First off, get off of tinder! If it's a reoccurring issue with the guys on there, I'd try other dating apps.
Also, on your dating profile AND before you go out with a potential date, state what you're looking for upfront: in this case, that you will not sleep with a guy on the first date.
Make that crystal clear from the getgo to weed out fboys, users, and hookups.
Stand by your standards!!! Because you're absolutely right: even if you do sleep with them on the first date, there's no guarantee they'll see you again after that since they got what they wanted.
Well it's not guys who only want sex, but it does seem to be guys you're meeting.
It kind of sounds like a communication problem. Do you have "not looking for hook-ups" in your bio? If so then they're just idiots who can't read.
Somehow I expect this from Tinder though, that site has about as much class as a lobotomized Diogenes.
I would recommend a different dating site, personally I've had a lot of good experiences with OkCupid, but it probably depends on your region.
Other than that, try having a short conversation about what you're both looking for.
Whatever you do, NEVER have sex because you feel it's what the other person wants, that's probably the worst way to start a relationship. If you can't get on the same page by taking about it, you're probably not compatible.
Fix it? It isn't broken. Long term relationships are obsolete. The guys you're looking to hook up with have 20 more girls on tap. And the ones who would actually be suitable are either not what you want, or moved on from dating apps and not there to meet. It is what it is. Keep at it and you may find one eventually though; you never know.
Tinder is basically a partner-selection catalog. Have you ever selected friends from the catalog?🤔 It is unlikely to have a healthy relationship with the person selected from the catalog.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I met my partner of 8 months on tinder so it is possible. I would just tell them that you’re looking for a relationship, not just a hookup before you meet them in person.
Stop using Tinder: it's a hook up app for crying out loud!
I quit reading at 'tinder'. Dating sites are for losers you know. Now you see why.
Sounds like a tender hookup.
You do know that tinder is basically a hookup site right?
When they are young bucks, yes. A little older and they still think about sex first but then find themselves getting caught up in a relationship and many of the like it.
Stop sleeping at the first whim. Woman it is your body. Sleeping around out of pressure or otherwise will repel all the guys who are interested in marrying you
As everybody has already said, just get off of Tinder, you're highly unlikely to get someone willing to be in a committed relationship. Guys also only wanting sex is just a shallow assumption... you're simply attracting the wrong crowd
Maybe don"t exclusively date tall handsome tinder guys and you won't have this problem.
Stay away from Tinder!
The only guys on there are trophy hunters, one and done!
A lot of people tend to use tender for hookups more than actual dating.
However there are guys out there who do want a real relationship. Just have to look in the right places.
Tinder is generally a hook up site. The majority there are not there for relationships. Try another site.
Which other sites would you recommend?
I had good luck on pof
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