Is it okay to cheat on your boyfriend with a guy who's maybe suicidal?

Question

I guess he's a virgin he told me many times he wants to die so should I sleep with him just to maybe save his life?

bob_anon714 · Accepted Answer

Yes, as much as I hate to say it or give in to such a pathetic demand, do it if you think you'll feel guilty later about it.

I was just talking to my buddy about this. He had a friend, one of his best, and he liked this girl and it wasn't reciprocated. Well buddy left dude's house late at night. Gets home and a call from the friends mom. She's freaking out and yes like shit, so he runs back over to his friends house (just a couple blocks over) and there's his friend, dead, hanging in his room with the music loud (like they played it any other night until dudes dad would tell to turn it down. Dad was the one that discovered him cuz he went to his room with a baseball bat to smash the stereo and found him having. Sad thing was he was dating her for a while and she eecated his popularity. He had a bunch of new friends cuz of her, but he was able to sustain those friendships on his own now cuz he was actually a cool dude. She broke up with him and if she didn't come back to him he would kill himself and the dude did

I personally have had chicks threaten to hurt themselves or kill themselves if they can't have me to the point where I was finally like, fuck it - do it. I don't care and I'm not gonna be manipulated and guilt tripped into anything anymore. You want my help, I'll buy you the rope or pills or whatever. But threatening to take your own life cuz you can't have someone is the ultimate temper tantrum. It's selfish, child-like and cowardice and shouldn't be entertained in my opinion. If that person is do desperate in life, there's other things going on and you just happen to be the focus of it. Ice been on both sides of this coin and they both suck and it's not worth losing a life over cuz there's do much more in life, but sadly these people are so blind to anything else cuz their world is do small, their blinders won't allow them to look anywhere else

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

No lol. You think sleeping with him would save his life if it did i call bullshit on him been suicidal. Depression and suicidal ain't solved with not been a virgin no more. Would for sure work to make him happy for a bit but still gonna be that way afterwards once the height of how great it was drops.
And if sex solved suicidal people from been so people who have wife's and sex won't kill themselves but they do so. And if he told you he won't be suicidal after having sex then he is just lying to make you want to do this exact thing.
And if he is just depressed about been a virgin and it would get rid of that he needs to grow up and realize he won't be one forever, and needs to do what the rest of us virgins do wait or heck pay a girl if he is that desperate.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So you save his life this time? And the next time he says he's suicidal? And the next time? And the next time?

Brilliant girl, you go. Might as well just dump the boyfriend & fuck the guy who manipulates you so easily.

jaYYiie · Accepted Answer

Stupid asf 🤦‍♀️  Having sex with him won't save his life! How about finding him some real help

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, that's still horribly cheating. Instead of letting him blackmail you into some sympathy sex, get him some professional help.

RemoErdosain · Answer

No, that "suicidal" guy can go fuck himself, and you should too for even considering cheating on your boyfriend and calling it a "life saving event".

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

No eww. .. he's using you. 😑 That's emotionally blackmailing you.

jabberwocky00 · Answer

Ya. It’s ok in your own mind to do what ever you want, cheat as much as you want. You just need the right mindset and you will never feel guilt.

abc3643 · Answer

Are you fucking serious? No! If he wants to die, so be it! That's evolution in action.

Tamera952 · Answer

whaaaaaat?

roody · Answer

Get him help instead... sex isn’t going to save him

CupcakeKiller · Answer

No. It is not.

Bhavin2184 · Answer

No cheating is wrong.. But leave him because he his manipulating you for sex...

Ripper_E · Answer

No. That's not justifiable. You should break up with your boyfriend though. His girlfriend is actually thinking about this.

elizamichale1 · Answer

well saving someone's life is much more imp i guess n nothing can be better than that So i dont think it counts as cheating

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

Interesting, i sugest only if you are 100% nobady will ever know or your boyfriend is ok whit that

British_Empire_1707 · Answer

cheating is cheating so no

worldscolide · Answer

Full stop, end of story, end of discussion, it is never ok to cheat... Period.. If his being suicidal is something he is using to manipulate you that is on him.. Seriously i can't believe women fall for this bullshit.

mich15smith · Answer

nahhh, the suicidle dude is just trying to manipulate you

RedThread · Answer

There are guys who use tactics like that just to manipulate a woman into sex. Regardless of his honesty about the suicide it's still a shitty thing to do to someone.

wondering_guy · Answer

Don't go there because if you did do it then that guy will think you like him and want him more and wants more sex and then it will cause problems when it comes to you and your boyfriend