What would you think of the girl you're seeing if she starts crying when you're undressing her?

[Anonymous]

Lets say you're about to get intimate with a chick you like and she starts getting emotional and even cries when you u dress her and she's naked.

What would you think of that?

im not much experienced when it comes to men and sex (i had sex 3x so far). When i had my first time (with a guy who didn't like me at all bit i was naive), I almost started crying right after cause i regretted it so much (and till this day).
I feel like I def am the type to get emotional when getting intimate cause I have a really hard time letting people close to me.

Would you think Im nuts? Im just a sensitive woman and feel things (too) deeply...

[PrudentGuy]

I'm sure I'll be really concerned.

Firstly, I would only reach bedroom level with a girl I cared about. Hence if she cries there, I certainly want to know why.

Secondly, when I'm in the bedroom with her, I'm sure horny because I would had waited for that day. And that wait could be long. Hence I'd not give up easily.

With the above concerns, I'll likely sit and talk with her, then offer comfort if I think it would help.

And there is a likehood I'll offer to bathe and then massage her to help relax her.

If it helps, then the sex will continue.

Otherwise I'll be really disappointed but I'll likely tell her to get dressed and then talk about it outside the bedroom and then reinforce the relationship. Sex will come again when she is more ready.

But TBH, if she feels that there is no possibility of future sex at all, then I'll break off and move on.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I'd feel bad for her and just ask if she wants to stop and try to calm her down and comfort her. I hate seeing a girl I like get upset, so I'd wanna relieve her of those bad feelings. If it happened literally every time we try to have sex then I'd want her to consider therapy or something so she can move past it, because without the sex I'd get frustrated over time and that could really be a thorn in the relationship. But I'd try to be patient at least the first few times, maybe it would go away when she trusts me a bit more, who knows

[JoyGirl]

It is ok, hun. Is it that you just feel dirty for giving your virginity to the wrong person?

[NamerOfStars]

I'd stop immediately and try to figure out what the problem was. If someone's under the impression that I'm forcing them into sex, they're mistaken, and something has clearly gone seriously wrong somewhere.

[MysteriousT]

I'd stop undressing her and give her a hug. Then I'd talk to her about what's wrong and most probably we'd end up not having sex but just having deep conversations.

[Asker]

This is so pure and kind and beautiful. Thank you for being such a great man. Your girl is lucky to have you.

[MysteriousT]

Thank you :) Seeing this from an emotional girl like you means a lot to me. I guess I'm just as emotional as you are when it comes to girls crying. I just can't ignore it by any means. Especially if she's someone I know and care about. I don't have a girlfriend but if I did I'd for sure make her comfortable with everything before we get into such occasions.

[Asker]

Emotional intelligence in a guy is so attractive, it makes us fall in love with you even more. you're amazing, you're truly a jackpot!

[MysteriousT]

I think you're exaggerating it but once again thank you :) The same goes on my side as well, I get along well with emotional girls. On the contrary to the usual belief, I believe most girls aren't emotional. They just pretend as if they are since this is seen as a feminine attribute by many guys. So when a girl truly has deep feelings towards his lover and she expresses it like you do, it's a huge bonus for me.

[Berethor]

I might tell her to stop acting like a virgin, when she is clearly not a virgin already.

[normalice]

I'd assume she wasn't into it and offer to watch a movie or something instead.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Run away before I get MeToo'd

[pigoat]

Because of you just wrote i would stop and talk for a few minutes

Then i would leave

[Nick568]

I won't lie, I'd be pretty uncomfortable and I'd feel like I did something wrong. In that situation, I would hope that the girl would at least communicate with me so I could figure out what's going on and how I can help.

[MarryMeLoba]

Get dressed up and stop everything. I wouldn't want her to press charges

[DiversityHire]

In the right situation it would really turn me on

[TheFlak38]

nothing. I would fuck her first. she can cry all she wants afterwards.

[dudeinohio]

I'd leave. That's a rape charge in the making... bye bye...

[Valnac]

You may have relationship anxiety.
There is counseling for that.

[jirwin7979]

as a guy who is body shy i would stop n ask if your ok and try to comfort u

[Anonymous]

That they have some type of social anxiety and brought up afraid of everything

[Anonymous]

I think both of you need counseling. Why is he wasting time with someone he hates and why are you with a fucked up pos?