Would you have sex with a friend to console him/her?

Question

TemptedTerry · Accepted Answer

A female buddy going way back 'lent a hand' after I split with my first long time girlfriend.

My friend had been there for me, took me out. Got me to leave the house, and motivated me to keep going to work.

After a week or so, she had made me dinner at her flat. We got on to the subject of sex, and I confessed I was unable to masturbate since my girlfriend left me. My friend just casually said "I'll lend you a hand after dinner if you would like. Your balls must be full going this long without any release". I kinda shrugged and said "yeah, we can give it a try".

After dinner watching tv, she took her top and bra off and told me "look at these while I give you a release, but don't touch!"

She fished my cock out and she worked her hands over me, all the time I starred at her splendid tits. Jiggling as she stroked me.

I have to admit it was one of the best orgasms of my life, though it probably helped I hadn't blown my load for so long.

She happily carried on giving me topless handjobs until she got with a guy 3 months later.

She was a great help then, and is still a top friend. She'll be in my life forever.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Accepted Answer

it really depends because I think that the person you should choose to spend the rest of your life with should be your best friend because you never want to hurt your best friend or belittle them or yell scream and argue if I loved my friend then yes and she would become my best friend

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

No, because that crosses the line between friend and boyfriend.
Besides that's the reason he is a friend in the first place: I'm not attracted to him in that way.

Seriously, why would you do that knowing it would change the dynamic of said friendship if you do?

MsTaniaUncensored · Accepted Answer

No, i dont believe that is healthy for either person. It would be a momentary distraction and when someone is vulnerable may not be the best idea emotionally.

MrOracle · Answer

I have a few times. We all know how guys need sex to be happy, but that's true for an awful lot of women too, even if it's not PC to admit it in public.

katiesmuff · Answer

I wouldn't consider many of my past sex partners anything more than friends, but never spread my legs for any just to console them for some reason.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Haha yes.

roody · Answer

Definitely not. I don't mix friendships with sex.

JaneDoe377 · Answer

Definitely not

DrippingHoney · Answer

Absolutely not

likelyOK · Answer

No!! It’s not sympathy pussy

hornyafbi69 · Answer

Sex shouldn't be treated like that but yeah ig they made the s word "acceptable" and not shameful for a reason right

Reaperbot666 · Answer

if we happen to both be single then maybe. depends on how good of friends we happen to be. helps if there is a history of sexual desire from one or both sides.

Weasly · Answer

Depends on the context, depends on the friendship. If I thought it would ruin the friendship, no.  If I thought it would help her more, then probably yes.

Agape93 · Answer

Yes and have before

nodnol32 · Answer

Nope.

Imsmart_urdumb · Answer

A friend with beenfits, not just a regular friend

Ripper_E · Answer

I would have sex with a friend because I want to. If it just so happens to make them feel better, then that's great, but I wouldn't do it only for that reason.