Are "ass men" more likely than other men to want anal sex?

Are ass men more likely than other men to want anal sex?
I'm not sexually attracted to women
Vote A
I'm an "ass man". I don't want anal sex.
Vote B
I'm an "ass man". I would like anal sex, but it's not a dealbreaker if my partner doesn't want it.
Vote C
I'm an "ass man". I want anal sex. It's a dealbreaker if my partner doesn't want it.
Vote D
I am not an "ass man". I don't want anal sex.
Vote E
I'm not an "ass man". I would like anal sex, but it's not a dealbreaker if my partner doesn't want it.
Vote F
I'm not an "ass man". I want anal sex. It's a dealbreaker if my partner doesn't want it.
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  • I’d say ass men would be more likely to be “curious” and wanting to “try” anal (if they haven’t tried it already). I’ve never did anal sex but I have wanted to. Since I’ve never done it I don’t know if I like it. I have researched it though and gotten opinions from girls.


    One girl told me it could make a girl “bleed” from her ass and that terrified me. Some girls say it hurts but some also like it. I’m on the bigger side so I don't know if I’d ever meet a girl who could handle anal “from me”. Sex isn’t enjoyable for me if she’s not loving it so if she didn’t like anal I wouldn’t push for it. The curiosity and wanting to try it would still be there but not enough to dump her, cheat or force it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I am an ass man.
    In the past, I thought it would be very very important to me in my sex life.
    Now, however, I rarely if ever remember about it.

    When I think about sex with a woman, her behind opening is not something that comes to mind at all. Even when the doggy position is imagined by me, it still doesn't come to mind that it is a possibility.
    Funny, because when I was younger I thought that doggy could only be done through the butt so to me it seemed like an essential. Obviously I now know it is totally possible to access the girl's entry point from behind with no trouble.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Typically from what I've noticed, yes.


    Like id send my ex nudes all the time and he acted unfazed (literally NO man acts liek that from my nudes).


    Sent him ass pics and hed go crazy. He was also big into anal, thats all he ever wanted

    • I wanna see some of urs. If you don't mind

    • Fuck off loser

  • The options to answer do not match the question. It should say I want/do not want anal sex BECAUSE I'm an ass man vs it has nothing to do with the fact I'm an ass man.

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  • My partner likes butts more than breasts and he is 100% against anal. My ex was the same. So in my experience not.

  • DongTai did summarize how everything in sex should be:
    "Sex isn’t enjoyable for me if she’s not loving it so if she didn’t like anal I wouldn’t push for it."

    i totally agree and i think thats how it should be.
    I am crazy about Butts. and like anal but if she is not into it and dont want to (like its her deal breaker to do it) then i won't do it nor push for it.

    but there is something you need to know , which apply in general relationship not just sex.

    there will be stuff that Person -A- want to do it so badly and a deal breaker like 10/10 important to them

    Person -B- dont want to do it like Hate it 3/10
    [ hating it 10 = never will do it , 1 yeah dont mind but dont like it ]

    that case the person -B- If she/he like the person -A- and this is a serious relationship should try it and reach a compromise or a deal or learn how it can become 1/10 hate to them isntead of 3 :)

    same goes for everything sexual or not sexual.

    lets say he like foot rubs , he want her to rub her feet to tease his penis.

    he want it 10/10
    she hate it 4/10

    maybe the compromise will be she do it for him but he dont ejaculate on it.

    another example:

    the Girl want Anal like 8/10 not a huge deal and it is not a deal breaker but she really want to be adventurous and this is one of the things she want to try in the bedroom
    you know experimenting together can be fun.

    him on the other hand hate it like 10/10

    so this case she need to reach the compromise of not doing it. maybe sit down talk be transparent between one another and experiment with other things, maybe he is ok with using toys on her, and maybe she like it etc..

    i hope this gives you general idea of how it can always work out between partners that desire different sexual stuff.

    try to check sexplanation she do talk about a list like to do , want to do , won't do etc.. between partners

  • Another anal sex question? Do guys ever think of anything else?

    • Hope you realize this was a lady asking this question

    • @Dave88 Male, female - they are never ending.

  • Kinda why they are Ass Men over Breast or Leg Men...

  • Well I am an ass man and I do very much want anal sex (I also like eating a girls ass out too (if its been properly cleaned of course)). I don't think that it means all ass-men want anal sex but I do think they are more likely to want it then a man who isn't into asses.

  • I doubt it. I am not an ass man at all. But I do love anal sex (pitching, not receiving). I was lucky enough that when I was married, my wife loved it so I had plenty. But I have had enough that, if I don't have it again, it is no big deal.

  • Just because a guy naturally, and maybe 'evolutionarily' appreciates her delightful bottom, DOES NOT MEAN HE WANT ANAL SEX!!
    The two are totally separate, and I LOVE how women's perfect, beautiful bottoms look, in so many different things! But I NEVER have looked at her, and thought about ANAL!!
    Why would you, when she has the most perfect, natural parts, just a few inches away?

  • Yeah anal is not for me thanks I dont see the point when I have a perfectly healthy normal vagina to please why would I want an asshole I dont get it😅💁‍♂️

  • I like asses and I want to try anal sex, maybe enough to not stay with her long term if she absolutely won't try it at least once, cause I really want to experience it

  • No not at all. They are COMPLETELY unrelated. Anal sex has to do with the tightness of the orifice.
    Being visually attracted or turned on by booty is something else entirely.

  • I'm an ass man and can't imagine not wanting anal unless I recently had it.

  • It's possible... I do like girls butts but I still would like the traditional way myself 🤔

  • I think that's probably true.

    • But if you can’t get it in, it doesn’t matter, even if you’re bulletproof in NY 😉

  • I mean i would guess that's kinda the point generally if you love ass your more likely to want to put something in it than a guy who don't really care about ass. But who knows.
    Myself i like ass but not that much to call myself an ass man, and i am really not sure on anal sex, Kinda gross but apparently feels better, is kinda hot in porn. Just unsure about it. And 100% wouldn't be a deal-breaker at all.

  • No I don't think so. You do realise that there is more than one position for anal sex, it's not just doggy.

  • this one girl i was with had a perfect ass.. size 0 type of girl. i had the opportunity to bed her but she looked back at me when i asked "anal"?, and acted like a bitch and said no. oh well. i should've massaged it anyway to get it in the mood

  • I'm a booty guy and anal sex is not the first thing on my mind with booty.

  • So many choices lol... to the question, I am an assman and I enjoy anal but not a deal breaker - so I chose C.

    I'd suspect - just a hunch - the % of guys who identify as assmen and like/want anal - would be the same as the % of guys who do not identify as assmen. Reason for the hunch is assmen love the look of a good ass... the feel of a good ass... and with doggy, can enjoy the "I'm in heaven" view of a good ass...

    For anal, guys are into or not... and I don't think it's necessary tied to their love of ass... but that's just my experienced hunch :)

  • I am total package guy and I enjoy all parts of a woman body because there's complementary benefit that you can be satisfied from but not many women understand that concept and that is why I am always a gentleman first to respect a woman's decision on what she is comfortable with. The only way it would be a deal breaker is if she would not want sex at all.

  • I guess I'm an ass man but I really am into the entire package of a woman including her vibe or spirit as a person a chick can be smoking hot but if she's dark on the inside it's a turn off.

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