Would you do a girl who refuses to take birth control?

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Of course assuming you’ve both been tested #FeelFreeToList #ExHabits

Hannahm67 · Accepted Answer

It didn't stop a hookup I had lol. It was stupid but when I was 19 in college I hooked up with a guy after a Halloween party and we didn't have condoms. Being young after a couple of drinks and we both didn't think about the risks. I remembered a couple of minutes in that I got of BC a few months back after breaking up with a long term boyfriend and having issues on BC. He got really into it after I told him and started saying sexy things like "I bet you wish I would fill your raw hole up" and stuff like that. I thought it was just role play and started getting into it, saying things back.

Well turned out it was a big fetish of his. At the end, he asked if I wanted him to put a baby in me. I was intoxicated from the beer and having two orgasms and said something like yes just wanting him to keep going. After like 30 more sec he said he was going to cum in me and before I could react he went as deep as he could and came aa huge load inside my vagina.

It turned out that being half drunk that he thought I was joking about the BC and that we were just role-playing. It all was fine in the end he bought plan b for me and we dated for like a year after. The worst part was the embarrassment of having to buy plan b at a store wearing the Chewbacca onesie from the party since I had nothing else and explaining to my dorm mate what happened lol.

pleasestopthis · Accepted Answer

I'm not willing to take pills or any hormonal method, so I'd have to resort to another one, and also sleep with a guy I want to have children with (as long he's on board too) and wear condoms, pull out or just check the dates in the calendar to know when it's "safe" to have sex.

have_a_good_day · Accepted Answer

My first girlfriend didn't use birth control and I made her pregnant. I was SO HAPPY. I've always wanted a child. I was so ready.
Then she disappeared for a week and when she came back I heard she had an abortion. I was so mad. Our relationship ended after that. Currently she is divorced with three children from two different men and she found her ex husband in bed with another man.

My second girlfriend had a kid but she was on birth control.. She suffered from rheumatoid arthritis and I basically cared for her and saw to her like a good man should. After 2 years she dumped me via sms because her ex (her child's father) told her he wants her back. A month or so she sms'd me that she's willing to give me another chance. I went to her that night... I fucked her brains out... And she never saw me again. I know this sounds douchebaggy but it was my way of taking back my power.

Those two fucked me up. So my third girlfriend didn't really stand a chance because I tried to rush everything to show her that I liked her and wanted her and was willing to do everything for her. I told her that I loved her after two weeks of being together.. (I know.. I know)..

Ever since then I've been alone for the last 12 years. Not even doing as much as kissing a woman. Women ruined me.

Wait, what was the question again? 😅

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

tubes tied and/or vasectomy can both come undone naturally. knew a couple that did both and still ended up having twins afterwards. so after she gave birth she had a hysterectomy and he got his redone also. because they already had others kids before the twins. they also sued the doctors who did original work. to get them to cover cost for the new work plus the medical bills from her having the twins. condoms and/or both birth control options. are not fool proof either but tend to cost much less. although some birth control options can harm the body over time. they are working on a daily/weekly male birth control option however. but does have some side effects like female options do. personally I tend to only have sexual encounters with or without protection. when I am in a exclusive relationship with a female. so I know if our birth control options fail I am most likely the father of the child in question.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Nah.. Cuz I don't do girls.. And 99.9% sure couldn't get a female pregnant anyways 🤷🏼‍♀️😂😂😂

Lliam · Answer

I wouldn't. Never have.

aarnasen · Answer

Frankly I would not want to take BC because of side effects, and you won't need it if you have a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend. I would take it if I were with a guy just in case, although both IUDs and pills have side effects. Better safe than sorry lol.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

At my age, I don't have any opportunities to play hide the sausage with a woman who is still fertile, so birth control is not an issue. Of course, STD's is a concern, but I have submitted to STD testing several times over the years, as have my partners. I trust them to be faithful, they trust me, so we're off to the giraffe races at Kilimanjaro!

HOAAH · Answer

I voted g bc i did the FAM

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

I don't take birth control and use ovulation method combined with pull out method. So I tell my partner the days I'm most fertile and we make sure we don't mess around too much 😂🤣😂😂😂😂

Lov2PlezUgurl · Answer

I am adamant about using condoms which means I always use protection so you don't have to and the rubber insulates me against the friction and I get to last longer which means more fun"insadently I've lasted for as long as 8 hours and 45 minutes I love 2 please girls

SarahsSummer · Answer

I wouldn’t “do” a girl. I’m a gIrl on BC.

Apple1996 · Answer

I dont take birth control and I'm happier that way. Easier to know my cycle then use pull out during my fertile window. Currently trying to get pregnant tho so no pulling out going on anymore

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Birth control doesn’t matter in lesbian relationships. I have an iud and a man would be stupid to fuck someone who doesn’t use birth control without a condom

TonyV · Answer

I am not having a kid anytime soon

normalice · Answer

I had a vascectomy, so thats fine with me. But even before i did, i was a pro at pulling out.

Jjpayne · Answer

Well for starter the moment it happens for me will are already going to be serious by that point if not married by then and honestly I would not care at this point because I want kids so I would just act ignorant and go oops. I'm a daddy :)

But being in a situation like that. I'd probably ask what she has for protection and then go to the drug store to get something if we need it

Dongtai · Answer

Wear a condom. I will admit that I love finishing inside of a woman but I wouldn’t get mad if she didn’t want to use birth control. I know there’s a bunch of weird side effects that stuff can have and it’s up to her if she wants to deal with them. I would ask but never demand. There’s really no point in cumming inside unless we’re trying to make a baby anyway.

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

I dunno, is a condom enough? 🙁 my housemate's girlfriend once came into my room saying she missed her period and she always used condoms. i was like huh?

Hans222 · Answer

I voted A, but nevertheless as long as we would not want kids I'd insist on double protection, so her using bird protection and me using a condom.

Miristheiss · Answer

My wife and I go all natural. We have one child. When we've had enough I'll get a vasectomy and we'll stay all natural... no libido messing up, hormones messing up drugs.