Guys, would you care if your girlfriend is uncomfortable naked around you?
I’m 24 and a virgin for good reason. I’m on a weight loss journey to lose 160 pounds and I’m over 1/3 way there. If I allow myself to be in a relationship and have sex, I know it’d be difficult for me considering I’ve mutilated my body. I know I’ll have slight loose skin, stretch marks all over, my boobs will sag more, skin discoloration on my vagina/thighs/inner butt, etc. Although I am making efforts to diminish these because I can’t afford surgery, it’ll still be there. I might be able to handle wearing a shirt during sex or sex in the dark, but I don’t know.
If your girlfriend had bold and obvious flaws that are clearly unattractive to men, could you accept that she’s trying to do you a favor by not letting you see her? I feel if a guy saw my body, he’d go soft instantly, which is why I’m considering if I want to be intimate with someone in the first place. Thanks!
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