Is it still rape?

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So first off-I want to make this clear that this is just a thought that went through my head, it did not happen to me or anyone that I know
So if you’re having sex with someone and you’re in the middle of it and you suddenly want to stop, but the other person keeps going , you start yelling or trying to get away and then they finally stop, but they didn’t finish. is it still rape?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's kinda like if you give money to someone then you want it back, that's considered theft? You know what's gonna happen if you give consent to someone in sex. It's gonna create chemistry making it hard for anyone to stop. ANYONE that means it includes girls too. But really it's no one's fault you gave consent in the first place only to get him so horny even if he stopped. So it's kinda like you gave consent only to make anyone sexually frustrated at the end then call them a rapist. You should know better.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yes from the moment you communicated that you withdrew consent ("stop") then everything after that is rape. That is the law in all jurisdictions. I am an attorney- although I do not practice Criminal Law I remember this from Law School.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Any time consent is violated, whether it be right from the start, throughout, or towards the end of sex, it's still rape. Rape has nothing to do with the rapist (like if he finished). A rapist becomes a rapist the moment when they fail to honour the victim's consent.

Lyndsielee666 · Accepted Answer

You withdrew your consent and he continued so yes.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Something similar happened to me at 15. He said he wanted to “see if it could fit.” I never really said yes but i let it happen. Then i said “ok now take it out.” But he said “no i gotta thrust”. And i said no and he thrusted twice. I laid there crying then pushed him off me. I didn't consider it rape but i def think i was taken advantage of. Yours def sounds like rape tho

RemoErdosain · Answer

To be fair, I wouldn't consider that rape. You even said he stops afterwards, even though he doesn't when you just ask him to at first. People aren't machines, and at that point, it's completely natural to lack enough self-control as to not stop right away

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

No, because you suddenly changed your mind and they did eventually stop. But that's my opinion.. not sure if the law agrees.

Agape93 · Answer

Yes it’s rape

elizamichale1 · Answer

lol i dont think so n tbh it doesn't really happen that u want to stop in the middle of it

pigoat · Answer

But the person DID stop  You just had to be more blunt about it If he wanted to rape you he would have because no man wants blue balls

GermanGuy87 · Answer

that doesn't count as rape in my book

Distants · Answer

Yes if you tell them you want to stop. And you try to and they don’t allow you to it is rape. Not the part before you said no, but after that they should not have kept going whatsoever.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Technically its rape. Once a person says "stop" and the other person keeps going its rape.

Twalli · Answer

If they stopped when you made it clear or soin after, no. If they didn't, yes.

allaboutyou2 · Answer

Absolutely, the woman has the right to remove consent at any time, if consent is removed, to continue would be rape.

kinkydrummer · Answer

No because you consented to sex in the 1st place if you want a stop in the middle of it then you just don't have any sexual etiquette. Now if they start hurting you or something like that or you start physically trying to push them away or kick them away and they keep going forcefully then yes it is rape but you also have to think you can send it to it in the 1st place you got him that turned on just let him finish man

andy530 · Answer

It’s rape if you express that you are withdrawing your consent and they continue without your consent.

Valnac · Answer

Why would you stop in the middle?

scooogy · Answer

If it takes me two attempts to get out of a bed in the morning, it doesn't mean someone forcefully kept me in there. You have to make sure your partner gets to notice you, not like my sister who claims everytime that she could "read my mind" when we're having lunch and she tells my mother what I'd like to eat, I mean wtf?

Jakeofalltrades93 · Answer

if they stopped after you made it very clear that you want it to stop than its not rape

raptormon · Answer

How come that's rape when you are all the way middle

Anonymous · Answer

Why in the world would you do that to someone?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, as soon as you say "stop", any consent that existed is now gone. If the other person doesn't stop immediately, it would be considered rape.

Anonymous · Answer

Its only rape if they do not stop. Maybe they didn't hear you say to stop the first time. If they refused to stop all together and finished it is rape. the only time something like that is not rape is say you're having sex, you say nothing to him about wanting to stop, but you want to stop, you make no effort to say no, you make no indication that you want to stop. and you decide to call it rape afterword..

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