Because I don’t want to ruin his life. We’re both college students and have a future ahead of us
I see, but you also mature enough to have a sex, so you should be ready for the possibility of becoming parents, it's not likely to happen if you on pills, but it not the end of the world if you have his baby.tvtropes.org/.../BabiesEverAfter
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The only clear way to avoid risk of pregnancy is to not have sex, but where's the fun in that? :)tvtropes.org/.../WheresTheFunInThat
@Berethor if a girl sticks to handjobs, oral and/or anal. good chance should won't get pregnant either. unless the guy pulls out and releases his load pretty much on top of her vagina. so some of it gets into and manages to knock her up. which is rather rare but could happen.
@Reaperbot666 oral is not true sex, and many girls don't enjoy anal, so it not a good choice.tvtropes.org/.../TechnicalVirgin
Did you not take it on time? Also how about bc and condoms paired together? I actually want to try sex without condoms at least once and then have him pull out but I don’t know
i took my pills on schedule... i agree with Gwenhwyfar.. condoms cut your feeling and his and make for a poor sexual experience.Pulling out is akin to watching a sex porno vid.. it is messy, and as a woman, you get NOTHING from it orgasm or feeling wise.I suggest getting on good BC and maybe an IUD.. then he doesn't have to wear a rubber or pull out.sex all the way to the end, (him cumming inside you) is the way our bodies are made for and for the ultimate enjoyment.
I can’t afford an iud right now :(
you can always go to Planned Parenthood and see what they can offer you.. most of their services for BC are free.
How about an 18 year old? I was 18 when I lost my virginity
18 is legally adult you know that lol 😂💗
I know just a bit of an overthinker as usual XD
🤗 you are in a good place. You are an adult but your parents still love you. some people don’t have that.You just need to figure out how to guide them into the future wake them up to the fact you are their daughter and always will be but are an adult.And I know your mom is difficult but I did think she loves you. I think she maybe is sad as well.
So it’s only effective when you pair them with condoms? What if he pulls out?
The only 100% protection from getting p pregnant is abstinence. Anything else, there is a possibility. Even when using multiple options
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But there are people that have been having sex for years using different methods and have not gotten pregnant
🍀 lucky or not very fertile or both.
@VIVANT my parents have been using condoms only lol never got pregnant again also how else would you explain couples not getting pregnant for years? And a lot of them don’t even get iuds or anything
I am ✨confused ✨ as always lmao
I mean luck there are billions of people on the world.. So a lot CA n experience soemthing and a lot can experience something else... MANY people use protection and don’t get pregnant... on the other hand majority of births are unplanned. Good chance you won’t but the chance part freaks me out personally. I’m not a huge fan of the actual _ intercourse_ form of sex luckily I’m creative 😂😂😛🤷♀️🤓
Read anything on condom or the bc and it says 'only 99% effective', but still, that's 1% NOT effective. Yes, they work for many people. Just not everyone.
Yup facts of life 🤷♀️ Mostly isn’t total almost isn’t all nearly isn’t fullLike a lot isn’t love 😂😂But lucky is lucky and a lot of people are lucky. But I don't know I don’t get the big deal I mean sex is cool hit there’s so many ways to get to an orgasm 🤷♀️I’m in no way trying to persuade anyone I was just thinking I don’t get the hype 🤔
Esp relative to the risk. But I’m an outlier obviously so ignore me 😁😁.
@VIVANT I used to think the same way lol
I believe that if a girl is mature enough to have sex then she should also be mature enough to become a mom, that's why even if birth control are not 100% effective the "risk" is still likely worth taking.
I agree with that and think men should also be mature enough to take those consequences as well, since it takes two to make that baby.
Wow that does sound horrid lol who wants to feel like they are pregnant all day vey day for most of their life 🤢
@VIVANT Well it is just the hormones and not the actual kid. So not entirely like your pregnant.
Lol damn have u been on bc? I might start taking it my dad is worried about me
I meant the _ hormones_
Nope, I'm a virgin waiting for marriage. I just took a lot of biology courses and this happens to be one of the things I learned in them.
#anonVIVANT14 minI know you’re just the message that was Not an attack on you to anything~~~ it was just the thought of it
@VIVANT this is why i told you that you gain 20 pounds
@Sevenpointfive I won’t allow it.
i know babe. it works for some bodies.
@Sevenpointfive it doesn’t happen to everyone though just some people I just will have to continue to take care of myself
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@Sevenpointfive I asked my gynecologist about the weight gain caused by it and she started talking about that it’s the 20 year old metabolism you can’t just eat what you want 😂 lol. So I just have to be careful I really want to lose weight right now I don’t feel very great
@Sevenpointfive what do you mean by it works for some bodies?
I’m not going to gain 20 pounds not everyone gains 20 pounds
you eat like shit and you aren't starting at a maintained weight. so it's gonna be tough. but from knowledge i assure you that when you get there, it gets sooo easy!!!
@Sevenpointfive I don’t eat like shit. I just don’t exercise enough but I’m working on that. I literally eat broccoli and tofu everyday and I don’t even eat a lot. You shouldn’t say things if you don’t know
My weight isn’t that bad I’m considered average but I don’t like it
I kinda hate being a women guys lose weight faster 😭
all that matters is what he thinks. he liked you 5 months ago. that's how i try to keep my shape
@Sevenpointfive I’m still the same lol
was that an invitation?
@Sevenpointfive lmao. I think what matters is what I think of myself that’s what truly matters right now I don’t feel so great so I should lose weight for me and only me
I just use condoms
I know you’re just the message that was Not an attack on you to anything~~~ it was just the thought of it 😅
🙊 wrong space 🤦♀️
He already does it with the condom
U mean he never came in u? Even ur mouth
When I sucked him yes
So if he cudnt pull out in ur mouth, he may not be able to in ur pussy some time too
Everytime we have vaginal sex he pulls out with the condom he’ll be able to
What if one day he goes in raw.. and the feeling is so intense he can't pull out