This comment isn't meant to make you feel like a bad person, people do make mistakes, we are all human, the question is: whether you are open to alternative school of thought or understanding and understand you might be on the wrong path that need a change of direction.
Acting like a p*ssy? That is wrong, you have no right, it's his life, he's an adult, he chose to be with her, it's not your place to change that. You aren't him, and don't expect him to be you and see it how you see it.
You are still young and you will fight this because you think you understand but you don't no offense intended, once you grow older, with experience, you will understand how things are on the ground, like when roles are reversed for example. How it would be if you were in her shoes, how it would be if you were a boyfriend or girlfriend to a teenagers' father or mother, step father or mother who feels you are the wrong choice, he /she will disrespect you and make you feel unworthy to be with his or her biological father or mother. This is an issue to many step fathers or mothers (or boyfriends / mothers in the similar context) all over the world, its a matter of fighting for that 'space'. In some cases, when this happens, their partners choose to stand by them. This is exactly what is happening here, you dislike your fathers girlfriend and you are giving her hard time, she just fighting back for the space and your dad is standing by her so stop over thinking, overreacting and complaining.
The prefrontal cortex of an 18 year old is not fully developed until age of 25, give yourself time to learn and grow.
My advice: Your dads life if his, focus on yours, focused on college and building your career, build your life and support your dad, be humble, good to people, respect your fathers choices, respect your fathers girlfriend, respect is earned not given.1 0 0 0Thank you so much for this :) this definitely helped
Welcome. Similar to a how a flower grows incrementally, people also blossom in stages. As we age, we expand our knowledge of how the world works and how other people respond to our deeds. We also expand our communication skills in order to communicate both our thoughts and feelings. When things seem to fall apart, it's time to change strategy, its hard to do same thing repeatedly and expect different results. Take care.
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Sounds like she's straight up a domestic abuser. I wouldn't be so quick to judge your dad and calling him a "pussy" to strangers on the Internet, if the genders were reversed people would be saying "oh she did nothing to deserve this awful treatment", but when it's a man on the receiving end, "oh he's just a pussy".
But clearly this bitch needs to go, and it sounds like her claws are pretty dug into your father. I don't know the solution, just try to remember that your dad never asked this woman to be this way, she is the primary disruptor in your household. Try to be patient with your dad, and don't hesitate to involve the proper authorities if this woman escalates her pattern of abuse. Maybe it would be better if he had a stronger backbone and told the bitch where to get off, but you could say the same thing about all the women who've gotten raped, like "oh you should've just fought him off harder", its a dangerous logic to go down2 1 0 0Thanks for your insight
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You're 18. Leave and get your own place if you don't like daddy's girlfriend.
1 1 0 0Easier said than done but thank you. I will probably be doing that in the next few months
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0 3tldr, move out.
0 0 0 0You are 18, that’s old enough to move out.
I’d let the two of them stay clueless.
You seem to be the smart one in this situation.
Good luck!1 0 0 0stop causing trouble ya rascal
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