Would you put on an act just to get in someones pants?

[Anonymous]

By act I mean pretend to have similar interests, be nice then you usually are things like that?

[AD61375]

Prolly gonna sound like a crock of shit, keep in mind i'm 45 too, though.. but sex never really meant (that) much to me. Least not to the point I felt the need to dupe the person, just to add another notch to my headboard, anyhow. Lol

Cause one of two things, would end up happening, if I did..

Either, it would just end up being a one night stand, anyway. In which case, why bother to make all that shit up, to begin with?

Or I'm gonna end up liking that person. In which case, explaining to them about how my Lamborghini wasn't really "in the shop" or how I think they may have gotten confused, when it came to my dead end job, actually being a reference to my top secret work, as a C. I. A. agent, may have transpired... would prolly spell the end that "relationship", before it even had a chance.

Cause I'm one of those odd rarities, that honestly believes, (honesty)... actually IS, the best policy. With everyone at that, not just when comes to lying for sex, lol. As it shows the person you're telling it to, that you respect them.. let alone, their intelligence. Even if it meant, they ended up not respecting me, as a result of it. Cause it certainly beats trying to keep track of the endless parade of bullshit, that comes outta my mouth, every time I opened it.

To me, it's better to know that shit, before jumping into the sack with em, anyhow. Especially, when being the sap, I so clearly am, lol... but kids actually mean something to me, too. So if one just happened to come along, due to that same hasty decision. If me and it's mom weren't exactly an ideal match... well, that would suck for all involved then!

Where as a "playa", of course... who had no qaulms about feeding that person a line of shit, in order to obtain that latest "conquest", would think nothing more of another baby, then it being just another souvenir.. for (her), to remember them by.

I (honestly) have no idea when sex became a game... but fuck if I'd ever play it. Then, old school thinking such as that, certainly is the mark of a dying breed for that very same reason. So what the fuck do I really know, anyway..

[Asker]

Hey I agree with you I dont see the point in lying. I hate that sex is a game but but sadly that's what its come to.

[AD61375]

It doesn't (have) to be, though. That's what I can never really wrap my head around, when it comes to relationships. Why people would profess to "love" the other person, only to turn around and cheat on em. Those "magical" times being when it was done with a friend or family member, for the express purpose of pissing off that love of their life. The way I see it, if a girl put up with my shit, long enough to consider us a couple... the least they can do, is break the fuck up with that person (before) fucking someone else. As it's not only respectful but it's (not) ripping their heart out and pissing on it, either. One wouldn't think it so hard to grant that person they loved so much, that little bit of dignity at the end.

[Asker]

Well people are growing more and more selfish by the day. It's sad. I chose to study psychology for this reason. To understand what goes through peoples heads.

[AD61375]

Are you a gemini, by chance? Lol... drive myself nuts trying to "figure" why people do the insane shit we do, all the time.

[AD61375]

Wish ya could go back and edit things... but "they" meant other men or myself can do, is..

[Asker]

No I'm a scorpio. Just look at some of the responses to this. Its ridiculous and doen right scary how some people think

[broken_heart_at_48]

I'm me and don't know how to be anything else. Of course with saying that I'm just like most people in a few ways. When I first meat someone regardless of who they are I'm more polite, nice, all that kinda stuff but it's not a matter of running game. It's more of I'm more myself with close friends and family then I am with a friend that I'm not as close but on the same note that being polite and all that is part of who I am. I'm the guy that will go out of my way to help someone else even if it puts me in a bind or if a cars broke down in the middle of the road I'll jump out and push them out of the road even though I have serious back problems and know it's gonna put me down for a few days. I deal with homeowners a lot and have to be professional so that's definitely when I'm on my best behavior but even that is part of me so it's not fake. Same as if meeting a chick I'm wanting to date I'm going to be myself but my best self. I mean I don't dress nice all the time but when taking her out I'm going to. Not to deceive her but to get her attention. I've been married for forever but back in the day if I was wanting in a chicks pants I was straight up about it and let them know from day one that I wasn't looking for a relationship and I did pretty good. So no I won't act like I'm interested in things I'm not but just like anyone else I'll be on my better or best behavior when first we meet and I've had plenty of females be the same way even more towards the fake side like pretending to like the same things or be ok if you do things with your homeboys then once they're more comfortable they change up

[SavageGirl101]

Nah I could never put on an act to get into someone’s pants... cause what if I start to get feelings for them their gonna find out why I even started talking to them eventually and the whole thing is gonna be a mess.😭 Lol that’s to much work to fake something that’s not real and I don’t need to act cause sex is overrated anyways anyone who would be that desperate for sex to play with someone’s feelings like that is a pig💀✋

[PetrovaFire92]

True facts!, Truth be told!.

