Oh ok, so you haven't decided to be exclusive with them yet but want them to be exclusive with you. Makes perfect sense and not contradictory at all 👌
lol. no no. Since we started going on dates and getting intimate and stuff, I naturally assumed we were exclusive (silly of me, I know) and I definitely haven't been with anyone else throughout this time, but recently I found out he is still seeing other people
Probably because it sounds like y'all haven't actually talked about being exclusive
Someone you've been dating for 2 months...
Did you guys agree to be exclusive?In any case, if you've expressed a boundary to him and he claims you're "controlling" or "hysterical", dump him. He's not going to get better and you certainly deserve better.He's gaslighting you, no joke about it. No two ways about it. That's a red flag. Strong chance a man who gaslights a 2 month girlfriend is going to be abusive.
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Lmfao it's unreasonable to want exclusivity?
From someone you are bot dating or is your partner yes if he is that seems weird you kept it out of the question
Ahhhh i see
So are u dating?
Yes--ish? We go on dates, and kiss and hookup, but the person is still doing it with other people
So I guess u can ask to date exclusively but it sounds like he just has fun with you if he is doing it with others
I guess you are right
No, it's an friends with benefitsAnd someone you need to get away from. THATS WHAT IT IS
You are absolutely right