My girlfriend is becoming excessive with my sexual release. Should I put a stop to it, or just roll with it?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing Laura now for a year. We got a flat together after lockdown ended in July. And we have just got back from holiday earlier in the month. She is fantastic in many ways, there is one such 'fantastic' way I am finding a little too overbearing though.

Sex has always been great, and she is a very giving lover. However, since we moved in, her giving ways have become kinda over the top.

So, I have stopped setting my alarm for work. I don't have to anymore. My girlfriend wakes me up with a morning handjob smiling sweetly at me as she does this. And this is every morning Mon-Fri.

And if I go out in the evenings, or at the weekend, she drops to her knees and gives me a blowjob. 100% of the time, no matter where I am going. We have probably dropped to having sex about twice a week, usually at the weekend as a result.

What's driving this is her very weird feminine logic. Essentially, she wants all of my sexual energies and thoughts 100% focussed on her. And she believes that if I leave the house with my balls drained, then I will be less sexually attracted to any other female I may cross paths with.

Also, she blew me like 3 times a day on holiday to lower my potential 'sexual interest' in any bikini clad/topless sunbathing girl we may come across.

Now, this isn't my logic, it's hers. And so far I have just gone with it, cus well yeah. It's pretty awesome, and it makes her happy and more secure.

It's just like, sometimes I just want to go to the shop for some milk or whatever without her feeling the need to get me to ejaculate before I do so. And there is the small negative impact on our levels of sexual intercourse.

While I loved it, and still do to a point, it is just starting to wear a bit thin now. Should I talk to her about it and try to figure out what is causing these insecurities, or just carry on with lots of sexual release and not worry about it too much?

[Anonymous]

Yeah my wife is like this kinda, she's an early bird and wakes me up every morning with a blowjob and considers it her mission to drain my balls once a day because she wants all my sexual energy focused on her. I mean I guess it works as I've never been tempted by another another woman lol. Love you babe ❤

[msc545]

You need to talk to her about why she doesn't trust you

[Asker]

Oh right. I didn't actually connect trust with the behaviour. It's a good point. I will raise it with her. Thank you.

[msc545]

Glad to help

[ManWithThePlan123]

I get what you mean. There's a lot of pleasure going around but the reasoning is all off. I'd talk with her about it. It might be that she just loves giving blowjobs, but still communicating is key here. Just don't be an asshole about it.

[hornyafbi69]

Huh um um huh tf just happened? Uh aging sucks is about all I got here

[SuccessfulHornDog]

It sounds like the kind of thing that won't be easy to keep up for her for very long

[Twalli]

I would talk to her about it.

[In_Trance]

roll with it

[OddBeMe]

Do what makes you comfortable.

[Anonymous]

talk to her about it and tell her its too much