Should I seek therapy?
Before July, I met this guy. Recovering drug addict. My first thought was him being insecure. I could witness it in the body language and so forth. This guy ended up being a narcissist. Said things that flattered me. He didn't mean it. If he wanted to have sex and I said No, he got mad. He bashed my body sexually. My body language, moans, the way I orgasmed, so forth. He forcefully a few times.. grabbing my hand during cuddling, he wanting a hand job. Verbally hurling over here.. He left me as if I was nothing. He told his parents and friends about me.
I have the worst luck with guys. From the beginning to current. This whole thing started around August 31. I feel so low of myself. I feel as if I'm living the same day. I feel like I can't be happy.
I KNOW my family and friends are there for me. They know how I feel. The thought of having sex again, I can't do it. I can't think of affection or cuddling. Again, I'm hurling in disgust over here.. When I reached out to his ex... Long story, short. She told me I should be blessed that this lasted for only 2 months. She got PTSD from him. He verbally abused her. Hit her. Bashed her. She told me if I ever brought it up... She would give me living hell. I respected her.
It upsets me the most he can just live through today and act like nothing is wrong. While I feel so crumbled up into reality. We all have heart break. I've had it. But I never felt so LOW.
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