There's no reason to blame yourself. He's masturbating because masturbating to porn is easier than having sex, because when you're having sex, you're expected to pleasure somebody else besides just yourself. Having sex is more work. But I still think it's wrong to deprive your partner of sex if you expect them to be reliant on you for sexual pleasure (by not cheating on you). I agree with what other people suggested about seeing a sex therapist.
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sounds like he has a porn addiction even before you got with him. he needs counseling type if help. maybe an intervention where his porn stash comes up missing and he gets no access to more porn. its extreme i know but mite trigger him into getting help. sucks to say that too, as i see pirn as fine as ling as it does not cause problems (you are experiencing severe problems due to porn).
0 0 0 0He watches porn thats not the issue more so he has never truly loved you if he has always been cold
1 0 0 0He was only sexually cold ! Everything else is great ! He even kiss me and always cuddling hugging saying sweet words and he feels very jealous and he fought to get me for two years ! Can a man lie like that?
And you have spoken to him about how u feel
Yes as i mentioned he say nothing is wrong just because he has big finincial problems
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1 11See a good cronies couple's therapist.
1 1 0 0Good couple's therapist.
Living in a country that has no couple therapists
It sounds like you can compete with her physically so turn into the slut and show him you want him just the way he is.
It sounds like you should leave.
1 1 0 0Are you two having sex regularly?
0 0 0 0Only once or twice a month ! And yes i try to approch him but most of the times i get rejected because he is tired , sad.. etc !
That's a serious problem and usually indicates huge underlying problems in a relationship
What kind of problems what should i do?
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Good thing is she left the industry so he ahs to watch reruns now!!!
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Sounds like you need professional help not advice from a bunch of morons online
0 0 0 0Ask him about it and watch it with him it might just be a link in the video and not the girl.
1 0 0 0We actually talked about it he said that its wrong and because his friends sent him , now he is not seeing any porn sites as he promised me that if he wants he will watch it with me , and then i discovered he is doing only on her photos ! Not even a video
He is a loser and time to get rid of him.
1 1 0 0Why don't you take the lead and just coerce him into sex?
I don't mean in a bad way.
But it can be a very big turn on for a guy when his wife takes the initiative.
Just try...0 0 0 0I think you should find yourself a stud to fuck you on the sides
0 0 1 0It’s not too late to divorce, you’re still young and hot
1 1 0 0leave him
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