dominate but also like when she’s on top.
I get to watch her fuck my cock.

[dominantdaddydominic]

No idea. I'm half white and very kinky/dominant

[Imuglyandiknowit]

what’s the other half? i’m one fourth puerto rican.

[dominantdaddydominic]

Spanish and Portuguese.

[CubaPirate]

That's a new one on me

[Anonymous]

What are you looking for?

[Anonymous]

I don't know where you've heard that, but the truth is that the majority of men are sexually dominant. This is true within each race. In fact, race has nothing to do with it. If anything affects it in large proportion, it's culture.

[Anonymous]

That's odd. I see more men who are super dominant and that's a huge turnoff for me. I'd love to find someone more submissive.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, not true.