If eating and having sex satisfies a "hunger" (of different kind), then masturbation is like eating junk, satisfies only a desire for only a short time.
This means, if a person has regular sex, then masturbation is absolutely unnecessary.
But if sex is irregular, masturbation may meet a moment's hunger, but not a substitute for sex.
Hence in my opinion, if you are already in a sexual relationship, why not talk to your partner to start a sex-filled lifestyle?
Schedule all the sex sessions in each day of the week and follow through. Then no masturbation at all. Your life will be a lot happier and richer this way.
Generally speaking, yes. Some people have high sex drives though, probably people with high dopamine activity in the brain.
I remember your boyfriend has ADHD, in ADHD there is significantly low dopamine activity in the brain, in some cases low norepinephrine activity as well. Both dopamine and norepinephrine are linked to arousal, and dopamine is linked to a high sex drive.
ADHD medication are well known to increase your sex drive quite significantly, stimulant medication for ADHD will have the strongest effect but they have strong side effects as well. Non-stiumlant medications like Straterra and Wellbutrin are a good alternative if you have trouble handling stimulants.
Makes sense. I was the same. When I broke up with my boyfriend ended up looking for casual stuff but it didn't satisfy me long term so ended up getting quite a collection of toys that keep me satisfied including kinks that I wouldn't tell people
My ex did know of a few kinks and it turned him on when he found out a few and it's hot thinking about it.
If you ever want to chat and have a laugh about them let me know. Kinks are always fun to have but it's hard trusting someone with it
Not true. He prob is just lazy. It's way easier to fuck ur hand than a person less energy exhumed. Mayne spice up ur sex life. Or have him get checked if his testosterone is low. Or figure out a different thing to do instead of sex for intimacy
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It makes no sense that he masturbates all the time but wouldn't rather have sex with you. How can masturbation be better that sex with a woman? On top of that, he doesn't care about your needs. He sounds like a bad boyfriend. You should find someone who values your strong sexuality, thinks you are amazing, and can't keep his hands off of you.
I have no idea, because I haven't had sex in quite a while and do the self-deed only about two to three times a week (which is apparently low for men). Also, men are easily 10 to 100 times more horny than women, despite what the internet might try to lie to you and suggest otherwise.
Since you are so kinky, I think I would prefer lots more sex with you than masturbating!
Yes and no lol ,, im the same as you I masturbate everyday tho I do it because I want to feel something. I do it because of the fantasy we could be chatting about something and if I feel you and your words then I feel ur energy and once they touch I want you to feel it to , so I push my energy in to yours because it is intense it is beautiful it is hot so in saying all of that if you understand what I'm saying and if you learn how to do that do he feels it and you he will want sex all the time
Yea because he waste his energy on masterbation while he has a willing girlfriend at home.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/r5s_UE6WCDUThis is why tantra and ejaculation control is important for men. It's also not a good sign if has a low sex drive and is young since it would only get worse. Porn is reputed to be quite a sex drive killer in men. If he watches it and stopped it he'd probably want to tear your clothes off any time he's near you.
No, not necessarily, it depends on the person. There are as many different answers as there are people.
for me its true... im a chronic masturbater and very rarely have sex... many would assume its because i dont have sex that i masturbate so much but in my case i just like a really good wank.
Yes and no
Compulsive behavior is bad a sign of other emotional issues. Yes, it lowers sex drive slightly, research shows a correlation with lower libido and excessive porn masturbation.
I can masturbate in the morning and still have no trouble coming to attention if my girl puts on an outfit that says CFM. I'm an old man.
When I was 20 I could go 7 times in one night.
Everyone is different.
You are with the wrong guy lol Actually i am being honest , usually relationships that have opposite sex drives leads to failure , the person with the higher sex drive will be left depressed and miserable while the person with the low sex drive will be fine cuz they basically feel they can have sex with their partner when it’s convenient for them , I was with a girl with a low sex drive and I was always left feeling unwanted and unfulfilled , I met someone else that loved sex as much as I did so I ended it with the low sexy drive girl , so finding someone with very similar sex drive as yourself is awesome to find , if you stick with someone that doesn’t really fulfill you you won’t be happy in that relationship. My question is why is he masturbating? Knowing he can have sex with you anytime why his he even masturbating? That would raise a question for concern to be honest , if I was you I would feel that person didn’t desire me to much that they need someone else to fulfill them
Yes this is true. Have him do semen retention for 90 days, that should change things.
You can masturbate a few times a week or more and still have sex on a regular basis. Both are fun.
Disagree
He need to stop masturbate, you as well and both to make more sex, in time the senzation will become more intens. You 2 need to try to keep making sex whit 0 masturbation in order to become more sensitive for your partener.
Agree bcoz that will decrease your efforts for sex
I don't think your conclusion about masturbation is necessarily correct. Your sex drive is more of a "use it or lose it" type thing. Though a guys sex drive could be less intense if he jerks off a lot. Personally OI think he's nuts. You are a very attractive woman with a high sex drive and that is intensely desirable. Does he masturbate to any particular type of porn? A lot of huys get turned on by iorl on girl and that isn't necessarily part of the sexual relationship between the two of you, though you could always try to include it. A horny girl as hot as you are is quite an asset to ignore.
If he masturbates often that is most likely the reason your not having more sex then you are.
He watches porn, and so has wired his brain to get off on that more than from you
For me it's not true, I only get hornier and want more sex, masturbation doesn't make my levels go down
Then your guy should like you masturbating a lot so you will want to have sex with him more! Like grab him as soon as he gets home and drag him to the bedroom. Or just do it right there (after shutting the door!)
Makes sense but why does he jack off instead of visit you? That's silly... i have a less than average sex drive but when I have a girlfriend that gets satisfied with no problem and I don't have to masturbate, that's why we have bootycalls
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