- I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new.
- 1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship together.
- 2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days.
- 3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean.
- 4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy.
- if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time.
- just don't find it worth while to sleep with someone. until I can tell if we have a deeper bond or not. then just physical and/or sexual ends. because I am not into hookup culture and/or one night stand culture.
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I never rush sex in fact I can go almost a whole year or more without it when getting to know someone. the way I see it I'm a hypersexual so there's no reason to rush it because once I give it they're going to be getting a whole lot of it and every man I've ever known has actually complained about me wanting to give it too much. 🙄 Seriously offering it three or twice a day is really too much?
If Im lucky I get it 3 times a week but luckier when it's every other day.
Anyhow in the beginning I much rather know who I'm with intellectually emotionally before I even bother with the full blown sex now that doesn't mean that we ain't doing other things such as heavy petting mutual masturbation or oral.
But full blown sex I wait off on0 1 0 0Thank you for the mho 😊.
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your my kind of lady their miss. hope your current relationship goes well.
Not sure. I would like to get to know the person I'm dating before I even decide to do that. But we do have to have a healthy relationship and everything else, as that is what is more important to me. A person doesn't get sex just because we've dated a few months. We both have to like each other and want to be together.
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It's not about time. It's about establishing a strong emotional connection. Then talk about it.
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2 10Waiting for sex in a relationship, WTF? On the other hand now we know why so many people cheat in relationships nowadays. Buy a blow up doll dude!
0 0 0 02nd date tops
0 4 0 1I would be willing to wait for marriage.
0 0 0 0For intercourse or anything?
what’s her prior experience level?0 0 0 0About 20 minutes. LOL
0 0 0 0couple of hours
0 2 0 0Definitely no more than a couple of months. Sexual chemistry is important.
0 0 0 0Uhh... we aren't "in a relationship" at all in the first place until I've already fucked her a few times, so this isn't answerable as asked. A relationship without sex or physical romance is called a "friendship."
0 0 1 0More than a year. I'd have to be close to someone to want to actually get physically intimate with them. Better to wait and fantasize than to break up after we've done it.
0 0 0 0As long as she wants me to
0 0 0 0However long she wants.
0 0 0 0Maybe like two minutes.
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