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I just started seeing a guy who watches follows girls on twitch, should I stop seeing him?

I’ve never even heard of twitch but I guess it’s where you can watch others play video games? He’s super into gaming and is up all hours. He seems very into me. He’s been very respectful and has done everything perfect, and I like him but I saw on his Instagram he has recent follows from these online twitch girls that pose in lingerie. Under some of their photos (from about a month ago) he commented on them and one responded to him. I’m assuming he watches them on twitch and so they follow each other on Instagram too.

We only recently started seeing each other, everything I saw so far is from before we met a couple weeks ago. But I’m still a little turned off? Like if he has eyes for a lot of girls it doesn’t make what we have special. It’s too early to bring it up to him but just seeing it makes me not want to see him anymore? Should I give him more of a chance? I don't know what to do
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Superb Opinion

  • Do you want him to not have any interactions with other women at all? That's not exactly realistic. Do you want him to not be attracted to any other women at all? That's exactly not realistic. Even if you're in a dedicated, exclusive relationship, expecting the sexual existence of another person (male or female) to revolve entirely around you is a losing proposition. And if you've just started dating... What exactly have you brought to the table to cause him to forsake all other women?

    Sounds like you need to talk with him about this.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Your really not making any sense if it's all from before you was even together what does it matter?🤦‍♂️your being rather silly to be honest if it continues through your relationship sure then come back with your question but you have no right to be bothered by something that happened before you was even a thing unless it was a crime

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yea, Twitch is for streaming games, watching live games etc.

    Have you talked to him about this?

    • No I’ve only been seeing him a couple weeks :/

    • Well, you need to, hun. I am not a relationship expert, but I do communication is key. 💜

    • Do know* 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • Well if that's a dealbreaker for you then you've ruled out the vast majority of men, unfortunately.

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  • Twitch is specific for streaming videos there are rules against adult content so its most likely he just watches for entertainment.
    TBH I think you should be supporting the fact he is supporting girl gamers in a predominantly male dominated hobby try finding a stream to watch together that interests you too!

  • So basically your question is "why this guy I been seeing for a few weeks not exclusively attracted to only me, when we haven't even discussed being exclusive"?

    • Your point?

    • OK so Ii just reread and you said all of this stuff is before y'all even met? In that case what is your point? You're turned off that he was watching and following girls on social media before y'all even met? Doesn't make much sense to me

  • Stay with him

  • so you make a big deal out of him watching twitch sluts but when you explore your THOUSANDS of other options in real life, ready to dump him for the bigger better deal then that's fair play. We are surrounded by entitled sluts.

    • You know nothing about my dating life? I haven’t even been on a date in two years

    • Sounds like you got some personal issues there

    • yeah you have never been on a date. you just sucked a few dicks no strings atatched.

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  • No that is normal

  • If you want a guy that will think you are the only attractive person there is, leave him, if you want a guy who likes you but is aware other girls are attractive, keep seeing him.

    • It’s different to flirt with other girls while you’re seeing someone

    • Flirting, yes. Noticing them isn't a problem.

  • Nah, it’s common. We all need outlets.

  • It sounds like his interests are in everything but you.
    If he’s into twitching and lingerie, tell him to go for it.
    You are warm and wet right there and it’s obvious that’s not what he wants.
    I’d kick him to the curb. And find someone mature enough to be in a relationship.

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