Should I start to use a bigger dildo or stay the same size?

I've got a 6inch and it satisfies me, but Im not sure If I wanna try a bigger one. I dont want to stretch myself out too much but a bigger one would obv satisfy more. Opinions on it?
Should I start to use a bigger dildo or stay the same size?
Should I start to use a bigger dildo or stay the same size?
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    • average male penis between 5-7 inches long. so since you currently have a 6 that is in the ballpark. but your call if you want something longer.
    • however could try something a bit thicker and/or longer instead.
    • while it is true that size and shape of a guys dick. can effect his ability to pleasure a girl to some degree.
    • if your talking vaginal sex. the average woman's canal is 2-4 inch deep when not horny. but can expand and/or stretch to 4-8 inch deep when horny. however some can go more those are just the average numbers.
    • but there are those who have a condition better known as shallow vaginal canal. where at max they can only fit 5 or 6 inches deep inside.
    • if the woman is sufficiently aroused or horny. typically requires a decent amount of foreplay. they might need a decent amount of lubrication (saliva or tube lube).
    • so both people might need to preform oral on each other to some degree. while taking it slow at first so she can get used to the size and shape.
    • average width of a woman's vaginal canal is 1-2 inches wide. but it has the ability to stretch and/or expand out more depending on her level of arousal. since it can stretch and/or expand to let out a baby after all.
    • the average woman's g-spot is only 1-3 inches deep inside her. so if a guy can hit that mark regularly. she should still feel a good amount of pleasure. might need a vibrating toy, use fingers or switch up positions to hit the g-spot. since it can be a difficult angle to range.
    • however good foreplay skills can tip the scale in his favor for sure. when it comes to pleasing a woman. since most girls tend to orgasm better from clit simulation.
    • ideally just talk with her and ask what she likes and dislikes. she might be unsure but willing to try something new.
    • many girls who like 9+ inch typically do anal or oral more then vaginal. however there are those rare few. who can take one that big vaginally. with little or no discomfort.

Most Helpful Guy

  • One slightly insecure (but not anonymous) opinion. Not scientific, but close.
    First, your vagina is mostly a fixed length. Above your cervix, it is under 3 inches. Below it you are more roomy and expandable. Your vagina is elastic and does not take a permanent set. But it does become comfortable with the length you are receiving and, in my experience, takes a little time to reset to where anyone entering fills you up again. So If you are not in a sexual relationship and don't anticipate one soon, going longer is alright. Width is something else. Two things control "tightness". One is the general nature of the muscles around your vagina (the tube inside). While insertion felt new when you first started out, those muscles relaxed, but will never take permanent stretch except with traumatic child birth. Your vagina will just be more comfortable with a wider object like it is does for length but it can reset when that larger object is no longer entering you. The other thing is the circle of hymen remnants at the entrance of your vagina. These provide a guy a pleasant tightness sensation when he first enters. Going to a wider dildo will, in my opinion, permanently stretch the entrance out a little and some guys will be denied the snugness you have now. I would likely be one of those guys.

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  • Since your vaj is elastic, you are not gonna permanently stretch yourself out.

    I would go bigger, thicker, and with a vibrator in it, and waterproof...

    You don't have to put the whole thing inside yourself. Only take what you can handle. Going bigger is MINDBLOWING and just like with men, once you go bigger/thicker, you won't want to back to average and small.

    I have 3 dildos/vibrators:

    6" long and 5.5" around.. too short and too thin.

    8" long and 6.5" around.. longer is nice coz I have something to hang on to..

    14" long (3-4" is mostly handle) and graduated girth; starts at 6" behind the 8" head and goes up to 8" at about 10" along the shaft.. 13" is fully insert-able.. only gone the full 13: like 3 times.

    All three, 6, 8, & 14" can be put on a strap on belt for girl fun.

    My man also bought this f*****g huge black 18" dildo for anal sex.. not my fav and he only has used it like 10 times.. it was a big waist of money to me... $49...

