Asexuality is an identity when a person does not feel sexual attraction to other people. Some asexual are sex-repulsed and want nothing to do with sex in any way; some asexuals have sexual desire that isn’t directed at anyone and may masturbate or have sex; other asexuals are just not sexually attracted but might have sex because they want a baby or because they have a partner who wants to have sex. This is a pretty well studied population, who often slowly come to identify as asexual and stay with that identity long term or permanently.
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Anonymous
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No one is asexual. We’re all animals with desires. Some Christians—ones who are very close to God, spiritually—desire and lust for it at a lower degree because God helps with that. Everything we watch on tv, the music we listen to, everything we feed our soul brings us further away from Him, and the further away you are from Him, the more you desire sex. It’s so easy to give in but it’s so hard to come back. I’ve experienced this, and it helps me from being blinded from what matters most—finding my soulmate.
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I am.
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ArrowheadSWMaster
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I used to know a lady years ago, who was about 30, and she said that she had no interest in sex at all. She had sex before and it didn't do anything for her and she said that "all it did was make a mess"... That was the first time I had talked to anyone who was somewhat in the open about being asexual. Funny that lady got married a few years later. I always wondered if her husband was the same way.
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BerethorMaster
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Yea, usually asexuality is problematic, but at least an asexual girl is less likely to cheat. :)
Yes, I'm aware of it & wrote a short article on it. It's none of anyone else's business, & if identifying that way helps people find fulfillment, then more power to them.
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crmooreGuru
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Yeah
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Steve37Yoda
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I'm aware it exists. I don't understand it but I know there are asexual people out there.
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Asker
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What part do you not understand?
Steve37
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I don't understand how someone could be asexual and go through life without sexual interest.
Asker
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Well I guess you can compare it to drinking. Some people go their whole life without wanting alcohol at all. Then some try it and don't like it, then there's those who just drink it socially for the benefit of others or to fit in.
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Steve37
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But sex is a biological necessity to perpetuate a species. There's an instinctual desire for sex. That's different than an acquired desire for alcohol.
Asker
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There's animals who don't have sex and plenty of sex feinds who don't want kids so I guess I dont understand that either lol
Steve37
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You don't understand the biological instinct for animals to have sex to reproduce?
Asker
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Are we animals? And if we are, then what about all the people who don't want kids
Steve37
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Yes, humans are animals. Are you just looking for an argument? Generally, people that don't want kids don't want the responsibility or expense of raising kids. It has nothing to do with their desire or lack of desire for sex.
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But you said humans just want to reproduce
Steve37
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No I didn't. I said humans have an instinctual desire to have sex.
GreenGold1992Master
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Yes I'm aware and I believe it
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What? Its not a religion lol
GreenGold1992
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No, I don't believe it like that lol, but I do believe people can be born that way, it's not totally unheard of or impossible, not everyone is cut out or interested in sex or even romance.
scooogyMaster
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If sex was solely about intercourse, I could consider myself as asexual.
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