What turns you on most in a partner physically and emotionally? Bi people can speak for both parties?

[Younghungguy17]

Just curious what others find attractive both physically and emotionally? Like what features or qualities.

for me for women physically would be nice bum, or eyes, also how they maintain their genital regions. Emotionally their sense of humour.

[MrKinktastic]

For girls:
Sense of humour is required
A pretty smile/curious eyes
I like curious people in general
Curves help, hourglass or pear shaped are my general favourites but I’m pretty flexible here if everything else is going well.


For guys:
When I was younger my type was 35-55yo men with a bit of greying stubble and a general tough look but total sweethearts underneath. I kind of grew out of them in my 20s though.


Now for guys:
I tend to be attracted to 18-22yo ish guys
Again sense of humour is key
Humility is key, arrogance frustrates me
Curiosity
Looks wise I go for slim/shorter twink types for the most part. I used to like trans women but that section of the scene has been to politically charged for me these days (not being able to talk about a subject fails the curiosity requirement). Trans guys on the other hand can be hot as hell and usually much more laid back. Though usually they keep their body hair to feel more masculine and body hair is a turnoff for me so it’s a bit hit or miss for me the times I’ve dated them.

[AustinMan]

I'm an inveterate bubble butt guy and a complete sucker for classic stiletto pumps.

Compassion is at the head of my list, followed by a ravenous sexual appetite, intelligence, and poise.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

#1 intelligence.
Compassion and empathy and genuine no fake personality. Sincere and kind and gentle in nature.
Physically, toned and good personal hygeine, a care for appearance
A real down to earth and fun guy

[okokoududhsbkokok]

As long as my shopping list tbh but wym by intelligence bcs there is different meanings of being "intelligent"

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

@okokoududhsbkokok it seems a long list but not. Basically, a normal smart guy. Who is good and loving to all people and animals and creatures of this planet. And they exist bc its my husband who I described on that "long list"

[okokoududhsbkokok]

I kinda lost every hope in humanity tbh and especially mens I can't imagine that there is more than 5% of the world people who are what you described. Ps : sorry for this English I'm French

[Warmapplecrumble]

When a man and I can have a deep conversation and he looks healthy

[Warmapplecrumble]

Thanks 🙈 for MHO

[TemptedTerry]

Physical attributes: Brunnettes, nice (natural) breasts, and I prefer girls with glasses.

Personable: The girl has to demonstrate personal responsibility, and to not be a victim. Intelligence, and is willing to disagree using rationale and reason.

Sexually, I like a girl to be passive/submissive.

[lanadelrey25]

A pregnant older woman turns me on (certain faces, not all) and a curvy pair of hips
For men, the thick thighs

And emotionally, kindness and elegance, being witty and wise

[Siavash_1990]

Their ears.

[Anonymous]

Small and girly.

My ideal is short, skinny, maybe muscular, and extremely feminine.

I want a girl who needs me to be the rock in her life.