Losing virginity before age of consent?

So I'm 16 and I recently had sex for the first time with my boyfriend, 16 too, and just now I noticed that the official age of consent in my country is 18. is it a big deal or not?
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  • The reason why age of consent exists isn't because of a 16 and 16 hooking up lol. So it's not a big deal at all. Of course law still could do something about it if they knew. But the reason why it is there is to primarily stop adults taking advantage of teens. And well rape laws are there to stop people forcing each other not matter the age. But statutory rape between 2 consenting teens similar age is just kinda there to stop teen pregnancy's and for it to be done safely but if it is done safely and causes no pregnancy between you both, Not many people would actually care morally that you did it. Where as the Adults taking advantage and Rape most people would.
    But of course Law wants to decrease chances of anything to go wrong so it's just there as a law rather than a major moral problem if people don't fallow it.

    Basically Some laws are just precautions to other things rather than that main thing been the problem. So no not a big deal.

    • Not to mention if you do safely and don't get pregnant the law really wouldn't have anyway of knowing it even happened so shrugs.

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  • Legally the age of consent is to prevent adults from having sexual relations with children so if you are both under 18 it should be good

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  • I personally dont think teenagers should have sex so young and I waitied until I was 21 which I'm glad for because i was a dumbass when I was a teenager and most others are too. However im not bashing other people for their choices at all. To each their own. As long as you give consent then that's your business.

  • I lost it just a couple of weeks after turning 14 (age of consent in my country). I think it's not a big deal as long as it stays just between you and him, don't think they'd go after a teen couple for having sex.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • The police can't be bothered to arrest rapists let alone consenting teens. Your both safe

  • I lost it around 15

  • Its a big deal if the law finds out, otherwise don't worry about it.

  • slut alert. good start.

  • as long as there is consent...

  • You're both teenagers that are the same age , you're fine... keep on enjoying the young love you have

  • It’s only a big deal if one or both of you decided it wasn’t consensual or if one or both of your parents find out about it.

  • Technically it’s rape if he fucked you under age!
    Sexual assault of a minor!

    • if he hadent also been a minor that would be true but the statutory rape laws dont apply in this case... not that im condoning what they did and i think the age of consent laws exist for good reason

  • The Feds are coming

  • Technically speaking anyone who had sex in high school is a child rapist.. 🤷‍♂️

  • As long as you're both below the age of consent it's fine. Consent laws are weird

  • Some countries have exceptions when you are both minors. But I would abstain until you are of age before trying it again to be safe.

  • I lost mine at 13 as long as people don't find out your good.

  • No one needs to know.