I’m a girl its definitely there. but i think the urge to want to try it was more intense. now that i know what its like, i pick my preference properly. sometimes there is the urge to want to have sex especially if you dated someone and had sex consistently during that time. coming out of it and going back to less sex or no sex is hard. it took me a full year to have zero urges to want to hook up for sex because i was single. i didn't want to date just to satisfy sexual desires anyway. but I don't know for others, or men, it might be different! some just want more and would like to date to continue to explore their sexual desires and it seems almost insatiable.
and for masturbation, i still can cum but sex is so much more fun and you do it enjoy it with someone else. its like eating alone and eating with friends. you get full both ways but the latter is just more fun and sometimes you just want that.
and, for horniness, it increases. Sex makes sexual pleasures 100 times better because you're doing it with someone else. and you have more access to sexual thoughts and can fantasize more with someone else. its not just strictly you and your hand and maybe toys anymore
So well explained! Thank you!!
I don’t think my behavior changed much. I didn’t really crave sex, just oral but I wouldn’t even really call that a craving. I wanted head but I wasn’t like obsessed with it. But I did get bored with masturbation. For me masturbation simply can’t compare to receiving oral sex. I don’t even masturbate or watch porn anymore. But I’ve pretty much always had a consistent sex life ever since I lost my virginity so it never was a big deal for me to not masturbate. When I was single I always had a friends with benefits of some sort.
I think yes.
Before I lost mine, I had high libido but can control my masturbation to about 2 to 3 times a week.
But once I lost my virginity, my SO and I literally started a sex-filled lifestyle, where we moved in together, then literally had sex 2 to 4 times DAILY.
That was the most memorable 6 months of us being together. Thej we went back to work but we still had sex 3 to 5 times a week.
And in those days, I stopped masturbating. I think she stopped too.
So my Opinion is, the libido is there, but different.
Something I've been trying to do lately do lately is actually stop masturbating. Because the more often I do it the more often I'm horny and need sex (that I can't seem to get).
I quit for a week. Did it one. Then quit for another week and counting.
I still get horny but it's a different kind. Not the frustrating kind the positive kind.
(Plus as I guy I realized I'm actually a lot "bigger" than I thought the old cucumber just needed a break)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The first time I had sex after that I didn’t have sex for like a year. I just didn’t crave it. Now since I’ve had sex a lott I crave it a lot. I think about it everyday. I don’t NEEED it right now though since it’s been less than a week but I probably will soon
Same for me. Why is it when we have it regularly it’s more of a craving?
I think, if you have a naturally strong libido, it will remain that way after you lose your virginity. You'll have have more ways to satisfy your cravings. And sex is way better than masturbation, so you'll want to have a lot of sex. That isn't to say that you won't continue to masturbate sometimes.
When I was with one particular girlfriend, we had sex at least twice a day on work days and often for hours at a time on weekends. She had a really strong libido, was uninhibited and insatiable. She orgasmed like crazy. Early on, I found her dildo and found out that, regardless of the amount of sex we were having, she still found time to masturbate. That only increased my admiration for her.
No not really. You'll want to do it again but that's pretty much it.
For me, it was definitely the end of innocence.
I've never looked at the world the same way since.
It does in a lot of ways. You find a piece of your self. More confident more open and you want it more
I dont know, I'm still a virgin too, but I hope to have the answer soon.
If you find out before me let me know lol.
I've got a female friend who has had a good amount of sex and she tells me not to worry about it. I dont see how she could really relate but whatever.
No, I literally felt exactly the same.
pretty much yeah, before we all can be a little embarrassed to discuss about it, some have the confidence to talk about it with a few people we trust but only with literally a select few, and even then not without becoming uneasy... after the behaviour is more close to "ah done it so what!" and the embarrassing or lack of confidence talking about such things would usually be lifted... and after a few sessions of sex later it doesn't bother at all...
For me it made no difference in my horniness or in the pleaure I got from masturbating. But it did relieve some of the curiosity and mental burden of being a virgin. I was unomfortable when people started talking about sex and when they thought I was a virgin. I was a loner and I was fine with that but it made me feel awkward and even more of an outsider in those situations. I was more comfortable with not having sex afterwards. I developed way slower emotionally and maturity wise but others didn't know that and only saw my age so I always felt like I was failing in some way. And I also didn't know myself well enough yet to deal with these things. If I was a virgin now it wouldn't be the same.
Luna I was 16 when I had sex for the first time. I was really horny then and I was probably even more horny after that. I wouldn't say that my behavior changed though. I was already masturbating a lot and after I had sex the first time I continued masturbating a lot, usually while thinking about that first time having sex.
* Beautiful photo of you by the way.
Can't really answer the question since I'm in the same situation as you but you get more beautiful to me each time I see you haha :)
Im no beauty but thank you
Luna, you are a beauty!
depends on the person and if they enjoy having sex or not. also depends on their level of sex drive. plus if both people are able to keep the others in check.
I think it depends on who your first time is with, and who you are.
For me, there was no increase in the libido, but I did have much more to think about when alone, which made masturbating more fun for a time. Like your self though it was already a daily/multiple times a day occurance so more wasn't really an option :-)
I guess it would have something to do with your feelings for that person and how good it was for you.
After I lost mine I went from not caring about sex and masturbating often to always wanting sex. Its like not knowing what your missing until you got it.
Great question and I think I was pretty lucky... I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 and the girl who claimed it ended up being by girlfriend for over 5 years. We dated for about a month or so before we had sex but from then on it was all the time... so I went from virgin to all-the-time-sex and it was awesome :)
Love the pic there by the way - very sexy :)
you tell me
I think once you have tasted it it will make you never want to go back again
babe it's different.. I've had times where i had sex during the day and still masturbated at night.
Sex feels good and different. it's like going to the barber shop and someone shampoo your hair vs shampooing on your own.
Sometimes you get exhausted after sex doing different positions whereas masturbation is more relax.
It juat depends on your drive if you like the sex your getting you want more but if your partner can't keep up with you then you find you have to feel in the gaps my exs would do taking care of self when we wernt together
Meh. Kinda sorta. I stopped putting women on a pedestal and stopped simping once I lost my V card. Don't care what women think anymore, have more confidence dealing with them.
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