Will I be able to give blowjobs? Any tips and advice?

So I've never done blowjobs before (I'm a virgin actually cuz I haven't found anyone yet) and me and my friends were talking about it. They noted on how tiny my jaw is, no matter how wide I tried to open my mouth it wasn't too wide. That made me scared and insecure. Will I be able to ever suck dick? I don't want to hurt a future partner with my teeth.
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  • 1) don't believe the size in porn.

    I'm a guy and I can assure you, if you can put a standard size bananas into your mouth, you can put 80% of dicks in.

    2) blow jobs aka oral sex is not about blowing nor about sex.

    Yes, you can give one.

    But before doing so, remember that its a very intimate act, even more intimate than sex to some guys.

    So make sure you are in love before giving him because of some "requirements" (below) that makes it great.

    3) Enthusiasm.
    Giving fellatio (sucking dick) is very intimate and you must make sure your man feels your love.

    Hence set your mind to have the desires to pleasure him.

    Manifest these desires on the way you suck; the way you make some noise with your wet lips; the way you grab his butt cheeks and push his groin toward your mouth; etc.

    Make him feel that you really want to please him.

    4) deep throat.
    Since you're new to fellatio, avoid it.

    Better stay "standard mode" than got gag trying to perform too much.

    5) swallow.
    Cum taste is acquired. This means it stinks and taste hell bad the first few times.

    But if you want to perfect fellatio, swallowing is compulsory.

    Take it with the mindset like eating sushi and blue cheese. They stinks initially. But eventually you can't get enough of them.

    6) finally, be naughty. After you swallowed, kiss him mouth to mouth.

    Don't share too much. Just insert your tongue and then cuddle.

    Request cunnilingous from him after that. This will become the first steps to a great sex life between you two.

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  • My SO has a bad gag reflex and limited jaw mobility. She has developed an approach that works for us.
    First, a little anatomy. Please, mods, this is science, not porn.

    Will I be able to give blowjobs? Any tips and advice?

    So she only repeatedly takes the head into her mouth 1.5" while she strokes the length of the shaft. Since she has a gag reflex, she curls her tongue up when I cum to block the shot from going down her throat. Many good blow jobs have ensued.

    Will I be able to give blowjobs? Any tips and advice?

    to give it all the pleasure it needs. At most, you only need to open your jaw to accept about 1.5 inches of an English cucumber which is the right width to practice on. kissing lips First, a little anatomy. The part of the penis that needs the attention of your mouth is the head, AKA, the glans. In particular, once a penis is firmly erect, it is the "corona" (the ridge) and the "sulcus" (valley behind it) that are most sensitive. So all you need do is pass the corona and sulcus through

    • Pardon my sloppy editing the text below the bottom image should have been deleted.

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  • all you have to worry about is the cockhead suck that twirl your tongue around it the piss hole make out with it... lick the vein good behind the cockhead... and suck the mushroom really good... and you should do fine... next is to get out there and start sucking a lot of cocks... giving blowjobs is the best practice... when i started i did the banana thing which made me want to suck even more... go on a sex site look for a sex site and meet with older men as they're more patient and rather have blowjobs anyway.

  • I'm sure it won't be a problem if it is I guess you'll have to figure out other ways to help him

    • @offendedsorbet i think it will be fine. have u ever had a penis that was too big for ur mouth?

    • No but I haven't gotten around much. I'm sure it's possible.

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  • Well don’t worry about what they are telling you and don’t worry about it in the future you will find a way to please your partner and i’m sure you can give him a blowjob and never forget to use your tongue you will make it work don’t worry

  • You can make a test with a dildo and you don't need to risk your hymen to make that test.

  • Listen. Like seriously we are not poured into molds damnit we aren't all the same 😂 listen we'll tell you what we like

  • you don't have to be a able to deepthroat. in order to give good oral sex to a guy. sure many guys might like that. but if you remember to work the whole tip, shaft and balls you'll be fine. just ask the guy what he likes and if he's not sure. then just test this out and get his feed back.

  • Don't worry your partner will help you. You could practice watching pornstars give deepthroat to a guy

  • It's honestly not that hard. Just pretend it's an ice cream cone.

  • Will I be able to give blowjobs? Any tips and advice?

    Follow those rules and you'll be a beast also whenever you need to take a quick break lick and kiss the dick rhythmically especially the underside by where the dick and balls connect I promise you do all that and you can have any and every you want from the man you bless with such a fine gift

  • Just really depends on size

  • can you post a pic of your mouth or dm me? im super curious now lol

    im CERTAIN it will be fine tho u can always just suck on his head

  • You have serious mental issues if you think having a small skeletal frame is an issue and that you need to blow men for validation.

  • You probably won't be very good at the start. Keep trying and watch some blowjob tip videos online

  • You dont blow you have to suck

  • you'll be fine

  • Use your tongue at the top, and then teeth gently at the bottom going back up. Guy’s g spot is the tip where we pee.

  • Yes you will it just takes practice

  • Bananas

  • Yes you will. Don’t worry, any guy lucky enough to have his dick near your mouth will enjoy it. You don’t need to try and take it all like in porn especially in the beginning. Just start licking and sucking it like a pop sickle and go from their. As someone with a thicker then average penis approx 6” around I have not had an experience where a girl wasn’t able to perform some oral sex on it. So don’t worry you’ll be good.

  • Im a virgin too.. and i hope my first partner is willing to give it at least.. I've read a lot on how to give a good one so i could share that knowledge with her

  • You will lick if you can find a suitable penis

  • Where are you. Lol

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