While having sex with your SO, they yell out someone else's name instead of yours. How do you react?

[Physics-Man]

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well I'd be pissed because obviously that is a mood killer. However I would also have to push my emotions to the side as that isn't a sign of her thinking of the guy. The brain has a catagorization system and some times it has crappy recall. For example I have two female roomates whom I enjoy fucking with (I like instigating and causing trouble (one of them I wait at the steps so when one of her "gentleman callers" tries to sneak out, I smile at them and try to give them (and her) a high five (just to make it awkward because it amuses me)). I mix them up all the time because my brain catagorizes them as friends, female, and the two females I live with (and have no interest in beyond friendship). So I mix up their names all the time. As I have explained it their files are right next to each other in my brain and thats why I do that.

So with sex, you calling out some one's name (especially early on in the relationship (if you have been together for years and she says the name of a coworker or friend, thats a different story)) doesn't necessarily mean that they are thinking of them but rather they have not removed that person from their "file" of significant other yet. If that makes sense? So it depends on when it happens but early in the relationship (first year or so) I would be annoyed but I would understand. But if your wife of ten years suddenly calls out her coworkers name, well thats a different story (because it suggests her brain is filing him into the same catagory as you i. e. she may have romantic interests at that point).

[NamerOfStars]

With surprise- the exact reaction would depend on the name in question. If it's a former boyfriend or something? Eh, it happens. No big deal. If anything, it's a sign that you're doing enough to her that she's losing focus or control. Self-restraint has its place, but if you can't let your mental hair down when you're having sex, you're doing it wrong- and by "it", I mean "living".

If it's something horribly inappropriate, like "grandma"? Okay, that might be a problem. Making someone relive traumatic memories isn't sexy. Even when it is, it isn't.

If it's something bizarrely inappropriate, like "batman"? Then it's time to ratchet up the intensity, because you know there's a good story there.

I think the only definite issue would be if it was inexplicably inappropriate, like "president Garfield". One should always be wary of having sex with time-travelers.

[JosyJosy]

Hahahaha he better not be tied up when he does this

[AustinMan]

Spank her, hard, on the bare.

[RemoErdosain]

Time for a break-up

[Agape93]

It happens 🤷‍♀️ It’s awkward but no big deal

[pigoat]

That's fine we can always explain ourselves and go from there

[cth96190]

I would keep on pumping.
She is entitled to fantasies.

[jahaims]

I'd be crushed

[billluc69]

ask them to invite that person to join you for a threesome

[JohnTheGoodMan]

I will be surprised. I may become sad too

[Anonymous]

Go harder until she's screaming my name.

[Anonymous]

I’d probably start crying tbh

[Anonymous]

I start yelling out random womens names.