Should I leave my man?

[Anonymous]

He constantly looks up his exes and women he is generally still in love with on Facebook. He continually chooses porn or even just his hand over me, we haven't had sex in a month because he keeps getting off behind my back. I feel worthless and unattractive and no amount of conversation changes his behaviour. Help me! I'm so stuck.

[Reaperbot666]

• not sure how long you have been together so far. but many modern couples tend to have less and less. sexual interaction with each other as time goes on. as their sex life together becomes mundane or boring to them.
• lack of sexual interest could be due to stress somewhere in their life.
• plus with the modern internet and all the things that came with it. there are many options to find a new partner.
• instead of working things out with your current partner. it is likely that because of the lack of sex one or both. start considering to out source after a while to fill their desires and needs.
• the more former sexual partners a person has causal or relationship wise. the more likely they have a harder time bonding with their current partner. because they start to compare past with current in their head.
• a healthy sex life with your partner tends to be the clue. that holds everything else together. so once you start having less interaction with each other. things start to fall apart in other areas of the relationship.

for both sides

and vise versa

[anonChineseMale]

Yeah leave. he has all he needs. HAHA.

But in all seriousness this happens... some guys get so into porn that its the only way to get themselves off. or he find initiating sex intimidating or too much work.

I don't know if you talked to him about this but if you have and you were clear about your sexual need and he continuously refuses to meet them... then leave. I mean sometimes this is why people cheat. Other reason are that they find pleasure in sex with strangers while being in a relationship. but that's a topic for another time.

I wish you the best.

[PrudentGuy]

As a guy who lost before, I learned that love cannot be forced.

Letting go is difficult. But holding on is torturous, especially like what you wrote in the details.

May i suggest give it another try to made up. If fails, ... just let go and move on. Its less painful this way. Just a personal opinion.

[AustinMan]

Find a good couple's therapist.

[Jenom]

If it's on-going and the issue won't go away then leave him. He'll probs be tirelessly trying to win you back for a while though.

[In_Trance]

yup... dump him

[Smirnoff23]

Get rid