Do you keep nude photos/ videos of your ex?

[KitQuestions]

I was talking to a guy friend of mine who started seeing this girl. He has a video on his phone of his ex sucking his dick and he has shared it with his friends as well (probably without his exes permission). He seemed to try to rationalize why he had his ex’s nudes and videos still on his phone, despite starting a new relationship with another girl.

Do you still have nude videos or photos of your ex on your phone. Is is okay to have them? What’s your opinion on it?

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

Okay 1st keeping pictures or videos... She gave the videos or pictures knowingly (Or at least know they were being taken or filmed at that point) of her own free will with her consent or approval not under a conditional contract that states in the event that we break up that the videos, pictures or media must be immediately deleted. So those pictures,, videos and media are his to do with as he sees fit... however that said personally I would never share anyone else's pictures or videos with anyone else without their consent it's an invasion of privacy and just plan rude.

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

To elaborate just a bit... If you gave your ex a wedding ring, car or even a house and after you break up he gives the ring away, shares the car with his family (without asking your permission) or even rents out the house there is nothing considered wrong with that because it's his property, as would any picture or videos given to him would be. But just cause he can do something doesn't mean he will or that he should... However it does mean it's technically his decision.

[Browneye57]

I keep telling you kids this. If you send nudie and sex pics to a guy he'll share them around with his buddies for a laugh, and eventually one of them will post them up on the internet.
DON'T SEND YOUR FUCKING PICTURES!!! LOL

I even had one bimbo tell me I was being ridiculous cuz real live guys would never do this. BULLSHIT!!!

[imanf7]

He is a pervert. Disgusting. No respected person will ever do that especially showing it to his friends , he is simply not a man. I wouldn't trust him as a friend either...

[Beccamom2]

Honestly, no I delete them... but I am sure my exes keep mine.

[RemoErdosain]

Yeah, I still keep them. I haven't watched them in a while, but I think it's normal to keep the memory. I wouldn't have anything against someone who keeps videos of them having sex. I'd be worried if they were still in contact with the person they recorded the video with. I'm single, though, so in my situation it should be more than fine. I don't share them with anybody either, and I hope neither does she

[boggboss]

I dont have any from exes and most people do keep then or until they get into a new relationship assuming people just delete that stuff is a lol silly

[Dargil]

I delete everything. Never look back.

[oncpl]

It is morally wrong to keep nudes of ex. I deleted her nudes after our separation.

[Wise4myage]

Yes I do, but I never share them with anyone. I think he's wrong to do that and his ex would be mortified.

[Caliguy88]

Yup. Basically all nudes I have gotten I have kept.

[Giggltr0n]

Nope, I offload them to a private file on my computer and don't tell anyone about them

[Twalli]

They were for him. He shouldn't have shared them, but his ex allowed him to have them, or gave them to him. I would delete them when I start getting some from my new girlfriend, but they technically are my property.

[devil_8888]

Nope...


The guy you are speaking about seems to be a pervert and an asshole.

[Dave31989]

Unfortunately, no, I don't. I feel it's wrong to keep things of ex's, but, that doesn't mean I don't have a hard time getting rid of them

[TheWombRaider]

Absolutely 100% and this is why unfortunately cell phones didn't come with cameras and stuff like that until I was already 25 or 26 so only half of the people have been with I've got recorded and the reason why I did it is so I could keep count

[OddBeMe]

I did in my younger days. It’s not an old man’s game...

[Valnac]

I do have nudes from my last girlfriend, she knows that she can trust me to keep them for myself. Nobody else is ever going to see them. I know how much a girl can get hurt, and I certainly wouldn’t want anybody to do something as bad to me. That’s why she didn’t mind sending them. She figures if I look at them maybe I’ll come back for a reminder!

[Siavash_1990]

There is a reason an EX is an EX. IT is NOT okay to have anything from your EX regardless what it is.

[Not-karen]

Nope I don’t keep that stuff once we end things. And insure as hell would never share that stuff.

[jirwin7979]

i kept the vid of my ex n i having sex

[Smirnoff23]

Don't agree with him keeping them or sharing them

[Younghungguy17]

I mean some things get forgot to be deleted but they should if you’re starting a new relationship. Also nothing should be shared without consent

[keddesh]

For a period of time yeah, usually until I can get similar such pictures from my current person or until the feelings run out. One of the other.

[Cryptic-Game]

I never had any nudes of my ex and many people never have an ex also.