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Males 40-50: Do you guys get hard thinking about or seeing the girl you are attracted to or do you need physical stimulation?

Do you get pre-cum just thinking about or seeing the girl you are attracted to
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  • I can, for sure.

    Men learn to exert control and to "wall off" that area of their brain when they're at work or in public, so that random boners don't "just happen" the way they do when you've just gone through puberty - but when you're alone or when you know you can relax, men also relax this "control" and in that situation, for most men, it doesn't take much to get an erection. Just seeing or thinking about her can make that happen.

  • Just talking is enough to cause all of that. But I got a 100% just from a girl smiling at me.

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  • Personal experience? Yes, it still happens.

  • I'm still young and don't even have that now. Thoughts or seeing them does nothing for me. In the moment, should something happen, sure, but otherwise, nope.

  • it doesn't stop working when one hits 40 ;)

  • If I have strong feelings for a girl I can get an erection just from thinking about her, even if I'm thinking about her in a nonsexual way. It's called an affection erection.

    • * Sorry, I overlooked the age range you were asking about in this question.

  • Yeah, it does happen to me

  • Even at 30, no. That's an adolescent thing.

  • Yes I get hard

  • It depends how long it's been since he fucked her. ;)

    • Holly shit man you should stop her from asking such questions See your age and you are being a Dick here

    • @rocoveron - fuck off.

  • Yes I get hard rather easily... at work I have to be careful staring at certain women's ass or he will spring to attention

    • How do you manage a hard-on when at work?

    • I have to take a deep breath, bite my lip and start a short conversation with the woman. Engaging in small talk keeps him at half mast, keeps my blood flowing and lets them know hey I'm interested lol

  • Absolutely.

  • Well I say this my Dick will get very hard just thinking of her or seeing her but not hard enough to get that precum going.
    God Bless

  • I'll get my dick hard, pre-cum for sure if she is wearing something kind of revealing! If she would play or suck my hard dick I would cum for sure!**

  • Well the older and more seasoned I've become a with sex then just the thought doesn't make me pretty common anything like that I would need physical stimulation because I'm not a teenager and I know how to restrain Myself. But getting hard thinking about or seeing her, yes.

  • I am in my 60's and I still get hard from looking at girls and some times I do have precum ooze out. I love when that happens...

  • I’m 35 and that’s what happens!

  • Yep, it still works like I was 16.

  • The question is how much older you like

  • That can happen pm me if you want to chat about it

  • Well not yet 40, but yes.

  • Hahaha of course

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