Am I BI or just crazy?

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I've always been attracted to men since I was like 9. But about a year and a half ago when I watched Misery with Kathy Bates, I felt something for her I've never felt about any woman before. It was really weird for me, it was more than "I want to look like you, you're pretty".
I've always thought Ariana Grande was gorgeous and wanted desperately to look like her, but never wanted to be with her. Most females, the idea of being with them doesn't appeal to me AT ALL.
Fast forward to now, I've always like David Suchet and thought he was handsome, but when I saw him in drag for the first time as Lady Bracknell, I realized I like him that way a million times more, like I want to sexually be with a person that looks like that, but really a female. I still have man crushes, y'all know I LOVE Piers Morgan lmao. So really it's just a very specific women or female face that turn me on.

Sometimes I get really sad at the thought of not being able to be with someone like Kathy or David as a woman, and the thought of me just looking like them or being them makes me happy. Like I'd be content with looking like them if I can't be with them. Why is this? Am I crazy? I think Ariana is beautiful but never want to be with her!!! I'm also not one to be easily influenced by mainstream LGBTQ stuff, and if I don't like women, then I don't and no one can persuade me otherwise. I felt this crap all on my own

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

If you're not an out-and-out "I LOVE TO HAVE SEX WITH WOMEN, PAY ATTENTION TO ME! I'M QUEER! THAT MAKES ME SPECIAL" type, like literally all queer women in the closest I've known, then you're definitely not queer. Queer women use that, as like, their ONE personality trait. As if anyone is supposed to give a F. I think you admire these people, but if you don't want to sleep with them and become a card-carrying LQBT-etc lesbian, then you're not queer. You either like women as a woman, or you don't. Most of the world is straight, so if you were gay, you'd probably know it for sure.

MiamiMadness · Accepted Answer

I'm never letting my girl watch Misery with Kathy Bates.

menina · Accepted Answer

I don't think you're crazy but I think you might be bicurious. Keep in mind that just because you find another woman attractive it doesn't mean you want to date her.
You love Piers Morgan, so you do like men. I don't think you want to be with another woman.

BroodyRuby · Accepted Answer

Sounds like you may be curious sexually and open to exploring. Doesn’t necessarily mean you are bisexual though

jabberwocky00 · Answer

I don't know.. it’s nothing I can relate to so 🤷🏼‍♀️

Jjpayne · Answer

I think there is a thing about being bicurious but you can also be attracted to other people being straight too. Like dam they are sexy. Like for me seeing a man in a suit with a sexy beard. I could say he is sexy while still bring straight

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Probably bi curious

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

You could be Bicurious, I went through a stage in my life, when I was horny it did not matter who jacked me off I just loved it but also in School, I liked looking at girls and looking at ones who wore jeans so tight they would have a camel toe also I'm addicted to hairy vagina's I also like seeing lesbians getting it on but would eat out a girl with a bush in heartbeat but you could be Bicurious or Bisexual hard to say but I sorry for my bluntness but I know what your going through and If people can't accept us well hell with them

Cress · Answer

It sounds to me like you're bicurious to a particular type of women. To be bi, it doesn't have to be 50/50 and it sounds like you have a preference for men.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Maybe both?

smahala1991 · Answer

Probably more Bicurious

COMMODOREII · Answer

You might be bi curious. Its possible but then maybe not. I too went through a period of questioning myself but after a lot of thought i realized i was straight pretty much. It is ok to find someone of the same sex attractive it doesn't mean you are bi or gay. It just means you appreciate beauty.