If a dildo helps facilitate release of pent up sexual tensions, than what more could you ask of a personal household appliance. As far as your not being able too find someone too be intimate with, I don't know your criteria for eligible boyfriend candidates, or how badly you even want intimate relations at this point in your life, but if you're serious about meeting someone and are unable too, than you might want too take a look at your social behaviors and ask yourself "gee, have I ever actually told a guy I like him and asked him out on a date or something? Maybe you think your getting the message across but the guy thinks your wanting too be his platonic freind instead of his romantic, or erotic, freind. As far as the dildo, definitely get it if you think it will help, but don't assign it human like character attributes. You are too old for imaginary freinds, and it's just an appliance, not a boyfriend.
typo should read *have no real issue with a girl using a toy on herself*
There shouldn't be anything wrong with it. Besides, you're getting something that's safe to use for masturbation and not a household item that could possibly scratch up and wound/injure your vagina. Your future partners shouldn't see anything wrong with it either. I mean, your partner will eventually find out you masturbate and use sex toys anyway (even if it's something you don't want them to ever know). So you shouldn't have to worry about it. But if they do have a problem with adult toys, then I would guess they are insecure with themselves.
It’s your body better than body count and honestly I have heard some virgin horror stories so at least your actual first time won’t hurt like theirs. I was fortunate mine was really gentle
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It is fine. A future partner would likely think that, too.
Most people masturbate so it’s ok girl
Sounds like a bad idea, hymen is the proof for your virginity, so you better keep it intact.
Well tbh losing yoyr virginity is more mental rather than physical since you can break your hymen in many ways. You might have already done it if you've ever gone horse riding, biking riding or just had a bit of fall.
So makes no difference to your virgin status and i pretty much expect all girls to have sex toys.
Is think she wants to feel what penetration feels like but doesn't want to hook up with some random loser to find out.
Go for it. Especially if your fingers aren't cutting it.
I don't think you should have any qualms about this. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you using toys (including dildos) for your self pleasure. It's just another way to masturbate and masturbation is normal and healthy. I wouldn't worry about what a future partner might think about it.
Go for it, thousands of other virgins are using toys.
Good decision..
I am not trolling you.
What do you want to accomplish with an insertible?
well the only reason I could think of not would be if you were waiting for marriage and you didn't want to tell the guy about it but for real is it really any of their business until you're sharing it with them... Me it wouldn't bother me at all... At any age in my life... But there are some guys that like the missionary position in the light off and want someone that's never been with anyone... but then I would guess that that would matter and what type of a guy you would want to end up with forever anyway
With that guy... care... Or would he enjoy you sharing it with him? All of that would have been a turn on any of your past to me and I'm sure there are a lot of guys would feel the same way
But I think you ought to just be your own person enjoy yourself and look for a guy that you can enjoy yourself with.
Nothing wrong with it. If you're comfortable using toys for now it's your own personal choice. Just because you use a dildo or vibrator your still a virgin. Not in the medical sense because the hymen might be broken, but in the emotional and sexual sense your still a virgin. Any guy who looks different on you cuz you used some toys needs only to look st themselves if they've ever jerked off before having sex. It's the same thing essentially.
I used dildos and vibrators before losing my virginity, still do lol. Its masturbation, not sex, no guy should judge u for pleasing ur self, if he does he ain't a real man sweetie
use it, who cares, its not like anyone would know unless youd want them to know at this point
Technically it IS sex, and it's fine. There's nothing wrong with doing yourself. And no future partner needs to know anything about it. What DOES have value is your knowledge and familiarity with your own body, and what DOES get you off. This way you'll be able to show or tell your future partner. Most women don't, and just expect their guy to somehow know.
Get something with AA batts, not AAA. You'll thank me later.
Some really like the Hitachi magic wand - that thing is like a jackhammer. LOL
Get you a nice thick one with a suction cup and ride that thing.
Do what makes you comfortable and if you ever need someone to help you with your imagination during masturbation feel free to pm me.
I'm sure you will fine someone one day
it would be like practice session before match 💋😉😉
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