Older men, and younger women?

Older guys (40+), what is the ideal age range that you want for a lover?
18-21
Vote A
22-25
Vote B
25-30
Vote C
30-40
Vote D
40-50
Vote E
50-60
Vote F
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Most Helpful Guys

  • For a lover? If it's just sex, any is fine. Though obviously younger girls tend to still have their youthful firmness. However, it's such a bother to talk to girls outside my age range, in either direction, as everyone gets weird about it if they see it. So if it can't be set up discretely it can't really be set up at all, and there's not really a way to do that that I'm aware of.

    In so many words, there are practical considerations to attractiveness. Just seeing a hot girl doesn't necissarily make her attractive unless there is a clear path towards her. And that's generally not the case for younger girls.

    And if you're talking about a relationship, that's even more difficult than just sex. All the approach problems of sex become compounded by needing to do them pretty much every day.

  • I've always been into age gap, when I was just out of high school I had a fling with an older neighbor lady 24 years older than myself, it was a great summer. Now I am older i prefer younger, 26 is the youngest I have been with when I was almost 40, so would like to experience someone younger.

    • Okay so I have been receiving private messages disparaging me for my opinion. I will explain my motivation for being with a woman over twice my age when I was a teenager. I wanted a teacher, and that she sure was, over that summer she taught me how to pleasure a woman in every way, most specifically orally, which spots to hit, how soft/hard, slow/fast etc. If I would have experimented with people my own age it would have been trial and error. It made me a better lover, which I enjoy even today. I hope this will stop the private messaging telling me how disgusting my opinion is.

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  • I don't think there is an ideal age I think there is an ideal maturity on each person I know 30 year old women did act like five year olds and I Know It 18 19 20 year olds that are mature carry themselves as if they were 30 35 40 there is a intelligence and wisdom knowledge that more younger girls are coming out with it seemed to want to explore and experience it all I think that is very hot I think it's very sexy but no matter what there's maturity level that has to be there in order for anything to work

  • all of the above

    • many males prefer female in their early 20's. but some will even date ones start around 18 or even 16 in some countries that allow it.
    • since the average female is at her most fertile time between 16-30. when it comes to having the best chance. to naturally get pregnant and delivery a baby.
    • however it is possible after 30 for many. just tends to require medical help to some degree. unless she and her partner are in great physical, mental and emotion health.
    • https://www.theclever.com/15-reasons-why-women-love-older-men/
    https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ux-WKpjzs38
  • If I were 40+, C and later D.

  • I can't vote on this definitely old enough but you didn't have any 18 to 60 categories

  • 16-30

  • 18 to 30

  • For a real lover 30-40... for some recreational boning younger women work

  • Jeez, 18-21? Lol

  • 18 to 40. I mean legal and attractive and hypersexual.

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