How do girls feel about guys that need viagra?

[Anonymous]

Yea so I suffer from a "Venous Leak" issue and I need Sidenifil to stay hard during sex, keep in mind I've attempted sex twice my whole life first time when I was 19( close to turning 20) and i admit it was slow at first but I managed to get through it (didn't finish doe due to time constraints) next time attempted with a girl I was talking to for a little bit everything was just fine foreplay was on point however I just couldn't get hard... It was a very embarrassing experience and I felt hopeless as shit, tried counseling for months but it doesn't seem like anything practical is working. I have yet to have a sex again only anxious part of it is that I don't know how female would feel about me having to use Sidenifil... Need advice. What y'all think?

[SueShe]

Having to rely on medication to help with health issues should never a cause for mockery by peers. If they do, then they are the wrong persons in the first place and you should avoid those toxic people at all costs.

There is no shame to have to rely on Sildenafil (not Sidenifil) to help you with your ED. Girls will understand that you have to rely on the medication to assist you.

Just be casual about it and don't make a drama out of it. If you explain your medical problem to the girl, she should understand that you have no influence on your ED and that this problem is an integral part of you.

The thing is not to put too much emphasis on it and not to worry that your ED could be in the way of a normal life.

As long as you are aware of all the side effects, you are good.

[Iron_Man]

Sueshe I see you're an Uber mod now. So what's better that one or your old modship title?

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man The only difference is that you can freeze accounts. No added fringe benefits, no increase in salary, no bonus, no company car, no additional annual leave, nada!

[Iron_Man]

Well at least you can Freeze away now but not myself included 😃

[Iron_Man]

For example Warning the Question Asker is a troll. You can now Freeze him lol

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man Until now, you gave me no reason to freeze you :-)

[Iron_Man]

Yikes almost 10 years here and now I have to go out and buy a Winter Jacket? 🥶

[SueShe]

@Iron_Man Thank the climate change for it, not me :-)

[Iron_Man]

Well let's hope mother nature AKA Sue takes it easy on me 😊

[Asker]

Dude I'm not a troll 🙄... I'm literally on the brink of suicide over this issue... Plus I go to HBCU... Nothing lonelier than an HBCU student with a dick dat don't work 😔...

[Iron_Man]

I am talking to Sue about others not you at all

[Asker]

Oh...

[SueShe]

Nobody mentioned anything about trolling. Also, thinking about suicide because of an ED is somewhat an overreaction. There are millions of people facing the same problem. You are not alone. Also, I fail to see what HBCU has to do with your medical issue.

[Asker]

Well considering how isolated you become due to this issue... And the many experiences and moments you were planning on having on campus that you miss out on because of this issue... It only emphasizes the hopelessness due to that very issue... plus u start having anxiety on how the rest of your life is going to play out because of this

[SueShe]

Are you not on campus to study? Studies do not interfere with your medical problem, right? Therefore, I don't really see the connection between the two. Worry about the rest of your life once you have your degree. Your attention should be focused on your curriculum and not your medical issue.

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[KirstyW]

If I cared about the guy, I wouldn't care about that issue.

[Asker]

Well that brings me a little bit of relief... But the thing is you are a little bit more matured compared to people in my age group and such...

[Katie1964]

Its a medical issue. Everyone, or many people, have medical issues of one kind or another. Deal with and if the girl isn't mature enough to deal with it in an adult fashion, she's not the right one or ready for a real relationship, time to move on.

[Iron_Man]

Let’s see what they have to say

[In_Trance]

Do what you need to do

[no_leaf_clover_3]

I don't mind if he needs viagra to stay hard. It would be worse if he couldn't sex with me because of lack of erection. Whatever works for him. And if he wants, I could buy him viagra or whatever he would need. Sex is very important to me.