She doesn't like doggy style. Would it change your opinion?

[Anonymous]

This might come across as sexist but that is not my intent. The woman in the picture is a pretty popular bikini model. I think she has a very sexy body. She recently was doing a podcast type thing with a friend, another girl, and the friend asked what is her favorite sex position. She didn't answer but did say she hates doggy style or any position from behind and will never ever do it again.

Certainly her choice of course but as a guy who loves this type of body and doggy style, I would be absolutely crushed if I started dating her and found out later she doesn't do it that way. Maybe she had a bad experience and would be willing to try again but assuming she would not, and this might sound shallow, but I think it would affect my opinion and desire to keep dating her. Is that wrong? Would other guys feel the same way?

I get some things like anal are off limits and maybe I'm wrong but I think something like that is understandable but doggy style is pretty common and for guys who really like it, I could not see myself getting into a long term relationship or more. I know some will jump at this as being degrading and only judging her on the sex part but I do think that is important.

To me, her body is made for doggy style and I have to imagine most any guy who starts dating her and finds out it is a no-go, is going to be more than disappointed.

Guys, do you agree or not?

Girls, I am sure this might hit a few hot buttons but would still be interested in your thoughts.

[PrudentGuy]

I honestly surprised a guy your age asked question like this.

No offense, but i wonder how sexually experienced you are?

A short answer I can give is, if the girl is a virgin or less experienced, then very likely she would turn down doggy style because she usually feels "too exposed".

It has little to do with her body shape.

And more experienced girls will just do doggy style as "normal" sex.

The rest is how to assist less experienced girls to start enjoying sex in doggy style. This, if you like, we talk privately.

[Asker]

She is not a virgin. She dislikes doggy style. She said she will never do it again. All of those are facts. My hypothetical was - if you are a guy who likes doggy style and you started to date a girl like this - and she said doggy is an absolute no go, would that impact if and how you go forward with her or not? It's pretty simple dude. Can you answer or are you going to get triggered again?

[PrudentGuy]

LOL! Nothing triggered. My SO was that way when we first had sex. It took me a few years to motivate her to like it. After much patience, she eventually like it and she would even just flaunt her butt for my pleasures.

[JackSmy]

I was uncomfortable reading that, and almost offended! Why do you have this PRE-CONCEIVED notion, this STEREOTYPE, about women?
OMG!! EVERY ONE of them is TOTALLY UNIQUE, and different!!!
Every one I have ever known, liked, and asked out, it was like starting all over, again, even with asking her out!!!
How can I think she is like any other, when she is so different, and so uniquely special, as her? It's quite exciting, and getting to know her! Wondering what amazing things she likes, that we might share together!

[Asker]

Sorry to have triggered you. My intent was somewhat of a hypothetical situation. If you love doggy style sex and start dating a girl who has a body like the one in the picture, would you be disappointed (or more) if she disliked doggy style so much that she did not do it?

[JackSmy]

No offense intended, on your part, I know, and I was not "Triggered" and too many use that BS term!! I have the utmost respect for all women, and they are AT LEAST EQUALS, but getting most to believe that, and act on that, is, well, probably nothing to be resolved in this decade! No doubt that the one you posted is quite beautiful, but the assumptions, and with the Equality thing, we, as men, need to change, as well, and have more respect, and not say things that seem so normal to us, that we were taught, but now, are really kind of wrong. Not judging you, in any way, just calling out, a point.

[ladybug301]

you're a shallow asshole.
Women's bodies aren't made for doggy style, 4-legged creatures are.
Woman have clits above their vagina and they don't walk on all fours.
I won't have sex in doggy style because I was raped in it.
I don't care if you wouldn't date me, you're a dumbass

[Silvershadegirl]

That's such a strange thing to say. My immediate thought it that there's something more to it going on, like some kind of negative association?

[Asker]

There might be. She didn't say anything more. She and her friend started talking about other things. I don't know her beyond following her a bikini model. But just hearing her say it crushed my fantasy thoughts lmao and made me think of this hypothetical-like question based on her picture and what she said.

[Wise4myage]

Not at all, because Cowgirl is a hotter position in my opinion.

[LiamJHayden]

You are entitled to your preferences and so is she.

[EgaGarz]

Maybe you need to change the speed of thrust

[Anonymous]

If she is a popular bikini model then why did you block out her face?