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I pooped a little bit during anal sex. I feel like my sex life is over. I'm very sorrowful. What should I do?

My boyfriend is so into anal sex. Anal sex is his passion. He said that he loves my ass and my asshole. But I just ruined everything. I and my boyfriend were making love and we started to make anal sex. everything was fine, until ı realized scent of shit is in air. ıt was not very tang but still could be noticed. I felt really shamed. I don't know ıf he noticed that smell too. he didn't look like noticed maybe he noticed but he was acting like he didn't like noticed. After that he taked out his penis out. There was a little bit shit on his penis. But ıt was too little and hard to see. Maybe he didn't see it or did ı'm not sure. And he wiped his penis and after that he had vaginal and oral sex. Both were good and he looked enjoyed. But I can’t enjoy because ı was so stressed out about what I did. however he was still so horny. I feel so guilty and awful. But he still treated me good and hugged me before he gone. he didn't look like very bothered. I got calm down a bit. After ı got home, ı saw there was shit on my panties. and I started to cry. I didn't expect this. I pooped 3 times before sex and I haven't eaten anything for 24 hours. I feel so sorry that I want to kill myself.(of course ı won't) Will he break up with me because of this? Will he want to have sex wiht me again? Have you ever experienced an accident like this? How did you react this? What should I do now? How can I make him forget to this shitty day? Help me. (sorry for my shitty English, English is not my mothertongue (maybe you realized ıt before ı told)
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Edit: my age is not 30, ı'm 20
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  • If you have anal sex enough times, something like this might happen. It doesn't mean that you did anything wrong. Maybe it was just the wrong time of day.

    My ex and I had anal sex occasionally and we both liked it. We usually did this at night when we got in bed then we went to sleep. One morning, she woke up horny and wanted me in her butt. When I pulled out, I had a little bit of shit of my dick but I just washed it off and I'm not sure she ever even realized it happened. Here bowel habits were regular, and she always took a dump in the mornings. So anal sex in the morning was a mistake because her lower bowels were loaded up and ready to go. After that incident, I just made sure that we had butt sex at night and everything was fine.

    Your boyfriend is probably happy beyond belief that he has a girlfriend who is so willing to have anal sex. Leave you? He'd be an idiot to leave you over this incident!

    Think about it this way. When you have a baby and you change diapers, you are inevitably going to get baby shit on your hands. Will you freak out and break up with your baby? Of course not! You just accept that as part of being a mother and you keep doing your responsibilities. The risk of shit on your dick is something that yo just accept if you are going to have anal sex, you try to learn from the experience, and you keep having anal sex.

    • Yes we had anal sex in morning too. ı didn't know this. thank you. I keep having anal sex. I still like it. I'm amateur. I'm learning day by day. Next time we will have really good sex. Lucky my partner is warm and understanding. But this day always will be a wound in my mind.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Anyone who does anal sex knows (or damn well should know) that such things are a possibility. It's not anyone's fault - it's just a risk. I'm sure he understands.

    In the future, you can do what porn girls do: use an enema to clean yourself out beforehand. In most cases, that's going to eliminate this from happening.

    He didn't seem to be bothered, so I don't think you have anything to worry about.

    • It was all my fault. I didn't use enema. I was lazy for it. I hope he will give a second chance for me

    • He will. You'll be fine. Don't be so hard on yourself. And it sounds like he cares for you and appreciates you, so you have nothing to worry about.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Anal sex really isn't good for you physically and it is extremely usanitary in there. It is a good idea to not go there. It sounds like this man is to into porn. What those pornos don't tell you is these adult stars is they often undergo colonic hydrotherapy to flush everything out so it is clean up there. So unless you want to undergo that everytime this will likely happen.

    Nothing to be embarrassed about. This is not a clean part of the body and of he expects that then maybe he should do back to his porn videos. Having a passion for anal sex... that is a huge red flag to me.

    • I’ll take pussy anyday

  • Well, poop comes out of your anus, so it's a real possibility when engaging in anal sex. Any guy who loves anal and does it often knows that much at least... and if your boyfriend wasn't that troubled because of that that little incident (as I suspect since he was still turned on), don't worry about that. You're overthinking things, everything will be fine.

