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Is it normal for a girl to want to be dominated sexually by a man?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Let's look at the word "normal." And let's talk about trends. And slow but tectonic cultural shifts. And liberalization (I don't mean in a strictly political sense, but more broadly.) And the desire to push boundaries, both physical and emotional. These are all at play. Few care to truly analyze the whys of this topic/trend. Or to link to the broader connections. But trust me, they exist.

    It's getting to a point where I could write a thesis on this, or a mytake, but when I think about, I just don't want to deal with the guaranteed pushback and shallow retorts. It would be deeply unsatisfying for to read "but it's hot" x100.

    So here's the abbreviated key points I think are worth mentioning:

    • We all know men are stronger than women. And historically, biologically, they were (and still sometimes are) the protectors, the defenders, the providers. There is a certain safety and comfort in that.
    • However women are the most capable they have ever been. Most work and earn income, therefore the necessity of safety and security is much, much less than what it ever was in the past. Everyone outsources needs (build housing, etc.) to others. In fact, in that way, people are less self-sufficent, have fewer life skills and a prolonged adolescence, and 57% of young people in their 20s are still, or again, living in their childhood home. That's an issue as far as maturation.
    • Sexuality is more open (not since ever, but again.) We didn't all just go from Protestants to heathens. There have been many iterations in between. People can express themselves sexually more than ever before, however. There are fewer taboos now.
    • Porn is abundant and accessible. Sex toys are abundant and affordable.
    • The concept of dom/sub has been borrowed (co-opted?) from the BDSM community. It always existed, but it has become normalized. So normal, that now 'vanilla' is a pejorative.
    • Hookup culture is pervasive. Fewer people are entering, and staying in, committed relationships. Hookup sex is about the satisfaction of core desires, not love, not discretion or sensitivity to the partners. It is ultra self-satisfying.
    • Gender roles have softened. Women want partners who are emotionally sensitive to their needs, expressive men. Feminism is an offshoot of all of this. Some men long for the days of more passive, sweet, feminine women. A dom/sub relationship rekindles these 'classic' roles. It retracts some of the social, interelational 'progress.'
    • You know what, I'm tired. I'm not goona finish this list.

  • Yes, I think more females are submissive by far than guys are

Most Helpful Guys

  • My estimate is that around 60% of women are sexually submissive, with around 20-25% being sexually dominant, and the remainder preferring "equality" or being "vanilla." 60% is more than half, so it's the most common situation.

    • Dam, those are some low stats for women.

  • Yes that's normal. Just be careful if you actually do it. It can be very addictive you can open a door that you can't close

    • Are you speaking from personal experience?

    • Yes I am in box me if you want to know more don't want to put all my business out on a public forum

    • I can't message you unless you message first, I'll add you now

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Absolutely!!! If you have questions, DM me.

  • It is perfectly normal. Very common too.

  • Maybe before, when that was the expectation! But now, if you want to be seen as an EQUAL, you need to challenge the old BS, the old 'controlling' things, and maybe do things that you are really unsure about, and nervous, about, LIKE ASKING HIM out!! Maybe initiating sex, WHEN YOU WANT IT, and not waiting, hoping!

  • Yes. I think that's just normal since most of us are naturally submissive.

  • Of course it's normal. It's called being submissive.

  • It seems to be a pretty common desire. There's about a million romance novels with that theme.

  • Yes, I think it comes from our natural instinct to have the man be the provider and the protector

  • Yes, submissive girls like that.

  • Yes, it is.

  • Completely. Normal. And very common.

  • It’s extremely common

    • Mmm yes

  • That's is typically the way things work out.
    Although it's nice when the guy can just turn the reigns over to his gal for a bit during playtime.

  • yea its just your kink

  • Yes some women love it when a guy takes control in the bed room

  • In a traditional sense yes

    But more girls are becoming more dominant now

  • Such submissive girls are so lovely

  • Its normal If you're very submissive.

  • No , most men prefer it that way...

  • Ite very common but there girls who are neutral and also dominant. However I do believe most girls prefer to be sexually dominated

  • It’s extremely common and most men know this, it’s just that it’s difficult to be so assertive to someone you adore so much

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