Is no sex in a relationship a dealbreaker?

Ok so here's kinda my thought process, if I say I don't want to have sex at all I only think it's fair to propose an open relationship. That way they can have sex and I can still be in a relationship with them.
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  • It can happen. Me and my guy didn't have set but a lot of foreplay etc for years and then when we got married, we did.

    It is totally possible. You just have to like each other enough

    The other thing, if you have an open relationship you have to remember that there may be an emotional disconnect between the 2 of you, she may like someone else and it wouldn't really just be a true relationship.

    Also, there is a risk when or if you do have sex, you have to hope that she was at least having safe sex

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  • For a lot of people it is. No one owes her sex, if you don't want have sex with her then she has to accept that. In the same breath you have to be ok with breaking up if she decides it is a deal breaker. I strongly suggest to not do an open relationship. No harm is done by denying someone sex

  • I wouldn't enter a relationship without lots of sex. If the sex drive of one party disappears, it's a mutual decision by the couple about opening the relationship.

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  • Sex helps cement the bonds of a relationship. If you're prepared to lose her, then let her sleep with someone else.

    If you don't want intercourse, a decent number of girls will happily settle for your tongue for a while...

  • Basically you wanna end up like Will Smith lmao. But okay, good for your girlfriend I guess, she can use your money and sleep with hot guys at the same time.

  • Different strokes for different folks.

  • That is so big of a deal breaker for sure. I need sexual relief or people may see a very side of me not worth seeing if you haven't. Who doesn't have sex with their girlfriend or boyfriend?

    • People who are asexual

    • Ridiculous...

    • It's not ridiculous, it's just how their minds work, their brains chemistry. They do not feel the need to have sex.

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  • If it works for you guys then cool. But there's a chance your partner might not find that appealing and might prefer to be with someone else who is interested in sex.

    Maybe you should be looking for someone who has similar thoughts on sex as you.

  • I would be insulted at the no-sex suggestion and end the relationship.

  • I would call it a friendship only.

    • Though aren't there still things outside of sex that you'd do in a relationship an not a friendship?

    • I don't know honestly, never had a relationship

  • Yes, dickholders might get disappointed.