Most people on here are, looks like. Lmao.
I'm beginning to think a lot of them don't even get sex and are just trying to make them self sound like something they are not. ( we get enough of that from the fake pink accounts who just love to get porked) I mean what sounds better? To be a slut and sleep with anything that wears pants, or a girl worthy of trust who is very picky on who she sleeps with and is more interested in a committed relationship than sleeping around?
Honestly, I think a lot of guys are so retarded they'd go for the first option to be honest. Same goes for the women, it seems. Both enable each other.
3? Really? I've slept with fewer women than anyone I know and generally regard myself as undateable and I've slept with 3. Your standard is unreasonable because you would never date me for being a low quality male.
It's not unreasonable. People who respect themselves do not sleep around.
Over the last 10 years of my life I've slept with 3 people and have been alone for 99.9% of the time and you call that sleeping around? Jesus compared to most I'm a saint.
So... you're an incel?*dabs*Nah but seriously dude, time span doesn't matter. Look up the term pair bonding.
I really don't understand. So I'm either this evil predator out to slay poon or I'm a woman hating incel and the cut off marker between the two comes down to sleeping not with 3 but with 4 women. Interesting perspective but im going to have to call bullshit. If anything my lack of experience with women and sexuality is the biggest red flag for a woman not to date me.
Why would not being a manwhore be a red flag lmao
You’re coming from a good place, but I think you’re really limiting yourself with such strict dating criteria. I think it’s natural for a young man filled with testosterone to want to have sex without the commitment of marriage. Sleeping around with excess numbers as a woman. will do harm to ones mental health, and limit dating potential. But... Just like anything, approach with moderation. At 23, I was fucking a lot of nice looking women in college. Was taking steroids and bodybuilding too. Bad decision yes lol. But you want to know what? I’m now settled, and got a loyal beautiful woman who continues to want to be with me the rest of her life. Everything worked out just fine, and I’m glad I got to experience that.So my advice is to not jeopardize your values, but don’t set such strict guidelines in which you restrict your development or opportunity to meet someone real special. Had I not gone down that path, I never would have truly realized what I actually wanted in life. It definitely wasn’t that. At 27, I’m entirely different person than I was at 23. Values and perspectives can and will change drastically. So if you meet a woman who slept around a little in college 5 years ago, and she’s far passed that- then she showcases to you that she’s got great traits to becomes an amazing wife of mother, don’t pass that up. And on a more surface level, sex feels great and life is short man.
So you're telling me to date literal whores and to have sex with people I don't care for at all let alone people I want to date long term.Yeah, no. Not gonna be part of that problem. Bastard children single moms and promiscuity is bad enough without me contributing to it. These problems need fixing not feeding.
It's pretty damn disgusting to be honest. The thought of a whore raising children, even with the help of a man. What is she gonna tell her kids about her college days, or about sex in general? "Mommy slept with dozens of men in college! Just wrap your willy! Teehee!"Nope. Not marriage material. Far from it. If it works for you, fine, I guess. Can't hate you for being happy with... that.
Up to you. You live your best life fam.
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I would say in real life it is different than on GaG. GaGites are all sluts and fuck boys. In real life I doubt half the girls on here get sex on a regular basis. I include me who has not had sex in 5 years. :(. Do I miss it? Yes. Do I fret over it? No. When the right person comes along it will be marvelous! But casual sex just for the sake of getting off is kind of lame in my humble opinion. The Ho's will feel differently I'm sure. Any port in a storm for them.
The past is a reflection of who someone is. Someone who sleeps around isn't marriage quality, male or female. It's disgusting. Not to mention pair bonding and it's effects.
Welp thats your opinion. I dont judge on stuff like that and i dont really care. As long as they haven't killed someone or have a lengthy criminal record the past is the past
It's not just opinion though. You can look up the number of premarital sexual partners and the correlation between failed and successful marriages. Results are pretty clear.
Most likely because said partner was not ready to settle down. Everyone goes through a wild phase at some point. Csnt be so ridgid and sweat the small stuff
What better way to avoid someone so wishy washy and indecisive than to simply not give a chance to anyone with a slutty past?
Your opinions on dating and relationships always just sound so harsh. All that im saying is lighten up, you dont have to but you will stay bitter forever because it sounds like you hate women and anyone with a life. At this day and age, if a girl slept with only 1-2 guys she's in some religous cult locked away somewhere, and you'll never meet her. You want like any woman at this rate
I hate people who sleep around. Not sure what makes you think I only hate female whores, been pretty clear that I hate the men who use and enable them as well. Thinking that a woman who hasn't sucked a million dicks must be locked up in a cage or stuck in some cave somewhere is pretty messed up. Not all women are easy and give it all up before a man commits to them. I sound "harsh" because I will not commit to a woman who doesn't value intimacy, and I'm "harsh" because I refuse to let a whore raise my children.
I don't get what's wrong with having standards for a long term partner.
Body count has nothing to do with long term It all comes down to the person and how committed they are in you.Body counts dont mean a damm thing to me. If we get along, the chemistry is good, Idc what you did in the past
It's statistically proven to affect long term relationships lmao.
Aside from the nastiness and lack of morality it does harm one's ability to bond.
I've had sex. Not that it's something to be proud of. Monkeys have sex. The majority of the American population somehow has had sex despite most of us being obese or ugly in some other way.
Try guys. You would probably be happier.