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  • It happens more than you think. Here is an honest answer to your question -- by another woman.

    Nikki Glaser on Back Door Action - YMH Highlight (search it on you tube)

  • If you want to eat salmon expect bones

  • No, their is nothing to be ashamed about. He put his penis were you defecate, some times this is going to happen when you do this, its just what it is. There is nothing to worry about. However to make sure it doesn't happen in the future try using an enema before you do so that you can clean out what ever didn't come out during defecation. That way this doesn't happen again, but again if it does its not a big deal that is the risk a guy takes when he puts his dick where you poop.

    • Is using enema 100% effective?

    • Well I don't know if its 100%, but 99% sure. You had residue inside you (perfectly natural and normal) and the enema will remove that. Its a little extra work but you should be fine. I would highly recommend looking this up and finding resources on it so you can avoid this in the future. Basically you just fill yourself up and let it out until the water is clear and as long as your not waiting hours to have anal sex afterwards their should be no mess (this is how pornstars do it (along with going to the bathroom and skipping a meal so their is nothing in their colon at the time (though that is rather extreme to skip the meal, you probably don't have to do that as long as you make sure you've gone to the bathroom and used an enema).

  • ok look I'm sure that if this isn't the first time he's had annal then it's probably happened to him before I've never had annal but I can tell you how you should prepar... have an enema Google it you'll see what I'm talking about and ask him about what he thinks the one thing that breaks up most relationships is no communication

  • Next time do some prep. Buy yourself a douche, makes anal far less stressful.

    • I will do but this day will always stuck in my mind because he is my boyfriend

    • Don't worry im sure he isn't that grossed out. It happens.

  • He doesn't care that you pooped. If you play in the butt, you're gonna get dirty. It's the nature of the beast.

  • That's like coming over to my house and I'm never there. If you go up there (your ass) you will find it (shit)... Don't be so hard on yourself.

  • Its normal especially if you don't have experience or know how to prepare but you shouldn't feel bad any guy into anal should understand the possibility if they have anal sex.

  • If he likes anal even half as much as i do then he is well aware that poop is inevitable. Personally, when I do my after-sex pee, if I see poop streaks on my dick I pretty much immediately get an erection, which makes it hard to pee. Once it was so bad I had to jerk off before I could pee. Handily, I was already lubricated, but definatly washed my hands, of course..

  • We call this a backfire

    • We call him a dick. He didn't give a fuck just went straight balls deep right? To many men do this

  • If he like anal it comes with the territory. Only porn stars do a regime to prep before an anal scene to make it clean. Its going to be messy unless you want to constantly eat a low residue diet and enema before you go out.
    good luck with that routine.

  • From what you have said, it wasn't an issue for him, so you shouldn't need to worry about it.
    However as you are stressed by it & are in a relationship with him, I would talk to him about it & maybe that will help you accept it is not an issue :-)

  • Well if you go to the well do not expect to not get water. In other words he put his penis in your butt where you poop so he got some poop on him. So what? Tell him to stay out of the poop hole if he can't handle it!!

  • Uww. Just let it go

    • I try but ıts hard. because he is not a ons or fuckbuddy he is my boyfriend.

    • Get relaxted. No more important than you

  • Quit having anal sex

    • I don't need to quit, ı just need be prepared before ıt but I can't change past.

  • Well... that's what a butthole is for... For pooping.

    However, I'm kind of surprised that you let him put it in your vagina and your mouth after that happened. I honestly wouldn't recommend doing that in the future.

    • I was shocked and tried to make him satisfied to recover my crime

    • I didn't know what ı was doing.

    • It's okay. I understand.

  • If you’re going to get fucked in the bottom, it’s important to recognize that poop is an occupational hazard. Accept it, clean up, and move on. He didn’t react because he wasn’t bothered by it.

  • Don't get too worked up. It's a known hazard of anal sex. You certainly aren't the hottest or last girl to have some poop slip out.

  • I don't think he cared. Shit on your penis is something that can happen during anal. If he breaks up with you because of that, he's a terrible person.

  • Whenever there is crap in the hole you are playing in. There is always that chance of getting a little messy!

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