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So a guy at college filmed my ass yesterday amd now its going around all the boys, what do I do?

So its going around all the boys because for some reason some creep filmed me walking outside on my lunch break.

I was wearing leggings that apparrntly wdnt see through in the light when i went outside. So now all the guys can see everything. Do i tell someone. Or just take some time off for it sll to be forgotten about. I need help what do i do. I could try and rope my friends into doing it too so im not the only one. I dont know
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  • I get that this sucks for you, but here's the thing: in a week or two, people will forget about it and will have moved on to something else. The best thing to do is to not let them show that it bothered you. Throw it in their faces. "What, you've never seen a hot girl's ass before? Well, I guess I can see why not!" Stuff like that. It will defuse the situation. Guys have a short attention span, and this will blow over quickly.

    The other thing is: before you walk out the door, look at what you're wearing, and ask yourself: "I'm I comfortable wearing this around ravenously-horny teenage boys?" And if not, then WEAR SOMETHING ELSE!

Most Helpful Guy

    • might be wise in the future to wear a dress, long shirt, skirt or shorts over top. if the leggings are rather transparent similar to how nylons are.
    • better yet pick a different pair of leggings or pants to wear. if you don't want similar events to happen in the future.
    • because no matter who you let or where you go. your likely to have it happen again to some degree. if you continue to dress in a similar fashion in public. so might just have to learn to expect. that guys find you attractive in some manner. just might not always be the guys your interested in.

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  • I have heard of instances where stuff like that, be it you allowed it or didn't ruin careers. I was watching an episode of Dallas Cowgirl Cheerleader tryouts. A candidate had already gotten through all the rigorous training and learned the choreography to numerous dance routines and was even fitted for the uniform when a social media check was made. The candidate's ex-boyfriend had taken provocative photographs of her against her will. They told her too bad to sad, she shouldn't have put herself in that situation. Stuff like this just doesn't disappear.

  • How do you know he filmed you? How do you know its going around? -- What do you mean "you can see everything"? (I highly doubt that) -- Were you in public? fully clothed? I'd just forget about it, seems silly and stupid. It'll be forgotten soon.
    If you want to get him back, then film him. Make a point to 'catch' him doing something stupid or something similar and distribute it. Teach him a lesson in public humiliation.

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  • Report him for harassment
    Make it public that he is a pervert: get it at the roots and exterminate it

    • I honestly have no idea where it started, iv recieved complementing messages about it but i dunno if i want that

    • If you are not sure if you want it, don't let it continue, because you might end up in an uncomfortable situation. Set the boundaries right away. And report to the police, tell them you are not feeling safe anymore. They can track back where the original video came from.

  • In the uk that would be a criminal offence and he'd ne put on the sex offenders list.

  • Getting other girls involved is an absolutely HORRIBLE idea!

    Your university probably has a very strict policy on sexual harassment, stalking, etc. Call the office of the Dean of Students and report what has happened. This guy will probably be suspended for a period of time.

    • Highly doubtful... probably just be told to knock it off.. you have no expectations of privacy in public

    • @dutch69lover. Do you have any experience with higher education administration?

    • Some... if the guy is constantly following her they could say he a stalker. If it happened to be a one off thing, if he never approached her or spoke... like I said public place. He could easily say I was telling my friends that he wanted some of these for his girlfriend, just happened to see a girl wearing them, and sent the pic/video to his friend. Now he has no control if his friend sent it to his friends and so on.. no nudity or anything either. Just a few things a guy's lawyer would argue lol. Beside don't think this happened... don't see many 16 year olds in college.

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  • You should complain to police and the headteacher.

  • own that s**t girl show them what they will never get every chance you get if you're ass looks that good just put it out there or if your to shy about it I guess the next best thing is to take a break but that's not what I think you should do don't let anyone make you do something that you don't want to do

    • So just keep going as normal you know what i love your post x

  • Know who did it?

    • Noooo

  • Silly. You reap what you sew.

  • Report the motherfucker

  • Well not quite everything, because you weren't naked. Get your friends to do it too, hehe. I think you have a legging fetish, lol.

  • it's what happens when you dress like a prostitute.

  • Well it is going to be forgotten about soon, I don't know if there's anything you can really do unfortunately, since you don't know who filmed it or who it was initially sent to. I'm sorry that happened to you.

  • All colleges have rules of conduct, so if he violated those codes then he can get trouble.

    However, in saying that I don't think he can get trouble because he didn't violate your personal and private space.

  • Take a photo of him in a stupid thing he is doing an post it for others to see

  • You could try not dressing like a whore. Only way that guy would be in the wrong legally speaking is if your state has a law against recording people without permission. Otherwise, he's gonna keep fawning over easy women.

  • Your college certainly has a student judiciary with a conduct review. Talk to your RA or call the Dean of Students office.

  • Now you know it's a good idea to wear SOMETHING with them. Leggings, ARE NOT PANTS, ladies

  • This did not happen

  • Talk to your Dean and campus security and watch how fast it stops

  • I want a pic too. ;) No just kidding, but you should be flattered just don't do it again unless you mean to?

  • I’m guessing you know it’s making the rounds bc it’s a college? Or work? You could make a case for harassment since it’s disseminated. But filming on the side walk is usually protected. Just ask cops.

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