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Do all men suffer from some degree of the Madonna–whore complex?

RingOfFire
There is a notion that men require two kinds of women in their lives and cannot feel complete without a relationship with both. As their wife and mother of their children, they want a chaste, faithful, innocent, highly moral woman who will reflect the best of human values to instill in their offspring. But as a sexual partner, to put it bluntly, they want a whore. It's no wonder women are so confused about this by the way. I see so many who cannot decide which type they want to portray themselves as to attract men.

Not all men exhibit the same degree of dichotomy in this regard, but I think most if not all have some degree of this complex (although it's not always obvious). It seems to be an inescapable part of male DNA. No doubt this is related to the much higher rates of infidelity of men around the world and throughout history compared to women.

The physical manifestations of this are described here.

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In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship.[1] First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence,[2] this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).[3] Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love."[4] Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing in 2009, stated that the complex "is still highly prevalent in today's patients".[3]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna%E2%80%93whore_complex
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Do all men suffer from some degree of the Madonna–whore complex?
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