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Would it be a good idea to say no to sex for the first time and test my boyfriend to see if he’s still sweet to me/ has the same energy?

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Superb Opinion

  • I'm quite surprised to read from girls that you should not test your guy.

    Frankly, I know my gender. We can be real assholes behind a gentlemanly front, just to get into the girl's pants.

    Without being judgmental, I think playing a little hard to get like turning down sex the first three or four times is a good test to see if he's sincerely honest (with him being sweet and nice) or a mere pretense.

    PS: my SO made me wait 9 months before we had our first sex.

Most Helpful Guy

  • My ones opinion. I'd be furious...
    It's not a game... If your second guessing then don't do it... Relationships arnt something you should play around with.

    But doing something just to see how someone will react is manipulative.

    So. If your honestly not sure if he'll value you then don't do it till your sure. But don't try to play him. That kind of stuff is toxic to a relationship

Most Helpful Girls

  • No... that dumb and immature. Chicks need 2 stop testing their men, it's lame and makes you seem like a spoiled teen

  • Only say no if you really don’t want it. Not as a game. It’s ok to say no if you don’t want it but don’t fake it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Frankly, the idea of consciously and intentionally "testing" your partner sounds rather condescending. If I learned that a partner had done that to me, It might not be a reason to immediately end the relationship but it would kill much of my emotion for her and the relationship would probably eventually fail.

  • It's a test that can easily backfire, and you might fail his test of not being a frigid. :)

  • For what?

  • If you feel the need to test him, something's wrong in your relationship.

  • *How long have you been together?
    *Have you already walked the bases?
    *Rather than just saying no, might you offer a reason?

  • Yes I think you are right to say no

  • smh... you wonder where mind games come from?

  • Sure if you can pull that off.
    It depends how horny you are!

  • Of course this is what you should do.
    I have been with a couple of girls which I thought was leading to sex, but then they have said that they do not want to yet, so I said that was fine and we continued to enjoy whatever we were doing at the time.
    We have had sex later on a different date.

    I also believe that the same should also go the other way round too, as not all the men want to have sex on the first date, while some women do.

  • Yes.

  • Can't accept mind games in relationships, no matter the circumstances

    • Never done it before I’ve always said okay to sex even. When I didn’t feel like it

    • It is you are playing with yourself then. Why do you do something which you don't want to do?

    • Talk everything out, that is what a relationship means

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