[jaYYiie]

Nah. I'd rather act like myself lol

If i put on an act I'd probably be a pretty good actress 😂😂😂😂

[Itsok2behapp-e]

No.

Why would I want to get into someone else's pants when I don't even wear my own?

#Commando Hehe :-)

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

I wouldn’t pretend to have similar issues but I would Forsure be nice lol

[Nawlins34]

All men/boys who aren't bold enough to tell a woman what he wants straight is doing this right now.

They over promise via love, relationship, etc and as soon as they get it, they are gone. Then you have the ones who don't just want sex, they want ACCESS to sex, they do this too.

I'm not trying to scare you, but I AM trying to open your eyes. This is a thing to watch out for.

[Bootylicious905]

I been this situation. I found myself sucking on someone that didn't appreciate me. Eventually they were just in it for the awesome BJ.

[tygaasbae]

It’s true. This happened to me recently. He took me on dates, said the nicest thing promising love relationship and as soon as we hooked up he slowly ghosted me. Not everyone I know people who are straight forward and honest but that’s rare lol.

[Account]

No one is worth it.

[jadspop]

Define act...

If you mean acting like someone else just to get layed? Then fuck no! I have a hard enough time trying to be me... You think I have the energy to pull off someone else too?

But if you could like... Having a crush on someone and trying to get them to like me and treating them special cuz I like them... Then yeah... But that's still me... Just not a me that many people get to see... Though I suppose someone could call that putting on an act... Though in that case it's not too specifically get in there pants... It's just too try and get them to like me... And you know... Hopefully that would include wanting to sleep with me at some point

[Yads_Is_Back]

Many men do. That’s why you don’t take their word for it when they say they love you unless they’re showing it undoubtedly or you’ve been together a while and never had sex. Otherwise, if you take their lies as truth then you’re just as dumb lol

[hellionthesagereborn]

Nope.

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't we all?

On those first few dates, aren't most of us on our best behavior? Don't we pay extra attention to our companion, watch our language, not say unkind things about anyone else, dress to impress, and generally try to make the most favorable impression possible? Is that "putting on an act" or is that simply the way that we act in the early stages of a new relationship?

[TechniCarl]

Personally No, that would take way to much effort and knowing my luck I would be caught out

but also it's just wrong to fake things to get your end away

[Asker]

I agree

[iseekpinetrees]

Yes.

[Sonorous]

Don't get me wrong, pussy is awesome. But it ain't worth all that.

[mistixs]

Absolutely not

[Berethor]

No, even though it make getting a girl more difficult, I am quite big believer in honesty. By the way the most common thing that guy lie about to a girl is that they loves her, guys are usually less emotional than girls, so a guy is not likely to fall in love as easily as a girl.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BeingGoodSucks

[Static_In_The_Attic]

What’s the old saying, fake it until you make it!

[ct1243]

I’ve had this happen now I tell men in gay and or married- hopefully my plan works- lol, but no I’m not selfish when it comes to that

[TruthBringer]

Nope, never have and don't plan on ever doing it. I've always been upfront about my intentions with girls I have been in relationships, or had one night stands with. That way they can either take it or leave it.

[SjE78]

nope i dont believe in it, i mean it never gets you anywhere in the long run and personally i prefer a longterm, and worthwhile relationship with those i want to be involved with... and if putting an act on gets what you want for one time, it won't get what you want the next or the times after...
and will more than likely ruine any chance of a lasting and more closer connection... however there are some who do this, and they usually are called players and narcissists...

[LeoElias]

It's not a big deal when both people aren't serious.

[SjE78]

@LeoElias however since the question is asking if each of us individually would put on an act, i would consider the whole idea of putting on an act as lying and decieving so, therefore would not do it... what others do mutually again if they are not serious then no reason to put on an act, as if they just want to have fun then why ruin it by lying to each other... it becomes pointless and can result in more problems along the way... but each to their own.

[Dongtai]

I’m proud to say that I was 100% me with every girl I’ve slept with. Didn’t have to front.

[hornyafbi69]

Cause sex is looked at like a thing you do now a days I find it sad

[Reesep]

No it would just feel weird