Why the fuck is everyone suddenly asking this question? Are you all just a bunch of Ho's? What the fuck is wrong with the world today where you change sex partners more than your underwear? It is beginning to sound like Sodom and Gomorrah in here.
Most people on here are, looks like. Lmao.
I'm beginning to think a lot of them don't even get sex and are just trying to make them self sound like something they are not. ( we get enough of that from the fake pink accounts who just love to get porked) I mean what sounds better? To be a slut and sleep with anything that wears pants, or a girl worthy of trust who is very picky on who she sleeps with and is more interested in a committed relationship than sleeping around?
Honestly, I think a lot of guys are so retarded they'd go for the first option to be honest. Same goes for the women, it seems. Both enable each other.
I agree with you. And him having more than three partners is a dealbreaker for me.
3? Really? I've slept with fewer women than anyone I know and generally regard myself as undateable and I've slept with 3. Your standard is unreasonable because you would never date me for being a low quality male.
It's not unreasonable. People who respect themselves do not sleep around.
Exactly
You’re 23. I’d loosen up a little. Taking yourself too seriously in my opinion.
How so?
You’re coming from a good place, but I think you’re really limiting yourself with such strict dating criteria. I think it’s natural for a young man filled with testosterone to want to have sex without the commitment of marriage. Sleeping around with excess numbers as a woman. will do harm to ones mental health, and limit dating potential. But... Just like anything, approach with moderation. At 23, I was fucking a lot of nice looking women in college. Was taking steroids and bodybuilding too. Bad decision yes lol. But you want to know what? I’m now settled, and got a loyal beautiful woman who continues to want to be with me the rest of her life. Everything worked out just fine, and I’m glad I got to experience that. So my advice is to not jeopardize your values, but don’t set such strict guidelines in which you restrict your development or opportunity to meet someone real special. Had I not gone down that path, I never would have truly realized what I actually wanted in life. It definitely wasn’t that. At 27, I’m entirely different person than I was at 23. Values and perspectives can and will change drastically. So if you meet a woman who slept around a little in college 5 years ago, and she’s far passed that- then she showcases to you that she’s got great traits to becomes an amazing wife of mother, don’t pass that up. And on a more surface level, sex feels great and life is short man.
So you're telling me to date literal whores and to have sex with people I don't care for at all let alone people I want to date long term. Yeah, no. Not gonna be part of that problem. Bastard children single moms and promiscuity is bad enough without me contributing to it. These problems need fixing not feeding.
When it comes to sexual history, don't ask, don't tell.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would have a higher tolerance as the guy gets older but if he were my age then two would be my limit.
No count is too high as long as she doesn't have STDs.
For me its too high if it's higher than their age.
But I don't judge people by their body count per sey. I more judge what's the longest they've been in a relationship? Were they stupid and had kids because they were fucking people. How many baby mommas they got? Typically these types of people do not use condoms and are more likely to have an std/sti.
Sex is amazing I can't be mad at people who gave into desires. Just gota be smart about it.
Though if someone tells me past the 30 range I get a little cringy and deem them a man whore.
Eh, most people have fucked a bunch of people, so as long as they don't have 50 kids or any STDs it doesn't matter to me.
I would say in real life it is different than on GaG. GaGites are all sluts and fuck boys. In real life I doubt half the girls on here get sex on a regular basis. I include me who has not had sex in 5 years. :(. Do I miss it? Yes. Do I fret over it? No. When the right person comes along it will be marvelous! But casual sex just for the sake of getting off is kind of lame in my humble opinion. The Ho's will feel differently I'm sure. Any port in a storm for them.
I think judging by body count is immature. We’re grown adults, sleep with as many people as you want. If you're dating someone, thats the past. The past shouldn't even matter. Just the current and future
The past is a reflection of who someone is. Someone who sleeps around isn't marriage quality, male or female. It's disgusting. Not to mention pair bonding and it's effects.
Welp thats your opinion. I dont judge on stuff like that and i dont really care. As long as they haven't killed someone or have a lengthy criminal record the past is the past
It's not just opinion though. You can look up the number of premarital sexual partners and the correlation between failed and successful marriages. Results are pretty clear.
More than one is too much and preferably none? How many virgins over the age of 16 are really walking around out there? Never understood guys who say stuff like this
I don't get what's wrong with having standards for a long term partner.
Body count has nothing to do with long term It all comes down to the person and how committed they are in you. Body counts dont mean a damm thing to me. If we get along, the chemistry is good, Idc what you did in the past
It's statistically proven to affect long term relationships lmao.
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Personally I try to find a woman hasn't killed anybody
If they don't all fit unnoticeably in the basement with the door fully closed, it's too many
Sounds like you are unlikely to ever get laid. Maybe become a priest?
I've had sex. Not that it's something to be proud of. Monkeys have sex. The majority of the American population somehow has had sex despite most of us being obese or ugly in some other way.
Try guys. You would probably be happier.
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I'll only date a virgin, preferably she is saving herself for marriage as well.
I personally dont care how many people a woman has slept with as long as she's clean.
My girlfriend has slept with 30 guys.
31 if you count me.
I've slept with 6 girls. Including her.
The more experience they have in bed the better the sex is. I've come to find out.
Depends on the age of the partner. If he's young and he has a huge body count that's a massive turn off. I don't want to feel like the next girl on his huge fuck list. If he's older he can get away with a slightly higher count. But in general having a huge body count isn't really desirable. I don't get people who flex that they've slept with 10 or more people. That's not gonna make me want to be the next one.
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