Male, 24 years old, still a virgin. What should I do?

I never been in a relationship and never had sex. (I'm a straight male by the way) How do I move forward if I ever get in a relationship? Do I find someone in the same situation as me? Would it be awkward, or should I just keep moving despite if it happens or not? I think one thing that held me back is being shy, and knowing most people around my age are active, makes me even more shy. Opinions?
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  • (I answer with all good intent. If it sounds hurting, please take the writings with a pinch of salt.)

    1) "shy" is a bad excuse. Stop using that word and from now on, tell yourself you're brave.

    2) self improvement. You sounds like a "nice guy". And "nice guys" don't get the girls.

    Learn to be a little more dominant, know what you want and express it it both words and action.

    E. g. when asked "where to eat?" Say a place, one and only. (But avoid being arrogance.)

    3) learn to be socially confident. Join a speech and drama class if need be.

    E. g. learn to talk from a platform. Recall the days you do class presentation. Bring it to a higher level. Establish eye contacts, kkke around a bit, talk and ask questions to individuals.

    Sexual confidence needs this as foundation.

    4) girls in social classes also have similar desires. Approach and date them. Begin non sexual.

    When you learn to win her heart, then learn to win her body.

    Yes, learn. Hence be prepared to fail. Its ok. You only need one pass to lose your virginity.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Being a virgin is a good thing. Not so good that you don't have dating experience though. Just go for someone you like and start dating man. What's the worst that could happen?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say just go out and date people that have similar interests as you so that way it's easier to talk to them when you meet up. One thing you can do if you can't do normal dating is platonic dating with people who are single. Whether you have sex with someone or not depends on how close you are with them while dating. I wouldn't worry about it as much since these things take time and you have to be able to be patient and just go with how slow everything is. What's more important to you right now though? Getting to know someone and possibly be in a relationship someday or is sex the only thing you're after and want?

    • Well, getting to know someone but I just wanted to get the first one out the way.

  • Just find any girl that's up for sex and get some practice in

    • Good places to look?

    • You need to know your local area. As a rule smaller venues are better

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I was made fun of by my yellow skin half breed roommate about being a virgin

    That is bad

  • 6 more years before you'll develop superpowers.

  • I didn't get a girlfriend until I was 27 for mostly the same reason. I would try Bumble because responding is far easier than initating.

  • Find a good relationship first and then please ask this question again. No offense intended, but you are getting too far ahead of yourself at this point.

  • Alright lemme tell u what u have to do go to the club pick a drunk girl then ask her to fuck u