Would you date someone who wouldn't have oral sex?

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DrippingHoney · Accepted Answer

I don't think I could. Maybe I'm shallow but that's something I really enjoy and don't want to do without.

CurvyCandice · Accepted Answer

Hell no!  Oral is necessary..  I cannot live without 69 or ea

MrOracle · Answer

As I've said before on this subject, to me, it's more about her overall attitude. If she just has a bad attitude about it, that's a turn-off for sure. If she has a legitimate reason, then that's very different, and probably fine.

For example, I dated a girl who had really bad TMJ - where your jaw can lock up very painfully - and had trouble eating at times because of it. This prevented her from doing oral, even though she was otherwise willing, but that's a completely valid reason not to give oral (she had to cut up her food into small bites as it was). And it helped that she was enthusiastically willing to do ANYTHING else, so it was never a big deal. But if a girl just said "eww, I don't like that", it would be less attractive for sure.

chrissykerdock · Answer

i very much enjoy giving blowjobs and often... i don't crave oral back but once or twice a week is nice... so i would need to give and have oral sex where i couldn't go with someone not liking it as well.

RemoErdosain · Answer

Yes, sex isn't everything

_Cleopatra_ · Answer

Nope. Tongue is just as important as p*nis.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Nope. I like to give and to receive so if either one of those are off the table I wouldn't be interested. Also the fact that she would not want to please me is a red flag. I mean I understand if its not the thing that riles you up, fair enough not every one has an oral fixation, but if pleasing your partner isn't something that gets you in the mood then your probably very selfish when it comes to sex which makes it work not fun (and sex should never be work) and your probably going to be selfish outside of the bedroom as well which is also not something I would want to deal with.

MrCommodore · Answer

I wouldn't mind, I'm not a fan of it anyways

Pasiton5 · Answer

Yes why it's sex don't do you from still having a good time meeting someone new so she isn't in to that why fault her respect her desires and just please her as she prefers, I'm open minded and adaptable just not with a rainbow junk sticking out the wall but yes she do have a lovely mouth not for that pervs, for kissing looking at as she speaks laughs

Fatherhere901 · Answer

Honestly? You're damn right I wouldn't. And if I find out during dinner , she's picking up the check.

JackSmy · Answer

Of course!! I don't want her doing that, and I don't want her mouth there, because I prefer kissing, and don't want to taste dick!!

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah defo not. I love oral and couldnt be with someone that wasn't into it

Berethor · Answer

Yea, because I don't care much about it anyway, and it might even make me respect her more.

Tamera952 · Answer

Nobody would date anyone who wouldn't have oral sex, except for some sister's wife or religious cult bitch

ct1243 · Answer

No I prefer a man who does oral

normalice · Answer

Maybe if she was an anal fiend, but if she does nothing at all to indicate an enthusiasm for unproductive sex, we aren't going to get along.

sammy1537 · Answer

I would. I did.

Jjpayne · Answer

Yup because I'm not actually interested in any 😂

ShortCircuit · Answer

No. Odds are I wouldn't want it very often, but I wouldn't want to date someone who was completely closed off to it and would never do it, not even on occasion. Plus, if she's too vanilla for even oral sex, then she's probably too vanilla for 90% of the other things I'm into.