He mentioned a Threesome?

[CuteBarbielovexx]

I know I have brought up the topic of my boyfriend many times. A while ago we where drinking together and I mentioned to him that I find girls attractive, he then went on to ask me if I would be interested in a threesome. I told him I wasn’t and he continued to tell me how he would love to and it’s “any mans dream”. Maybe this is ok for a single man but as a man in a long term relationship I would of hoped he thought different. I can’t imagine my another girl enjoying my boyfriend in front of me. I give him plenty of sex, keep it sexy and always try to fill his fantasies but this one I just can’t! This makes me upset that he wants to sleep with another woman. opinions?

[Natehunter199]

Honestly, i would love to try a threesome my self with 2 girls. Never have and dont know if i ever will. But i have allways thought in the back of my mind that what if one girl feels like im not giving her the sam attention at the other. I feel like thought like this would ruine the experience for me. But if i had a woman that gave me sex all the time and made everything sexy and wanted to fulfill my fantasys. There would be no need for a threesome. But my wife has cut me off from anything sexual now for allmost 5 years. So at this point im surprised i haven't hoped the fence and pumped the neighbors dog.

[CuteBarbielovexx]

That’s terrible I would never cut my boyfriend off from sex. Sex Is important and the only thing that you can’t get from another person in a monogamous relationship. I have a existent but bad sex life. Although sex is important I don’t know if it is enough to end a relationship, I hope you sort through it, it’s good to know there are other people out there who are in a relationship with sex life problems. :)

[Natehunter199]

He doesn't eat pussy? Damn, i love to but my wife never lets me. 2 mins, every many knows that not long enough to please a woman. I shouldn't be asking much. The last time i had sex has been almost 3 years so he probaly got me beat. But back when i had a decent sex life my wife would ask me to stop because she was fetting to sore and always joke about finding someone she could tag to take over for her. That never went anywhere. But if i was in his shoe's i would be happy with what i have and not press the issue.

[CuteBarbielovexx]

I just made another post to let people know he is not all bad. Yeah he can be very selfish in bed to be honest. We are in a similar position

[Natehunter199]

What sucks the most all this time i thoight she has an affair or just didn't appreciate me anymore. And it messed with me a lot. It effected me at work and took a toll on my health as well. My wife a bad either. She is actually amazing, stubborn and selfish at time but still pretty amazing. I love pleasing a women. Feeling her grab on to me tighter and quiver. The heavy breathing and moaning. But it is nice to be the one that gets some attention once in a great while without having to say a word just to give some reassurance that i am appreciate, cared for and just the plane ol fact that she does think of me time to time.

[RHK36]

Your boyfriend sounds like he doesn't really want to be with you. Constantly checks out other women, wants a threesome, good at cunnilingus apparently yet doesn't want to with you... why do you like him again? Because to me it doesn't sound like he's into you as much as you are into him.

[CuteBarbielovexx]

😕😕i have a lot to think about

[RemoErdosain]

He just thought that since you were attracted to women also, you might be down for that kink of his. To be honest, when you're in a straight relationship and you tell your partner that you're attracted to people of the same sex, you can expect either this or an argument. There aren't many other options. I would feel extremely uncomfortable if a girlfriend told me she were attracted to women. If she has really no desire of being with a woman, I would expect her to not be openly bisexual while she's with me, because otherwise there will be plenty of women looking to offer her sex. Telling your partner that you're also attracted to another gender that's not theirs gives the idea that you'd like to experiment, in my opinion, and it can be seen in a good way, like it was by your boyfriend, or in a bad way, like it'd be with me. If you have no intention of being with a woman, then for all intents and purposes, you're heterosexual now, is the way I see it

[CuteBarbielovexx]

I don’t agree. Yes I am in a heterosexual relationship with eyes only for him. I do not have any active thoughts for women, at all, nor any other man. Call that what you like if you believe I am fully straight then that’s up to you to make your own opinions :) I updated my question

[RemoErdosain]

As for your update, it doesn't sound like you're happy with your sex life either. Why are you still with him if there is so much about him that makes you uncomfortable?

[boggboss]

Would have probably been best not to tell him you also liked women as thats the evolution of that conversation apart from that not much you can do here its his fantasy you either learn to live with that and stay together of end it

[mich15smith]

prob shouldn't do it if you don't want to

[mich15smith]

if he's that bad maybe you should break up with him

[CuteBarbielovexx]

Maybe

[mich15smith]

you should talk to him about how this makes you feel first

[AmeerX]

There is nothing wrong in sleeping with another girl but it is your call.
He will value you more

[oncpl]

It is common and general fantasy & desire of many guys to have sex with a girl other than their girlfriend/wife while the latter is also sharing. If you don't like the idea, better to tell him in open words. He may leave you, and if it so, find yourself lucky that a guy who is more interested in 3some rather than your wish, is no more in your life.

[_Whatever]

Uh yes, it is almost any man's dream, and him being "in a relationship," or not, has literally nothing to do with it. The fact that he's your boyfriend doesn't mean that he's dead. It doesn't matter whether he's with you or not-- any healthy male wants to fuck as many attractive females as possible, not just one.

[Twalli]

It's not that abnormal to dream of it. I would like it, but I won't push for it.

[Jerre]

Keep rejecting the offer. I enjoy FFM 3-sums, but ALL 3 have to want it. Don’t let him talk you into it if you are not comfortable with it.

[Jerre]

Hard to believe he doesn’t eat pussy and cums so quickly. Perhaps you should find a new guy

[Valnac]

You kinda opened that door and didn’t like what was on the other side.
Explain to him that finding girls attractive is more like a fantasy, not a threesome which is something else altogether.

[CuteBarbielovexx]

Check the question update please

[mrgspoter]

Unlucky I guess?

[mrgspoter]

Yes I can see you showed what your willing to do, I'm so sorry for you if you're really being honest here not trolling, I can see he's useless in any way shape and form no need to say at all

[michaelbernad001]

I love it

[QuietRunner]

yes fantasies usualy

[Yellovv]

Very hot to make ffm sex..

[buckyboy]

It could just be a kink. If you are not uncomfortable, he will definitely respect it.

[Anonymous]

This is the problem with monogamy. You're too possessive. Let him have his fun. Don't be such a stick in the mud.

[CuteBarbielovexx]

Monogamy is a choice the same way polygamy is, if you want to sleep with other people that’s fine, but do it with someone who also is ok with being in a poly relationship not a woman who wants monogamy and only one person. B

[Anonymous]

I salute you, lady! You will be a good wife and a mother one day

[CuteBarbielovexx]

Thankyou :)

[CuteBarbielovexx]

I can’t wait to have a family and be a mother, hopefully I have this one day :)

[Anonymous]

If you are attracted to girls I think you should go for ffm threesome

[Anonymous]

Yeah I agree, it’s every straight mans dream but yes more for the single man.