How do I switch things up with sex?

I feel like we do the same position and don’t venture at all. Hormones are kicking my butt making me not horny. I’m kind of horny tonight but I just can’t initiate. I don’t want to. I’ve bought a couple sex “games”. Cards that tell you different things etc. They are still in the bag under the bed 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don't know. I want to go out in the living room in my towel but here I am wanting to get my clothes back on and just go to bed. We’ve had sex twice in a little less than 3 weeks. So basically once on the weekends.
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    • Thank you! We can’t quite figure out spooning... it just won’t go in that way. Any tips?

    • it can be tricky to a line things if there is a height and/or weight issue. because your more likely to get the wrong hole or miss both even.

    • consider starting with a Prone Bone position. then just flipping over to your side maybe.

      https://bestsexpositions.com/prone-bone/

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  • talk to your boyfriend about it... I mean he can't help if he doesn't know. Not sure what kind of guy he is, but find out his kinks and yours together. It maybe uncomfortable but anything new or foreign is strange. It can be exciting after a while.

    And I think women should initiate sometimes. Its a lot of work to initiate and guys kind of have to learn how to because that's just how it is. But you can break that cycle. Go forth and turn on that Gameboy.

    jokes a side. I wish you the best.

    • Every time I initiate he loses his erection 🙅🏻‍♀️

    • hm... well... Don't know what to say. Maybe I'm just a degenerate? hahaha. Not sure how you initiate... and it can be a huge set back for the two of you... well yeah... I don't know what you have done and what he is okay with. ummm Not sure if you want to discuss this here but... is it just visual initiation? or... physical? yeah not sure how comfortable you are about openly discussing this.

    • If I wear lingerie or if I just initiate most of the time he’ll seem interested but go flat

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I just bought a bunch of lingerie to wear for my guy lol. Apparently, he is strongly in favor of lingerie! Buy something that makes you feel sexy and chances are your guy will pounce on you.

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  • He suffering from a low sex drive. First he has to communicate or you guys should consider therapy. Second, there’s no harm in Viagra. It definitely works and could help him. Third, you need to schedule a date night/sex night and stick too it. Lube can help him and maybe some dress up with lingerie.

  • something's happened in your relationship that's changed. if he doesn't want sex that's normal

  • it sounds like right now maybe you don't need sex and maybe he doesn't either. sometimes in life you just have to go away from the unhealthy things in life to learn and explore things that are different and do it with your S/O. there's a lot you two can do together outside of sex, society puts a unrealistic standard on sex making it seem like every relationship needs sex and its judged on how good the relationship is based off of it. so maybe your body and brain together are telling you there's more to life then meaningless sex.

  • Go out there in your towel and try the kitchen table. Lol

    • I would love to! He’d lose his erection before we figured it out. Plus height is not on our side. He only seems to want the bed

  • It seems like you're forgiving things. Sex shouldn't be a chore. I think your guy needs to step up and seduce you a little. Maybe he's getting lazy since you're married and he doesn't feel the need to win your heart anymore.

    • *forcing

  • Does he make you cum multiple times when you fuck? Does he regularly eat you? You may have to initiate sex with him. Talk dirty to him.

    • Yes to both. I do enjoy sex with him. I just want to change it up somehow. I don't know how

    • Perhaps a 3sum with another woman

  • You can strut up to him with your panties in your hand and a naughty smile on your face.
    Then there’s my favorite:
    When you are both naked with him on his back and erection on his stomach, straddle him back by his balls.
    Spread your pussy lips on either side of his cock and your clit rubbing on him. Now slide up to the head, back to the balls, repeat! Let him play with your tits and nipples.
    It shouldn’t take long before you have an amazing orgasm.
    By the way, I call that Riding the Pony

  • You are married?

    • Yes we are

    • I figure watching some porn can be good education, how did you and your hubby first meet?

    • We met online actually

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