Did you tell anyone?

After you had sex for the first time, did you feel the need to tell someone that you had just lost your virginity?

I'm curious because I'm laying in bed with the man who just took my virginity and feel the need to tell everyone how incredible it was.
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  • I told everyone lol. It was a big moment for me. For starters even though I was kind of good looking during high school, I’ve always been a weirdo and so everyone, myself included, was kind of convinced I was going to die a virgin. Second, I didn’t lose my virginity to just anyone. I lost my virginity to the guy I had a crush on since the moment I laid eyes on him. I saw him the first day of my senior year and I fell deeply in lust. He was way out of my league, but somehow we ended up sleeping together. The sex wasn’t what I expected, and my crush turned out not to be the dream guy I had hoped he’d be, but I was just so excited. I started telling my friends pretty much the moment I left his house. None of them believed me at first.

    • Your experience is not an uncommon one.

    • @Guardian45 welp I’m glad to know I’m not the only weirdo out here.

    • LOL 😆 🤣 😂 You're NOT!

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  • I haven’t lost mine but girl I’m probably gonna feel the same lol. I’m probably gonna feel so amazing inside because it’s such a raw, passionate feeling and I’m gonna be excited to tell my close friends and mom. I won’t open up to just anyone though if I’m making sense.

    • Be careful telling your mother, lol.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I wasn't in any hurry to tell anyone how horrible my first experience was.
    It brought to home how much damage circumcision has done to the nerves in my penis. The skin between the circumcision scar and the base of the penis used to have nerves going to the brain via the foreskin, but these got severed, leaving this skin with phantom sensations like pins and needles at the best of times. Combine this with sex and a condom. I felt nothing. Didn't even orgasm.

    • in the same boat. I just felt sad and dirty after. Circumcision needs to be made illegal.

    • @t-8900 If it was made illegal, I would be fine with that. Unfortunately, some people still want to do this to themselves for religious reasons. At the very least, it should require informed consent from the individual, minimum age 16.

  • As they say welcome to the first day of the rest of your life you have just experience it sounds like something beautiful ,,, that's the Good part he bad part is ,, it only gets better the best part is you will know what I mean by that in time , and all the above is voided if he melted you turned you in side out and completely drained you until you had an out of body experience like I said welcome to the first day of the rest of your life

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  • When my boyfriend and I started having sex it was after we graduated from high school. We knew our friends would rib us and we didn't want that pressure. We never told anyone. I have been married over 21 years and with the same man for over 30 years. Discretion is best.

  • So you feel that you need to tell a bunch of anons? Er, congratulations? Hope you used protection or we may be hearing from you again with a different question.

    Hi mom, I need to be burped
    Hi mom, I need to be burped
  • Totally, the summer when i srarted having sex it was like all i could talk about. All my friends knew everything about my sex life

  • Must have been a fantastic fucking for you to be that happy! Just think you hopefully can now get it on a regular basis.

    I told nobody!

  • I told a couple gfs that had already had sex.

    it is like you are exploding inside with a secret you can't keep!!!

  • Yes i told my sister and some friends

  • Nope. The experience was special for me, but no need to announce it on the radio!

  • Yes I did.

    • Who?

  • Yes I did

  • Yeah I took a video lol

    • What position did you try? @kenziedutcher63

    • Really? Why?

  • I did because I had a room mate who gassed me up to get it over with.

  • Nah im the type of person that hates bragging about stuff no matter how wonderful, unfortunately lol. But congrats girl!

  • if i lost my virgintity two thgings would happen
    my famliy would start buying loto tickets, and die from heart attacks,
    im 30 and im still waiting

    • also im going to pull a goku on my family, im goign to wait till my childs like 6 or 3 or after its born, to tell my family, it will be a thanks giveing dinner or my birth day. and i will bring my wife and kid with me, that they have zero clue about. and i will be like woman comes to the door with the kid as i have a hand full of food i say, hi ma, hey dad, hey grams, oh hi everyone says then everyone see the woman, and they are like who is she, whos the kid oh they are my wife and child, childs name be female: monkia from doki doki if male, Gohon they be like wtf how when why, ! oh we been dating for like 5 years. yaa i just wanted to keep it all a secret till the childs born so i can freak the fuck out of you all lols cus honestly. im like goku. and no one would expect. that shit to happen and why i call him gohan if its a boy, lols, omg that be the day, i have the bigest smile on my face.

    • LOL.

    • What are u waiting for by the way?

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  • I told two friends who were good at not spreading things around. But eventually the secret was out. Especially with my mom when she noticed that I missed two periods. Then the girls in the locker room noticed the slight bump. Later it was clear to the whole school that not only had I lost my virginity, but I also had a bun in the oven.

  • Yup texted my buddy when I left her house lol

  • I was molested by my boyfriend at the time so you bet I told 🤷‍♀️

    • Sounds more like rape... sorry to hear that.

    • @DreamCatchcer exactly why I told someone

    • @Lyndsielee666 I sent you a DM. Check it out if you want.

  • Good for ya. I did not but my mom found out anyway and she burned my hand

    • What 😮😮😮?

    • @Tstrbrainer yep

    • Luckily there is no sign of burn in my hand

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  • I told my mum!
    It's an open subject between me, my sisters nd my mum

    Knowledge frm the experienced 🤷‍♀️ hehe

    Those who know me on hea will know why i told her lol

  • Yes, but I didn’t want to tell a lot of people just my one closest person in my life.

    • Was that family or friend?

    • @Guardian45 my best friend

  • Sarah I didn't feel the need to tell everyone, but I did tell one of my best friends afterwards.

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