  • It depends on whether you want to create tiny tears around the entrance of your vagina so that it burns to pee. I think you might be interested in the Dante Horse Dildo on Etsy. It is made just like an erect horse penis. Perhaps that would be a lofty goal to obtain.

    Should I start to use a bigger dildo or stay the same size?
    • Shazam! That’s a lot of... uh... stuff. 😳

    • @JPrez isn’t that a bit too sick?

    • @NYlatefun I guess it could be. I hope no horses were hurt during the making of the product.

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  • I can't actually help with the question but you're really pretty! (*´∀`*)

  • Simple

    Should I start to use a bigger dildo or stay the same size?Should I start to use a bigger dildo or stay the same size?
  • Why would a bigger one obviously satisfy you more? Most guys will hit a woman's cervix during sex at some point despite being average sized, this is unpleasent for the woman. So why would bigger be better if average is average? Do what you want but if you need bigger then their might be something wrong with your vagina, either its bigger/looser then average or you simply don't understand your own body well enough to hit the spots that feel good with your average size one. Again, what ever works for you but you probably don't need bigger unless something is off (or if its just a purely psychological/visual thing for you).

  • A dildo is never going to satisfy you.

    Why not date me? I love Asian, and I love younger women!! and you look perfect!!

    Seriously, you're very gorgeous, highly fuckable, so PM or something.

  • Why wouldn't you just opt for a vibrator in the same size?

  • Buy bigger. Vagina doesn't stretch out it goes back to its normal size after u play.

  • try something with a lot of vibrations like a battery powered toothbrush it's stronger than a lot of the toys at the adult toy store and it only cost 7 bucks at the dollar store

  • Hey Jade well if you were my girl friend you would be getting stretched I think if you want to experience bigger you should ,, I think by using a toy by your own hand you can control how you want it I can tell you this from experience ,, it doesn't mater the size if s guy doesn't know how to use it then your not going like it, but if he does then your going to want it all the time,, and that's all ur going to want. I say go for it and enjoy it so let us know if you did , or I guess we will know by your next question where can I find a guy with a big

  • Have you tried a vibrator? My fiancée loves hers.

  • Regardless of the elastic effect, it is the mental and physical damage. I had a lady friend that used a dildo for a long time. Eventually she got bored and wanted more, bigger, more functions. So she started buying bigger and bigger. After a while she had been getting off so much to huge vibrators that she couldn't have a orgasm through normal intercourse.

    Same thing happens when people indulge into unrealistic porn. They begin watching so much all the time, getting off to it that they can't perform during normal intimacy with a real person.

    A healthy curiosity isn't a bad thing if you keep it in check.

  • Try what ever feels right I prefer thick ones but used to just use a brush handle kinda gotta experiment to find out what you like.

  • Use a bigger one. You don't get stretched out permanently. Fill that pussy, beautiful

  • You could just use my tongue instead, just saying. ;)

  • Lmfao you realize a dildo won’t stretch your vagina out right... it’s basic knowledge..

    • Yah but lots of girls still haven't learnt that yet

    • @pizzalovershouse she’s 19 years old they usually teach you your body goes back to normal fairly esrltb

    • Early*

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  • The solution @Jadey_Chen is: try my real 7.2 inches-when-hard penis first, then if it feels better inside your sexually aroused vagina than your 6" dildo, get a bigger-sized dildo 🍆 !

  • Bigger.

    • Longer or thicker?

  • dont go up. when you get a man and tell him you were using something bigger than his, you will wreck him mentally. not to mention you are chasing a dragon by using that thing and risking not being as satisfied as you could have by an actual dude. which will also wreck him mentally.

  • if your existing one doesn't satisfy you anymore or feels too small then go bigger, or get one that is a different shape or has more texture to it... or even a more powerful motor ;) :P :P

  • Rookie mode.

  • Why did you post your pics lmao?

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